Home and everything.
"Honesty, self-improvement, respect for the elderly and love for the young; Diligence and harmony, home and everything prosper "-Walking into the home of Zhang Longxing, a villager in Maanshan, the unique" family training card "in the case corner is very eye-catching. In recent years, inspired by the villagers in Wang Yang village, the practice of "practicing family training" and "cultivating family style" has become a common practice in Fengxian.
With the media publicity and reports, the word family style inadvertently broke into everyone's field of vision. Although everyone is no stranger to family style, what is family style? I'm afraid different people will have different answers. Some people say that family style is clean, and some people say that family style is to respect the old and love the young; Some people say that family style is hard-working and kind, while others say that family style is to save civilization. Although there is a literal definition of family style, in everyone's mind, family style actually has a different internal.
Historically speaking, the rise of Home originated from the ancient civilization of farming society and is an important part of traditional literature. In ancient China, family style was still an important energy core of a family or clan, and it was a code of conduct and moral standard that all family members must follow. The ancients said, "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." "Managing your family" here means managing your family, and managing your family requires a good family style, so the importance of family style is obvious.
Broadly speaking, family style has both clan characteristics and social characteristics. The family is the basic unit of society, so as a positive energy, family style is also the product of the deep precipitation of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. More importantly, a good family style not only embodies the energy of the Chinese nation, so as long as the family style is correct and there are only a thousand people, the political style can be clear and the party style can be carried out to the end.
To build a good family style, we don't need to be overjoyed, but we can cultivate the principle of "don't do it with small evils, don't do it with small goodness", start with small things, turn good family style into a quiet teaching, promote family harmony, promote social development and advance the completion of the Chinese dream.
Thrift is virtue, and virtue comes from thrift.
"No rules, no Fiona Fang" is a common saying. Whether it is a big family or a small family, there are different family styles and family precepts. "Thrift depends on virtue, and virtue comes from thrift. "This is my family's family motto, and I am willing to be frugal as a code of conduct to cultivate a good family style.
My grandparents are all bitter people. At that time, New China had just been established. Coupled with three years of natural disasters, materials were very poor. Most people are lucky to have enough food. Grandma said that a dress has been patched for many years. Now with the development of society, living conditions are getting better and better, but grandparents still maintain a frugal style. When I was a child, I grew up in my grandmother's house, and I was deeply impressed by her simplicity.
Although these furniture are a bit shabby, they are placed neatly. Grandma cleans them every day and protects them carefully. Once, I took a fruit bowl and said to my grandmother, "grandma, this fruit bowl is too old and faded." There are many novelties now. Change one! " "Grandma smiled and said," don't look at this old fruit bowl. It is very strong to use. Nothing is environmentally friendly now. This fruit bowl is made of solid wood and will not be harmful to your health. "Grandma also secretly told me that this fruit bowl was made by my great-grandfather when my grandmother got married!
Under the guidance of grandparents, mother, brother and mother have always maintained this habit. The sofa at home has been used for more than ten years, with graffiti works of my childhood on it, and my mother is reluctant to change it. Once I came home from school, I was surprised to find that the old sofa was gone. I'm a little overjoyed. Climbing on the sofa always feels a little unreal. On second thought, it turned out that my mother added a sofa cover to the sofa. I was so disappointed that I said to my mother, "Mom is so stingy."
Mom smiled and said, "silly child, isn't the sofa with a condom new?" The surface of the sofa is a little worn, but the inside is good and can be used for many years! And now I'm influenced by it. When I choose stationery or clothes, I always know that I will never choose expensive ones, but choose ones suitable for self-appreciation and self-criticism. I hope my wind energy will be passed down from generation to generation, and strive to achieve "quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality"