1, "intimacy" is the first element of love, and it is the factor that can connect with each other in love. It is the feeling and mentality of thinking for each other, valuing each other, understanding each other, sharing and supporting each other, which is a comfortable feeling; Feel the unconditional acceptance of your partner. Intimacy comes from a spirit of unselfishly willing to sacrifice oneself to satisfy each other.

2. "Passion" is another element of love. It is a state of mind eager to combine with each other and a strong desire and demand. Passion and intimacy complement each other, but without real intimacy, this passion cannot last and its satisfaction is short-lived.

3, "commitment" is the third element of love, like a tripod, the three can not be short of one. Commitment is the basis of maintaining love relationship and the decision of long-term existence of love. People who love each other are willing to overcome all difficulties and cultivate intimacy and passion. Conversely, intimate and passionate relationships also make the commitment more durable.

Behavior of love:

Love will bring psychological changes to both parties in love, first of all, idealization. Two people in love will ignore each other's shortcomings and exaggerate each other's advantages. Idealization can make both parties believe that they have made the right choice. The second is to endure the pain. Even if the person you like refuses, this person will justify the unrequited behavior by enduring the pain. The third is fantasy. People in love will have some illusions about the future, even unrealistic fantasies.

In addition, love can also make a person highly sensitive, especially emotional response to each other's behavior. This not only brings insecurity, but also brings satisfaction. The quality of love can be judged by the above characteristics. Love makes one person emotionally and physically dependent on another.

Losing a lover is often accompanied by chest tightness, loss of appetite, insomnia, anger, depression, nostalgia, emptiness, loneliness, despair, depression, fatigue, nausea, crying and loss of confidence. The best way to treat lovelorn is to divert attention and force yourself to focus on what you are good at in order to increase dopamine concentration in the brain and increase self-confidence and hope.

In addition, exercise and sunshine are also good ways to treat lovelorn. At the same time, it is also very important to help the lovelorn to confirm the rewards and costs that love can bring.