The newlyweds, parents, elders and witnesses sit at the main table on the left, and the guests of the newlyweds are arranged at the main table on the right.
This is: the couple sits in the center of the main table facing everyone, the groom sits on the left side of the bride, and the groom's left side is his mother, father and parents and elders in turn; On the bride's right are her father, mother and parents' elders. The couple's family sits opposite each other with the couple as the center, and the witness, the best man and the maid of honor sit next to the elders. VIPs invited by newcomers need to be arranged according to the specific situation.
Of course, there are cases where both parents are not at the same table. In some places in China, parents of husband and wife should sit separately, parents of groom should sit at in-laws table, and parents of bride should sit at bride table. At this time, it is suggested that the groom's family group sit in the guest seat on the left or right. The bride's family sits in the guest seat on the right or left, and the parents above the couple sit in the center of the main table on one side, facing all the guests. The newcomer's VIP is arranged in the nearest place to the stage and the main table to show the newcomer's respect for VIP.
Colleagues and business partners should say hello first, then call their elders, and try to arrange deskmates if they are familiar. Unfamiliar people should be arranged at each table, and it will be more polite to take care of them in time. Please arrange them in the middle of the whole banquet area. Young people, girlfriends and classmates don't care much about seats. In terms of age, friends and classmates should be biased towards young people and must be the most active group at the wedding. We might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area, which will not only make them enjoy themselves, but also avoid the influence of drinking on the whole wedding process. This part also includes the staff who help.
Arrange three wedding seats tips 1 The relationship between guests: people who get along better together are more harmonious; 2. The relationship between yourself and the guests: pay attention to the location and the distance from yourself, usually arranged near the main table; 3. When arranging seats, you can ask the food and beverage department to provide a table map and number or name each table, so that all aspects can be better taken care of. Prepare several copies of this dining table map and the guest list printed according to the table, so as to facilitate the guests to sit down and show the host's carefulness.
2. How to arrange the wedding seats?
The left row seats are arranged for the man's house and the right row seats are arranged for the woman's house.
Numbering problem: suppose there are 20 tables, then 1 table is the main table, 2-3 tables, 5- 12 tables are men, and 15-24 tables are women (including 4 tables, 13 tables, 14 tables are not unlucky.
Arrangement: 1 At the main table, parents and elders of both sides are arranged in the front row (convenient for speaking on stage and expressing gratitude), relatives and elders of both sides are arranged in the middle row (convenient for toasting, and the elderly can leave early according to the daily arrangement), and colleagues and friends of both sides are arranged in the back row (because friends and colleagues are often the most hilarious and finally solved).
P.S.: Remember to write the seat card (which lists the seating situation so as not to make mistakes on the wedding day).
3. How to arrange wedding seats in the wedding banquet?
Although the seating arrangement of the wedding is not the most important issue in the wedding preparation, if it is not properly arranged, it is easy for the wedding that should win applause to have the opposite effect: the wedding atmosphere is embarrassing, the guests do not enjoy themselves enough, and even bring unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions.
Therefore, when preparing for the wedding, we must carefully determine the number of guests, study the types of guests and arrange seats for each guest, so as to ensure the smooth progress of our wedding. The first step is to estimate the number of guests. The initial number of guests is usually determined when booking the venue. Newcomers generally have to consider two factors: one is their ideal wedding atmosphere, and the other is the size of the venue. According to the former, plan whether the guests you invite are mainly relatives or classmates and colleagues of the same age, and according to the latter, finalize the number of people you need to invite.
When determining the number of people to be invited at the beginning, it is best to reserve 10% space in case the guests can't come. Step two, make a list and send an invitation letter. According to the initial number of guests determined in the first step, the relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues of both men and women who need to be invited are listed in detail by category, and invitations are sent out 1~2 months before the wedding reception. Although the network communication is very developed now, it is more polite and sincere to use written invitations.
Mind you, don't forget to remind the guests to reply to your time in a gentle tone in the wedding invitation. The popular "blessing card" reply method is very good. The third step is to determine the approximate number of people. After issuing the invitation card 1~2 weeks, you can start to confirm the number of people.
Distinguish guests according to three types: exclude those who can't come for some reason, put a tick before determining the names to attend, put a question mark before some ambiguous names, and indicate the deadline that the other party may determine next to them. Then count the number of guests by category, and take the number of people who can definitely attend the wedding as the base, with an extra 10% to prepare for the specific arrangement.
