What is social phobia?
Social phobia, also known as social phobia, also known as social anxiety disorder, is an anxiety disorder, which is characterized by obvious and persistent fear when you are in public places or dealing with people, fear of being stared at or negatively evaluated by others, and fear of making a fool of yourself or being embarrassed in front of others, so you try your best to avoid it.
In fact, children only have a tendency to resist social "making friends", which is far from reaching the point of "social fear"
Earlier, so don't label your children as "social fear" easily, pay more attention to enlightenment, and most children will return to normal children.
Why are children afraid of socializing?
Have experienced social failure.
Children used to take the initiative to make friends, but they were refused to be isolated, rejected, even ridiculed or attacked by other children with sincerity. We weren't around when this happened, we didn't stop this behavior, and we didn't enlighten the children in time. Sensitive children will leave a psychological shadow and have fear and resistance to "making friends".
Why are children afraid of socializing?
Influenced by parents
Congenital social phobia may come from the social phobia gene inherited in the family. If we criticize our children too harshly, they will feel inferior and timid, and they will be teased for being afraid of making friends with others. Parents themselves are not good at socializing or always leave their children around to prevent Ta from going out, which will also deeply affect their children.
How to cultivate children's socialization
Support children to make friends.
Give children a clear signal that we especially encourage Ta to make friends, and our support will make children feel more secure.
Step by step, start with children who are easy to deal with. You can say, "Can I play with you?
Pay attention to those children with unfriendly attitude in time, keep them away as far as possible, and enlighten them in time. "They are just in a bad mood for a while. We can go and find another child to play with first, and then come to her later!"
How to cultivate children's socialization
Take children to social activities.
Pay attention to the social activities of peers around you, bring more children to participate, and create social opportunities, such as interest classes, parties, parent-child activities, etc.
Don't interfere with children's activities too much. When you are in conflict at first, you can get familiar with the venue in advance to give children familiarity and security.
First, watch how other children play in the distance, and guide the children to "they all look friendly, do you want to play with them?" Children should be encouraged in time when they take the first step.
How to cultivate children's socialization
Make children popular.
Friendly, helpful, praising others, willing to share, and outstanding loyalty are the characteristics of popular children. If children are shy, they should learn more necessary manners and rules, which will make it easier for children to become popular people. Being kind, not jealous and good at listening will make it easier for other children to regard their children as intimate friends.