Friend, I don't know if you have been like me, running around numbly in a busy life every day and losing the direction of life; I don't know if you have lived like me. When you get along with people, you are obsessed with calculating gains and losses, remembering him and pretending to agree; I don't know if you have lived like me. In the face of parents' concern, you are used to it, and coldness is right. You can change your life without carefully looking at your parents' growing "gratitude"! Wrinkles and dark circles; I don't know if you have complained about the injustice of heaven, the bad things and bad luck when you are in trouble, like me. .....
When I first met Thanksgiving, I felt as plain as a drop of water. Unconsciously, it quietly moistened my dry heart. Finally, one day, I found a bud sprouting from the desert of my heart. It thrives every day and then becomes a rainforest full of green. Then, I suddenly found that everything around me was changing quietly. ......
Buddhist cloud: there is no ugliness, ugliness is in the heart. The boutique is wonderful. Imagine that when you win the grand prize of 5 million, the noise of car horns on the road and even the curses of others will be as wonderful as Yue Xian. And when you are frustrated, even if the sky is clear and the sun is shining, your heart is full of lewdness, which is the mentality that determines the environment.
Feel with your heart that "gratitude" is everywhere around us, and you will always be touched by it: life is between heaven and earth, everything is pregnant, everything is overwhelming, everything is used by me, what I wear, what I eat, what I use, and what I need for a day. How can you not be grateful every time you think about it?
After a century of humiliation, our motherland once again stood in the east of the world and established the dignity of the people of China. Millions of heroes guarded the border and gave me a dream of a good night's sleep. Think again about that war-torn era, when people were suffering ... how can they not be grateful to the country?
My parents gave birth to me and raised me, and I got pregnant in October. I put up with humiliation and live frugally. I want to leave delicious food for my children, and my parents are very worried. How can I not be grateful to my parents?
The teacher is very kind to me from ignorance to knowledge. I will be a lifelong teacher and a lifelong father. How can I not be grateful to my wise parents? The husband sheltered the family from the wind and rain; Wives do housework and have children; Children bring happiness and dreams to adults ... how can we not be grateful when we think about these?
When the sun is shining, we can meet in March, enjoy outdoor sports, picnic, climb mountains and feel the beauty of nature; Continuous drizzle can nourish the growth of all things, provide us with food, purify the air and be beneficial to health. What are we ungrateful for?
There is such a grateful story: a mother-in-law has two daughters. The eldest daughter sells umbrellas and the youngest daughter buys fans. When the weather is fine, my mother-in-law is unhappy, and the eldest daughter who sells umbrellas today can't save any money! My mother-in-law is unhappy when it rains, and my little daughter who sells fans today can't save any money! Anyway, I'm unhappy every day. Later, a wise man told her mother-in-law that she would think about it with gratitude every day-when it was sunny, I was grateful that my little daughter who sold fans had saved money today! On rainy days, I am grateful that my eldest daughter who sells umbrellas today saved money! My mother-in-law is very happy every day.
Gratitude is a philosophy of life and great wisdom of life. Life cannot be smooth sailing. When you have no shoes to wear, be grateful that you still have a pair of feet. When there are noisy voices bothering you, be grateful that your ears can still hear you ... Learn to be grateful, grateful for what you have, grateful for what life has given you, grateful for your loss, grateful for the cultivation of life, and make you stronger.
Millionaires will be annoyed when they lose100000, and beggars will be happy when they ask for a bowl of hot rice. There should be a wise saying: happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less!
When you are grateful, you will find that your life is also changing quietly: under the same living environment of people, things and things, you will live happily with gratitude. This kind of happiness will improve your health. Don't you believe it? When you are angry and sad, please look at your face, twisted into a ball and ugly; Looking at you when you are happy, your face is as beautiful as a flower. Remember that your face is the largest cell in your body. When you are angry or happy, all the cells in your body are the same as your face. What kind of cell state will be beneficial to the body?
Some people have done experiments, feeding mice with the milk of extremely angry lactating women, and the mice died immediately, which shows the influence of emotional fluctuations on the body. The highest realm of traditional Chinese medicine is health preservation, and the highest realm of health preservation is nourishing the heart. As far as health care is concerned, corporal nourishes, sergeant nourishes and staff sergeant nourishes. China people's "three-point treatment and seven-point support" refers to this heart, and the highest state of heart support is "gratitude".
As the ancients said, a large quantity is a blessing. Always being grateful will broaden your mind, look at the strengths of others and think more about their kindness, and you will treat others sincerely, equally and mercifully. "People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless?" Your kindness will naturally be rewarded in the same way. Family harmony, harmonious interpersonal relationship and prosperous contacts will surely become the cornerstone of your career progress. It is not without scientific reason that the stage of life is as big as the heart!
Buddhists say that the mind can turn to the environment at will. When you are grateful and look at the advantages of others everywhere, your heart is a treasure chest, and your heart must be full of sunshine. A sunny attitude will definitely make you lucky and successful, and all bad luck will not surround you; And a person who hates others and complains, his heart is a trash can. Will a person with a heart like a trash can have good luck and health?
British writer Thackeray said: "Life is a mirror. Laugh when you laugh, and cry when you cry. " Gratitude is not pure psychological comfort, nor is it an escape from reality, nor is it Ah Q's spiritual victory method. Gratitude is a singing lifestyle, which stems from love and hope for life.
Gratitude is the inherent virtue of all things in nature, up to the ancient sage: Confucius-"It's a pleasure to learn from the times; It's a pleasure to have friends coming from afar; People don't know or care, not a gentleman. " Zhuangzi-"My husband has given me a lot of help to live, to grow old and to die". This is gratitude for life and even life and death. Down to the animal's dog savior, the crow feeds back, and the lamb kneels and breastfeeds, which one is not gratitude? ......
Friend, give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Wipe away the dirt in your heart, let your kind nature shine, and say "thank you" with gratitude every day, which not only makes you have a positive attitude towards life, but also makes others feel happy. When others are in trouble, lend a helping hand. When you get help from others, thank you with a sincere smile!
Thanksgiving Day is the apricot blossom that blooms in spring, bringing you wonderful information. "Thanksgiving" is a cool summer breeze, which brings you some comfort; Thanksgiving is a full moon in autumn, which makes you feel like a clear Wan Li. Gratitude is the golden sunshine in winter, which melts the ice and snow in your heart. There is gratitude in my heart, and there are good times in life everywhere!
Friends, might as well have a try. "Thanksgiving" is really like a magic wand, which will change your life unconsciously ... May all friends in the world live their picturesque lives with gratitude.
Ps: Live in a grateful world, and be grateful to the person who hurt you, because he tempered your mind. Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he increased your knowledge. Be grateful to the person who whipped you, because he eliminated your karma. Be grateful to the person who abandoned you, because he taught you to be independent. Be grateful to the person who stumbles you, because he strengthens your ability. Be grateful to the person who scolded you, because he contributed your wisdom. Thank you to all the people who have made you determined to achieve!