Xiaomei approaches the world with a curious friendliness. She likes to gaze quietly at flowers and plants, watch a small ant move about, gaze at a small toad and tenderly touch it with her toes. She was also always attentive to the beautiful chirping of birds and the crickets singing lazily in the grass. Catching two crickets in a small cage and placing them on the windowsill accompanied her every day, carefully feeding them and tending to them. In the daily work of wiping and cleaning, sometimes you will also stare at a beautiful thing out of a moment.
She has a strong connection with everything around her, focusing on the present moment and being able to be kind to everything around her. When a grandfather called out to him to ask about the old lady, he answered politely and kindly, without raising suspicion or being defensive. After a few times, the grandfather opens up to him and tells him a story about himself and the old lady, and Mei encourages the grandfather to help him see the old lady with his own eyes.
She has a strong connection with everything around her, living a real, transparent life. When she sees a young master she likes, she immediately asks to fry the food herself, dress up and give it to her favorite to eat with her own hands. But she didn't want to ask for anything in return, just simply give and express her favorite, so there is no desire to be greedy and possessive, no suffering.
He was honest and sincere to his wife, and responded to her spiritual support, and when he left, he accepted his wife's expensive gifts, and expressed his sadness at being separated from his wife. Then he put aside his sadness and started a new life without any worry or fear.
She is very connected to her surroundings, and without being greedy, she is able to capture Quan's needs and fulfill them in a timely manner without interrupting him, taking good care of him and making him feel as thoughtful and comfortable as air. When Ah Quan accidentally bumped into Xiaomei love beauty dress, Meng Ran marveled at Xiaomei's beauty, realize Xiaomei's good, just like this, Xiaomei simple to win Ah Quan's heart, the two people live happily together.
Thinking about myself, I haven't had the heart to calm down for a long, long, long time, to quietly gaze at a flower, to see a small ant move, to lose the connection with the surrounding, to get stuck in the thinking of the self, to feel the needs of the people around me, to use the self-perceived love to impose on other people, to turn into the control, other people are uncomfortable, and I'm also tired. Now I know, first of all, I have to live a good life, see my own needs, express them truthfully, and fulfill them before I can see others' needs and fulfill them. Finally live as one with the world.