High emotional intelligence is implemented in every move, and small tips will teach you step by step to become a person with high emotional intelligence.

As a junior at the dinner table, you should be careful to see if the elders have enough tea, see who is missing chopsticks and spoons, and run more errands and talk less.

When receiving messages such as emails, text messages, calls, etc., you must respond promptly. Firstly, it will reassure your family and secondly, it will also leave a responsible impression on your leaders and colleagues.

Treat others as human beings above others, and treat yourself as human beings below others.

Feng shui is changing, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. Only by respecting others and caring for yourself can you go far.

When you pour tea for your elders, you have to stand up and pour it even if you are very close.

Be careful not to hit the person behind you when walking through a door with a curtain.

When someone wants to make a quarrel with you on the street, don’t be impulsive and don’t quarrel with him.

He just wants to anger you, and when the situation goes wrong, we will turn around and leave.

When you are away from home, if your parents say something wrong about you in front of outsiders, don’t say anything back, just talk and laugh and get over it under the guise; in this case, even if your parents are wrong, if you make a fuss, others will It’s all your family’s jokes. If you are angry, wait until the guest has left.

Leaders and teachers often only look at the results but not the process. If the matter is complicated and you have not given an answer for a long time, he will naturally be dissatisfied.

In fact, part of the leader's dissatisfaction is that he thinks you are fishing; so if you complete things step by step and receive feedback every time you complete it, the leader will not be very angry.

Never be stingy with your words when praising others. No one doesn’t like others to praise them.

When the person you are talking to suddenly picks up the phone, you have to step away slightly and go about your own business instead of standing there and continuing to listen to what they are saying.

For those who are more introverted, we need to take more care of their feelings. She may be too embarrassed to say it.

Misfortune comes from the mouth. Don’t speak ill of others when you go out.

Don’t interrupt the other person when you hear different opinions, listen carefully and summarize carefully. If there are any, then correct them; if not, then encourage them.

When the other party asks you a question, answer it within three seconds. If you really don’t have the answer at that time, you can say: Wait a moment, I will think about it and then reply to you.

At the same time, when others are chatting with you, don’t reply too quickly, as this will make the other person feel a sense of urgency.

Many times, other people’s complaints don’t require you to say anything to comfort her. She just wants to vent, so you can just listen quietly.

Don’t be afraid of teachers and counselors. Your nervousness will also affect the teachers; when you become relaxed and natural, the teachers will naturally chatter.

If you are sensitive and suspicious, your friends and classmates will become cautious in dealing with you; if you are cheerful and generous, then everyone will naturally dare to speak and make trouble.

Subconsciously remember other people’s names, even if you have only met them once. Because you never know when you might meet him again.

But whatever teachers and leaders have said, you must remember it firmly and don’t ask it a second time.

Hide your bad emotions well. No one likes a person who complains every day and has a bad face.

When chatting with others, obey the other person's words more, which can increase the other person's desire to chat and improve the comfort level of chatting.

When you want the other person to be your good friend but he is very defensive, you can slightly expose your shortcomings or tell some embarrassing stories, which can shorten the distance between you.

No matter how bad your mood is or how unsatisfactory your life is, you must clean yourself up when you go out. Because there is a word called: decent.

If you particularly want to point out the other party's shortcomings, you can first highlight them and then suppress them. For example: What you did is really good, we all like it, but it would be better if it was a little more ×××.

Sharing information does not put you at a disadvantage; on the contrary, it makes you the most informed person.

How to master it is as follows:

After the first pass, you will have a preliminary impression.

Deepen the impression.

Review frequently, don’t be too detailed, just go through it when you have nothing to do.

Thinking flashes.

Reviewing many times will make you passively think of the tips given to you by your senior sister when doing such things.

Thoughts turn into actions.

After that, take the initiative to recall methods when doing things and try them consciously.

Think from someone else’s perspective.

Think about these two questions. How would you feel if someone did this to you?

What else do you think she needs to change?

Learn lessons and apply them flexibly.