What's the matter when a child gets into a 985 college and the parents ask the child to keep it quiet? A student got into college, in the domestic reputation and strength are very good 985 universities, can be said to be a very happy thing, especially for the relative lack of educational resources for students in rural areas, "in the poor family has a noble son" is something to celebrate, many students received the notice of enrollment in the university, the first thing to do is to tell their families the good news, tell their colleagues the good news, the parents of the students are the same, in the first hour of receiving this good news, the good news to friends and relatives, tell you the news.
This is the time for parents, the promotion banquet is unavoidable, and, whether in the catering market, rural or urban, from July to the end of August, the promotion banquet is the hottest time, you can know that this promotion banquet on the college entrance examination family how necessary, but not long ago, one of the candidates to the 985 University, received the notice of the moment of the beginning of the child's qualifying results have not been made public, and even the qualifying notices was also put away by the students because of the parents' request.
This student especially can not understand, their own test is also a domestic famous university, parents do not proclaim the resignation, why this behavior are very suspicious, as if they can not see the people, many friends heard rumors, take gifts voluntarily although it is to congratulate, but was denied by the parents a sentence, as if there is no such thing as the fact that they are admitted to the university, holding this real qualified notice, if there is no reminder of what the fact is, students will go to college, you will think that qualified is their dream.
Why did the student's parents react so strangely when they heard the news that the student had gotten into college? In fact, this student is from a rural family in a poor area, the parents are not dissatisfied with the child's excellent performance in the college entrance examination, but dissatisfied with the ability to get into a good university in the country, the parents are not not proud, but because of financial limitations and not proud of it, although I know that they are well-intentioned, but after entering this door to receive this gift then, the promotion of the university banquet is a must.
On the one hand, the cost of the promotion banquet is not expensive, especially in small places to engage in a monopoly type of business, not only less competition in the market, spending money is not less than the city, and the booking is also very tight, the student's family was not rich, after organizing the promotion banquet, students will go to college, go to the school's tuition fees are likely not enough to take care of the last if you can take care of their own minds, so Parents have to close the door tightly, not to say the student's enrollment, to avoid the economic disaster of the promotion banquet, keep the student's tuition, so we can not spend money.
While there are parents' hardships, but many people do not approve of the parents' behavior, because a person's life does not have much worth of public congratulations, so the examination of this happy event is not anyone who wants to congratulate, but the parents, even if the economic difficulties, there is no need to avoid in this way, and congratulations are also a variety of ways to congratulate, the parents can not afford to promote the feast, at home to invite relatives to dinner. There are not many small-scale congratulations, and it would be more meaningful for students to have the evidence of their relatives and friends when they have succeeded through their own efforts, right? What do you have different views on this? Welcome to leave a comment.