There is a place where you can get stuck in the mind, but not out of the way, so where is it?

When the hands are busy and happy, is to less than a year old two baby picking shit wipe urine, wash the ass, ears constantly ringing big baby's call: "Mom, mom, I want to drink water, I want to drink water! " Is this scene unfamiliar to you?

Bowing your head too low for too long is not comfortable for your cervical spine, and just at the moment when you put your pants on for your second baby, as if you were relieved, your big baby is still standing there and keeps asking, "Mom, can you get me some water?" She won't stop until you answer.

That's my day, knocking out 24 hours of chores with two kids rotating through the calls and toys being set up and scattered sideways.

What friends gatherings, class reunions, all to the side. The first time I went out to buy something, I thought to myself: "Don't meet anyone you don't know!

Because this does not apply to the face of the peach blossom, it is not as beautiful as after the description of the painting. Who said the face of the face, each go halfway? In the moment, there is indeed this experience.

The baby in kindergarten can definitely put on his own clothes and shoes! But we as mothers are in a hurry, and when we see that the child's movement is a little slower, we directly take over the child's action.

The child is also accustomed to our help, and later do not help him wear, he will say: "Mom, you give me to wear it! I'm slow to wear it." This reasoning makes perfect sense and is very much in line with the objective law.

Especially when my husband sees my daughter putting her shoes on backwards, he'll just point out, "It's backwards!" Then, with a look of helpless frustration, my daughter says, "Mom, come help me, I can't." Children in the learning stage, the parents of the enthusiasm, on the blow to her self-confidence , so we have become a constant worry about the old mother.

A friend's child was born to a mother-in-law, and we all envied her for being so blessed. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know what to do. But what makes me tongue-tied is that his son to eat, has always been the grandmother to feed. He was watching cartoons and playing with blocks, and the grandmother was squatting by, "Come on, take a bite, take a bite, it's so good ......"

My friend can't stay away from her mother-in-law because she's not there to help her son. If she's not there, her son won't be able to keep up with his nutrition. How can she find the time to follow the feedings upside down?

It's not surprising that this is all a big deal!

The world is full of questions and puzzles.

One of the first things we were taught at the police academy was housekeeping: folding quilts, making beds, organizing closets, and getting dressed.

Is it really that hard?

The roommate said, "I never folded the quilt before, it was my mom who folded it for me. ......" While saying that, he cried out in pain.

Yeah! Mom's arranged life, in some moments will suddenly fail, like a charm, can only be useful at a specific time and place, for example, home.

Being a full-time mom doesn't mean we have to bend over backwards at home to be the cow or the horse. Why can't it be something else?

A good partner, a good friend, or a good teacher?

Instead of getting serious about which window isn't shining again? Why are the dumplings salty today? What's the best way to soak your feet to help you sleep?

......

So, our time has become the time of the family, and we have become the first to give our husband a good squeeze of toothpaste after waking up early; we have become the one who can take over for anyone who has a problem; we have become the one who says, "My mom doesn't go to work! The fourth year is a month away, and I am y aware and empathetic to the demands of time in my case.

In the beginning, the kids were too young, and the only reason we were stuck at home was for the kids. But as time grows, so does our age, and yet, the capacity in our brains becomes more and more limited. From an anxious young woman, we have finally become a hands-on full-time mom.

Instead of gently twisting and laughing, the topic of conversation becomes "my little devil," "my little darling," "my..."

This is the first time I've ever seen the world's most beautiful child, and I've never seen a child like that. ..."

Perhaps, not for today's masks and chagrin; not to do skin tightening and annoyance; and not for double eyelid when to pull, and girlfriends and boil endless telephone porridge ......

All the changes are That natural and pertinent, we phone, as if in addition to the fixed those few people, there is no external contact.

Hubby's socializing is really all about him. I have no time to go, Children can tie my feet, but not take away a man's freedom.

Our maturity is between pouring tea and cooking, a man's maturity is because of an arranged wife, he has the time, to waste his sleep, food and labor for the achievement of life.

Who else would want to put their life in endless chores like mom?

1, some things, there is no need to do it yourself

There are a lot of chores in the family, don't do the same and the same endless. Your energy at home to spend too much, naturally, too much neglect of their own, then, over time, your pay is deserved, the husband out of the drink socializing mahjong has become a common occurrence.

The next few decades, to be more caring about themselves. Knowing how to love yourself is the only way to get more love.

2, some time, to leave yourself

Full-time mom, sounds like a lot of free time. However, only those who have experienced it know that there is no such thing as freedom and abundance. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need. Even on the lap, it is fortunate that the spirit will not be lost.

Especially women put the golden age of pouncing on the home in these years, really is a small material, but also had to be entrusted . If one day a certain disease patronized our body, then, will find the dream ah! Hobby ah! Traveling ah ...... are so attractive, but unfortunately everything is too late.

Because, more time, or want to accompany the child.

3, others do not understand, find a way to first let him accept

If you want to put down the child to go out shopping, get together and get some air. Busy husband does not understand, then, can not just give up the idea.

I remember some time ago, busy with exams, the children's father which had to come forward. However, I was away from home for less than half an hour when the kids' dad brought in his father-in-law to bring in help.

It can be said that the parents of the package, both reduced the son's ability to be a father . I'm not criticizing my parents for their love, but I live in an environment where I have to make my own way to not go crazy over it.

So, if you want to do something, do it. It takes 3 years for one kid, 6 for two, just make sure you don't fall too far behind.

I'm a full-time mom, but I'm not an arranged mom, so maybe it's time to take some jumps in life to have an exciting future.

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