The fourth step is to arrange the seating table. In the first seating arrangement, those guests who are sure to attend and those who may attend should be considered. The general arrangement rule is to arrange the relatives and friends of both men and women in the left and right directions of the wedding venue, with the red carpet for newcomers to enter as the boundary. Relatives and elders at home are arranged in the inner circle near the main table according to custom. Classmates and friends of the same age as the couple are usually very noisy, but they are arranged in the far outer circle. This can not only show respect for the elders, but also easily create a lively wedding. The fifth step is to confirm the number of people about 2 weeks before marriage, and the couple should launch a final offensive against all invited guests.
Please call again to confirm whether you are a guest who promised to attend before or a friend who needs to be considered. Although this is troublesome, it is a key link in whether the seating arrangement is perfect. On the one hand, it is out of courtesy, on the other hand, it is also to prevent temporary changes. Make a list of final confirmation, and then reserve a table or so as a temporary shift for the day.
Step six, finalize the table number and location. According to the final guest list, fine-tune the table arranged in the fourth step. When arranging the seat number, consider some numerical taboos, such as 4, 13, which are unlucky in the eyes of many elders and had better be removed.
The number of men and women should be balanced. 2~9 is the man's table number. 10~ 15 is the woman's table number, which will cause her some unhappiness. It is best to arrange the seat number of each guest, which is not only a respect for the guests, but also can prevent the embarrassment that the guests can't find a seat on that day.
Tips for seating arrangement: 1. Lawn wedding: If you choose outdoor wedding, especially garden and lawn wedding, you should know in advance which guests are seriously allergic to pollen, and be careful not to arrange these guests around the garden. In addition, don't arrange seats with children near lakes, depressions, expressway, slopes and other places with potential safety hazards.
2. Hotel Wedding: The seats at the wedding banquet are related to the traditional customs of China people, so we can't be careless. If the arrangement is the most reasonable, we can discuss it with both parents in advance. It is best to have a seat label on the dining table so that guests can find their seats accurately.
3. Special restaurant: arrange single men and women to sit at the same table and arrange some team competitions to help them become friends and make good friends the protagonists of the next wedding. "Takeaway" for the wedding banquet: It is suggested to adopt a free vertical dining table in addition to the main table, which is convenient for guests to freely combine and make more friends.
The article is reproduced in Kami Creative Wedding Hall.
4. How to set the wedding table
Pay attention to the wedding banquet seats in Chinese weddings;
Tips 1。 Seats should be arranged according to the seniority of the guests at the wedding banquet, which is called "treat" or "follow-up". The principle of seating arrangement is to respect the upper and lower, respect the right and respect the left. Guests are sorted from high to low according to age, identity and status.
Tips2。 The chairman should put it in the middle of the upper room, and invite the "big relatives" to sit at the right head, the groom's father or uncle at the left head, and the rest according to seniority.
Tips3。 In addition to the main seat in the main hall, the next distinguished seat is placed in the new house. The bride's mother is invited to sit first, accompanied by the groom's mother or aunt. The seats of other seats should also be arranged in order.
Tips4。 After the seats were arranged, the best man announced that the banquet would be held with music and firecrackers. The groom should first propose a toast to the chief and say a few words of thanks. Then the first course in the kitchen will push the wedding banquet to * * *.
Tips5。 All tables and drinks should be the same except the seats where "male relatives" and "female relatives" are located. Generally speaking, there must be a steamed pork elbow. Moreover, the groom should always wait at the table to pour wine and send hot towels to "relatives" to show respect.
Tips6。 The matchmaker has already left before the wedding reception is over. This is called "running away". If he doesn't leave, the "washing media" will wipe his face into the bottom of the pot. After the wedding reception, "Shangqin" went to the back room to rest, ate some snacks, and was accompanied by the man's elders to say some polite words. The handyman moved his seat, and after sweeping the floor, Shang Qin should get up and leave. At the beginning of the day, men should "send away" clothes, shoes and socks and pay attention to red envelopes. "Farewell Kiss" is another lively scene. All decent men in the family should be sent to the door and set off firecrackers to show their respect.
As the protagonist of Chinese wedding, the wedding banquet is very important, and the arrangement of wedding seats is also very particular. I hope my answer will be helpful to the couple who plan to hold a Chinese wedding. But it can also be modified according to the actual situation!
5. How to arrange the guest seats on the wedding day?
The arrangement of wedding seats,
The seats of the guests at the wedding banquet are arranged by the relatives of the man and the woman. These close relatives played an important role in the wedding. Usually, the man and the woman are separated. Perhaps for their families, they can arrange their seats at will, but for the wedding banquet, this must not be sloppy, especially the seats of mom and dad, which are closest to the ceremony area.
The arrangement of wedding seats,
The seats of the elders should be arranged properly. The elders in the family are all relatives of grandparents except their parents. Their positions must be arranged near the stage to facilitate travel. Of course, it can't be arranged in the position of serving, so as to avoid collision when serving.
