One, they want something, either to strive to catch up, or simply give up. Don't always harp on people to vote or grief constantly, do other people's laughter after dinner.

Second, all the efforts will not be completely in vain, how much time and energy you pay, are in the accumulation of the future. What in the world is not fair, only time is the most fair, you are lazy or hard, time will give results.

Third, life will not promise you anything, especially not to promise you success. It will only give you the process of struggle, pain and suffering. So give yourself a dream and move forward in that direction. Without dreams, life is meaningless.

Fourth, when you make a decision to do something, then go to try to do, even if this thing finally did not reach your expected return, but you still have to seriously, hard to complete, in the process, you will gradually recognize their own shortcomings, recognize what they really want. Give yourself a deadline, do not have to tell everyone, do not hesitate until you really try your best.

Fifth, a thing as long as you insist on long enough, "insist" will slowly become "habit". The original need to struggle to drive things become routine, originally determined to start things have become a matter of course.

Sixth, no one can break you, unless you are self-defeating. Not to fight, how do you know yourself is a character or waste!

Seven, look down a little harder, give yourself some time, forgive yourself for doing a lot of silly things. Accept yourself, love yourself. The past will be in the past, should come on the road.

VIII, the water is muddy, as long as the long precipitation, will still be clear; people and then blunt, as long as enough effort, as well as rewrite the fate.