Marriage Preparation

Both Parents

How to Avoid Awkwardness in the First Meeting-When to Arrange the First Meeting of Both Parents? Once you have decided to get married, you can arrange a meeting with your parents, because the main purpose of this meeting is to discuss marriage matters

-Who should propose the first meeting? The first meeting should be proposed by the man, of course, but also privately after the two decided to meet, can be formally proposed by the man's parents to meet

-meeting place should be set where?

1. If the two are in the same city: you can set in the local elders are more recognized by the old restaurant hotel

2. If the two are different: that is generally the male parents to visit the female parents in the female city, you can set in the female side of the more well-known or good reputation of the restaurant hotel

The two sides of the parents to meet the common problem

-Meet how to address the name?

- How should you address your parents when you meet them?

1. Both parents meet for the first time generally do not change their mouths

2. Junior can address each other parents: uncle aunt

3. Both parents can address: XX father XX mother, old brother old brother, sister sister, according to the local custom to, the two families are more familiar with the words can be called in-laws directly in-laws mother

-parents meet for the first time to give I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that. The first time you meet your parents, you have to give a red packet?

If this is also the first time that the child meets the other parent, or previous meeting did not give the red envelope, then the parents can give the other child to prepare the meeting gift red envelope, if previously given, this time do not have to give

The two sides of the parents to meet the common problems ● to give gifts?

Children should prepare gifts for each other's parents as a basic courtesy

●What do parents talk about when they meet for the first time?

1. If it is the same city, generally the male knot 2. If the male parents to the female side, it is generally the female knot

3. Of course, in order to avoid conflict, it is best for the young couple to settle the bill, do not let the parents settle

How to meet the two sides of the parents can not be embarrassed - meet before the couple to be well prepared

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These are the most important things that you can do to prevent your parents from stepping into a minefield,

2. Let the other parents recognize you, like you, so that when you meet will also be more friendly to your parents, no matter what to talk about will be smoother

The two sides of the parents to meet how to not be embarrassed parents can talk about the topic of the point (can be given to the parents to see in advance)

1. the weather, the other side of the world can talk about the local attractions, specialties, food and so on

2. recently the body, health tips, tips and tricks

3. the other side of the parents can talk to the parents about the topic of the other side of the family. p>

3. their respective occupations, work situation, past work experience

4. usual hobbies, flowers and fish, cooking food, travel sharing

5. their own children as a child of embarrassing anecdotes, boast each other's children

How to talk about the bride price is not awkward

- small couples must be discussed in advance consistent

1. want not to be embarrassed, don't The best thing is that before the young couple meets, the parents and their own ideas to communicate with each other, to be discussed by the two families agreed, and then arrange a meeting

3. Waiting to meet and then say good things to confirm once again on the line

-Remind the parents of these words don't say

1.temporary change of heart, change their minds: it will seem very insincere X We feel that 100,000 dowry is still not enough, at least 120,000! 2. tough attitude, non-negotiable: this is the rhythm of the collapse of the talks X my family on the 60,000 dowry, no more, you look at the matter 3. to give the threat of threatening to intimidate: will certainly anger each other X chasing him can be a lot of people, you do not agree, there are other people

How to talk about dowry is not awkward

-too much detail does not need to talk about

-To talk about the question

To talk about dowry is not the best way to get the best out of your life.

The more details you talk about, the more likely you are to get into an argument, so it's good for the parents to meet and talk about the general direction only, and discuss the details of the wedding in private

Parents can talk about the issues (which you also need to communicate in advance):

1. How much is the bride price, how much is the dowry, and how are the customs of marriage between the two regions

2. The wedding date and time, where to hold the wedding, how many to hold

4. The wedding rough budget, want to hold the size of the blood, how to pay for it

5. Who will buy the house and car, how to pay for it, how to write the name of the house and car

6. Where to buy a house, where to live in the future

The list of gifts for both parents

-expensive fruits: Chelsea, golden kiwi

- Wine: Moutai, Wuliangye, Dream Blue, Guojiao, red wine

-Cigarettes: Zhonghua, Su Yan, Yuxi, Yellow Crane Tower (for boys)

-Health food: American ginseng, bird's nest, calcium tablets, white powder, dietary fiber, Agaricus Jujubae, fish oil,

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-Health care products: footbaths, massagers, latex pillows, health bracelets, sphygmomanometers, health pots, Electric toothbrush

-Food gift box: nut gift box, pastry gift box, milk powder milk, preserved meat gift box, mixed grain gift box, lotus root powder cereal and other breakfast gift box

Send both parents a list of gifts

-Life supplies: sweeping robots, window cleaners, wall breakers, soymilk makers, electric shavers, dishwashers, Xiaodu Xiaodu

-Clothing and home textiles: silk scarves, Warm clothes, cashmere scarf, down jacket

-Tea: Pu'er, Tieguanyin, Longjing, Jinjunmei-

Jewelry: jade bracelet, pearl necklace, pearl earrings

-Beauty skincare: skincare set, perfume, hand cream