The arrangement of wedding seats,
Guest leaders pay attention to the arrangement of seats. No matter when the bride and groom get married, there will be company leaders present at the wedding. Their position suggestions are placed around the main table to show their status and convey respect for newcomers.
The arrangement of wedding seats,
The best friend's seat is the easiest to arrange at the wedding. Most of these friends are very close and don't care too much. Of course, it's best to arrange a table to get to know each other, or separate men and women, so that boys have a space to release. Children's seating arrangement, children at the wedding scene are uncontrollable factors, especially children aged 4-7, are more curious, so adults are definitely more naughty. Besides being around parents, we should also avoid unsafe factors around us.
Arrangements for wedding seats, reservations for five,
When arranging seats, the newlyweds can also consider arranging classmates or young friends of both men and women together, which will play a very good role in mobilizing the wedding atmosphere when the newlyweds propose a toast.
6. Wedding Seating Order
Seats at the wedding banquet are very important. In China's traditional etiquette, seats are closely related to people's identity and status. Therefore, in your lifelong event, this detail can't be sloppy!
1, parents and their relatives, friends and colleagues
Both parents should have their own separate seats. Parents' elders, sisters and brothers can be arranged at the same table or at adjacent tables in the same area. It is also convenient for parents A to take care of their elders, and the seating order should be arranged by parents themselves.
Usually, the parents table of the bride and groom should be close to the main table, on both sides of the red carpet, which is more convenient for guests on the same side to communicate in the same area.
2. Newcomers' colleagues, friends and business partners
This group of newcomers should greet the elders first and then the newcomers, and try to arrange the same table if they are familiar. Unfamiliar people should be arranged at each table, and it will be more polite to take care of them in time. Please arrange them in the middle of the whole banquet area.
3. Classmates and friends
Most of them are the best friends of the newlyweds. They don't need to say hello deliberately, so they will wait patiently for the newly married couple to appear. We might as well arrange them at the last few tables in the banquet area, which will not only make them enjoy themselves, but also avoid the influence of wine on the whole wedding process. This part also includes the staff who help.
When arranging seats, you can ask the food and beverage department to provide a table map and number or name each table, so that all aspects can be taken care of. Prepare several copies of this dining table map and the guest list printed according to the table, so as to facilitate the guests to sit down and show the host's carefulness.
7. How to arrange seats when the wedding presidents of men and women are combined at a table?
Main table seating arrangement
1. The groom sits on the bride's left, followed by his mother, father and parents' elders; On the bride's right are her father, mother and parents' elders. The couple's family sat opposite each other with the couple as the center.
2. Witnesses, groomsmen, bridesmaids and VIPs sit next to their elders. If the couple have too many elders and VIPs, a main table can't hold them. It is suggested that leaders and VIPs should be seated near the stage for VIPs to show their attention.
When the couple are not seated, their parents should sit in the center of the main table, facing all the guests. At this time, the groom's father sits on the left of the bride's father, and then the mothers and elders of both sides sit opposite each other with the husband and wife's father as the center, and the witness and distinguished guests sit next to the husband and wife's elders.
The number of tables means perfection.
Just like a wedding, the China wedding reception also pursues perfection, so at the beginning of the wedding, there should be no empty seats in the front table. Once this happens, the wedding organizer should adjust the seats to full seats in time according to the situation on the spot. Generally speaking, every table should be arranged in even numbers, such as eight, ten and twelve. When the accident is singular, it should be coordinated as far as possible from the perspective of etiquette. At the same time, people related to the bride and groom should be properly arranged at each table, so that they can sit in a secondary position at each table, which can not only thank the guests for coming, but also take care of them during the meal. Such a wedding banquet can not only make the organizers happy, but also make the participants pleasing to the eye and warm their hearts, so that the affection, love and friendship of traditional weddings can be extended emotionally.
Create a discernibility table (table 1 in the figure below is "discernibility table").
1. One line and two tables: front door positioning, with right as the respect, 1 as the respect table.
2. Two main tables: two main tables are mostly family banquets, and 1 is an honor table. The tables on the upper floor are arranged for newcomers, and the rest are arranged in the order of family respect for the elderly. The seating arrangement is perfect.
3. Four tables: 1 is an honor table. Two families and individual guests attended the banquet and arranged family and relatives near the door.
4. five tables inverted trapezoid: the table facing the door is the upper seat, and the newcomer should be arranged at the upper seat at this time.
5. Six tables in double rows: unlike the three tables in a straight line, the table in the middle of the second row opposite the door is the honor table.