Some people struggle with life until they reap the so-called success; Some people learn to compromise and gradually become what they hate most.
But in Please Answer 1988, there is such a magical existence: he is not only a wise man in the traditional sense, but even his life is a mess compared with others, but people who have seen the play want to live like him.
His name is Jin Zhongfeng. He graduated from primary school and didn't go to college for six years.
It is such a seemingly biggest loser in Shuanglong Cave, but it became the envy of everyone in the finale. And his road to success is neither death nor compromise. On the contrary, he enjoys the setbacks in life and finds another way in them.
Learn these three steps from Zhengfeng Oba. Being a winner in life is not a dream.
The first step is to learn to be content.
In the student stage, academic performance is always an unavoidable topic. But I'm sorry, Jin Zhongfeng is a student who can't go to college anyway.
In the first half of the story, we saw a primary school graduate with nothing to do, studying strange things in his room.
When Zheng Feng came out, people always thought that he was like cannon fodder in TV series, which was used to set off his brother Zheng Huan's understanding and Excellence. Can be directly regarded by parents as the negative example of "other people's children"-don't learn from him.
Disappointment aside, he hasn't learned yet. Whenever my parents secretly open the door, there is no doubt that he must be absent-minded. Sticking stamps, playing Rubik's cube, eating snacks ... except for not studying, only you can't think of it, and you can't do it without him.
This makes him full of silly temperament. At the same time, his social experience is blank because of heart disease.
From beginning to end, he was immersed in his own small world, playing games with primary school students, carefully scraping stamps in the room and cooking all kinds of dark dishes for himself.
But you can feel full of happiness in him.
When I was young, children's happiness was easy to satisfy. A toy, an animated cartoon and a little friend can make you happy for a long time. When you grow up, people's needs will need a lot of things to fill. After having one thing, they will rush to pursue another thing they want, so they will never be satisfied.
But for Zhengfeng, his happiness is like a child. Scratching the "one more pack" card, breaking the game record of the bubble hall, eating a bowl of white sugar bibimbap and receiving a reply from his first love can give him unprecedented satisfaction.
The second step is to learn to persist.
This does not mean that he is useless. No matter in which era, people are more or less impetuous, but Zhengfeng is quietly doing what he likes in this impetuous world.
He loves all kinds of unpopular knowledge and skillfully applies it to his life, so he easily gets full marks in the "Social Skills Application University".
When Ms. Leopard had to leave because of something at home, the three men stayed at home and had a good time, and he also undertook the maintenance of the home.
When the lid got stuck, he told his brother Zheng Huan that everything would shrink and expand. Put hot water in the pot and cold water on it, and the lid will be perfectly separated. The toilet is blocked, and it can be easily dredged by cutting an empty coke bottle; If the heating is broken, he can go into battle to repair it.
Even my mother's accompaniment to the singing competition is old and her voice has changed. It was he who suggested that it could be kept in the refrigerator for maintenance.
Zheng Feng often appears in the video game hall in the alley.
He used various methods to hit the peak of the game and firmly dominated the game machine, even the primary school students did not give in. Once the record is refreshed the next day, he will brush the record harder. A few chubby fingers kept tapping the red button back and forth, round after round, tirelessly.
Food is the love that the positive wind can't give up. Cake coated with cream, bread coated with a large piece of butter and sprinkled with sugar, and Korean bibimbap made by ourselves will all be filled with happy smiles and then eat. Even the audience in front of the TV can drool with him.
What he did was nothing but out of his love. And if you love it, you will stick to it and go on sincerely.
The third step is to learn to give up.
Leave no room for what you like, and discard what you don't like in time. He doesn't bear other people's dreams, and he doesn't feel anxious about success in the secular sense, let alone what to do at this age.
After graduation, Cheng Baola has become a prosecutor, and Zheng Feng still failed the judicial examination. His first love, Maggie, said, "Do what you want. It's the kind that can make you crazy enough to want to work all night. "
Therefore, instead of becoming a judge and prosecutor like Paula, he gave up the bright future in others' eyes, gave full play to his specialty, and became a big shot in the catering industry by virtue of his high sensitivity to food.
Later, middle-aged Deshan said in an interview that "Zhengfeng Brother is hotter than Aze".
This open-minded attitude towards life is his most special charm. Life will give many gifts to those who are not persistent and demanding.
After collecting almost all the Olympic lottery tickets, Zhengfeng won 1 100 million won overnight, turning a poor family into an upstart in an alley.
While playing games, I met several triad brothers, who were chased all over the alley, but I met Maggie, the love of my life.
It was an ordinary day. Yu Man walked on the slope of an alley with an umbrella. Zhengfeng rushed out of the game hall. In order to avoid the mafia brothers, he hid under the umbrella of Yu Man.
This experience is like a classic scene in an old Hong Kong movie. Panting, he turned back with a smile. Yu Man looked up at him, with a pounding heart under his stunned expression.
Two marginal people who were originally inconspicuous have become the most important existence in each other's lives.
In Please Answer 1988, Zhengfeng is not a person who will shine at the beginning. However, those persistence, tenacity and sincerity can make him the most dazzling self again and again.
Speaker | Wen Shuoshuo
Director | Wu Yong
Photography | Wu Xinning