Previously, I often heard elders say thirty and standing, in ancient times, "thirty and standing" means that people in their thirties know the etiquette, do things in a measured way. It also means that people should have some achievements before and after thirty years old; and now, it seems to have been rolled into another meaning, probably understood as thirty years old is not successful, there is no success. But in reality, can everyone really be thirty?

Previously, someone had done a small social research, the purpose is to query the young people for the current life and ten years ago the life of the happiness index. Surprisingly, more than half of them think that life was happier ten years ago. Nowadays, although they earn more money, and the material aspect is not half a star better than before. However, what comes along with it is the gradual disappearance of the smile on the face and the endless pressure that overwhelms them. Because they are all pursuing a point, is thirty years old.

Most of the young people for the concept of thirty years old have had an understanding, but *** with the same volume is that men should be in thirty years old before the establishment of a family, and even successful. But the reality is that the data is and young people's efforts to run in the opposite direction.

Nowadays, this fast-paced society is full of impatience. Most young people are already twenty-four years old after finishing college, and there are only a few short years before they reach the point they are pursuing. Therefore, in these short years, almost all of them make every effort, in order to catch up in the front of the established age. However, the wheel of society will not slow down because of your catching up, but the speed of wheel inward roll is getting more and more serious. The young man's pursuit of thirty years is also more and more distant.

Later, the young people from the beginning of the work of the work of the regular, off-duty to do part-time, to the later part-time jobs or even a regular all-nighter to do side work. The young people thought they could have a performance before the year, but then it is the skyrocketing housing prices, skyrocketing bride price, and even to go to the market to buy food to weigh their own balance, the only thing that has not risen sharply is the salary.

It is said that the more efforts the more fortunate, I do not know whether it is the times are not the same, instead of the more efforts the more involution, the more efforts the more distant. Thirty and stand up, become a family, success and fame, have you done it? Can you do it?