People say that lovers are like entering a restaurant. If they don't run their own restaurants properly, they will be in danger of bankruptcy. Being implicated means that only the employees in the restaurant are actually old people and children. So how can couples find a high-quality marriage life? Only when the middle of our city clearly puts forward high-quality regulations for the other half and walks hand in hand can we build happiness. In such a married life, what aspects should not be done as a man? It will hurt my wife's brain these days!
First, male chauvinism
The patriarchal ideology from ancient times to the present is probably exhausted, but it is not. I believe that the status quo of many post-90s parents at home is usually that their mothers do a lot of housework and their fathers do very little, so the status quo of culture and education makes their children grow up and produces an imagination that I am a man and I was born with the right.
When a child grows up, falls in love and gets married, the illusion still exists in his mind. Because of his current feelings, why did there exist so-called male chauvinism before? Because it is usually the man who is the master and the woman who is the master, every financial source of a family depends on men. In China's married life, many wives work outside to relieve the pressure on men. Of course, if the wife works outside and comes back to do housework, it will be more tiring for her, which is not conducive to the development trend of married life.
Second, there is no ideal sense of responsibility.
You can choose a boy who has no house or car and has accomplished nothing today. He said that he would succeed in the future. Who knows what will happen in the future? It can be established within two years, so this kind of empty thing is generally given up for women. He has no revenge and no sense of responsibility. Who dares to give the rest of his life to such an enterprising and lazy person who should have few good friends?
Third, irrationality.
Everyone feels extremely happy and sad, but some men just compare their ideas. They hold their wives responsible for every little thing, good or bad. However, temperament or impulsiveness does not mean cowardice, which shows that this kind of man is more open-minded, easier to communicate with others, calm when things happen, and does not have to lose his temper, which is also what men should do in marriage.