Labor and wealth have always been a "cycle". After hard work, it is wealth After wealth, it must be hard work. The two rotate with each other, making the world change more and solidify less.
In this regard, many people will wonder why labor and wealth have changed. Nowadays, the poor are poorer and the rich are richer. Should we follow the Matthew effect?
In fact, on the whole, Matthew effect is established. Turning the whole to the individual, there will be more "variables". Due to the constant changes in the capital market, the number of shuffling will increase.
Some time ago, there was news that a big boss and a rich man were scampering on the screen ten or twenty years ago. Now he is in his later years, and he can only make a living by picking up garbage. He is out of his mind.
Once the scenery was infinite, now it is down and out. This ups and downs of life, often appear in reality.
Some people work hard in their early years and get richer in middle age or old age, giving people a feeling of "getting something for nothing".
Some people have special scenery in their early years, and after middle age or old age, they become more and more depressed, giving people a feeling of "sharing weal and woe".
In fact, everything is not absolute, but relative. Those middle-aged people who work hard and are rich in middle age are mostly in the following five categories.
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The first kind of people: people who meet noble people.
There is a saying in "Broken Kiln Fu":
Li Guang has the power to shoot tigers, not to be old; Feng Tang has the talent of Lapras, but he has never met him in his life.
When Han Xin didn't meet, he didn't have three meals a day. When we met, there was a three-foot decree hanging around our waist. Once he declined and died at the hands of Yin people.
Li Guang is such a powerful general. He was lonely all his life just because he didn't meet opportunities and nobles. Feng Tang is a good minister, but he can't meet opportunities and nobles.
On the other hand, a man like Han Xin, though brilliant, was lucky enough to meet Liu Bang, otherwise he would eventually be lost in the smoke of history and never stand out.
In fact, whether we can meet a noble person determines whether our luck will change and whether we can have a bigger career. You know, if you meet a noble person, you will struggle less for 20 years. You may have to work all your life if you don't meet a noble person.
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The second kind of people: people who seize opportunities.
The so-called "the right time, the right place and the right people." To succeed, we need to grasp the weather first. Only in this way can we get ahead of others and even widen the gap.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao galloped north, eventually destroying Lu Bu and defeating Yuan Shao, which laid a huge foundation for Wei.
In the words of Zhuge Liang's dialogue with Liu Bei, Cao Cao took advantage of the emperor's opportunity to establish a vassal. Sun Quan, who lives in Jiangdong, occupies the best geographical position. Liu Bei can only make peace with others.
In fact, the sooner you make use of the weather, the faster your luck will turn. And Cao Cao is just such a person. I worked hard in my early years, made a fortune after I was 40, and started a business faster than anyone else.
This is the advantage of seizing opportunities.
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The third kind of people: people who keep learning and know how to be flexible.
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: "If you are poor, you will change, and if you change, you will pass, and the general rules will last for a long time."
Whatever we do, we need to know how to be flexible. If you don't change, you will easily be stubborn and conservative, and then become pedantic. Only by being flexible can we get a share in the complicated world.
There was once a friend who was born in game design, but he made a lot of money in the field of game design anyway. However, a few years later, he started cooking. A few years later, he founded the Internet.
Now, he started a company and became the boss. In his words, in today's rapid development of the times, stubbornness and conservatism will not work. Only by advancing with the times can we not be eliminated by the times.
In fact, we don't need to be rich or expensive like these people, we just need to develop flexible thinking. At least, timely change can be invincible.
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The fourth kind of people: people with harmonious families and filial children.
There is a saying that family harmony, beauty is above everything else.
The more harmonious and happy the family is, the more filial the children are, and the more prosperous they will be. Because of family, that is the source of many happiness.
For example, if the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, and the wife or husband silently supports you behind your back, it can also help you. How can you not get rich?
On the other hand, the relationship between husband and wife is not good, the parent-child relationship is particularly poor, and the family is in a mess. How can such a person live happily?
You know, a good family relationship is a booster for your career. Bad family relationship is a burden, which will eventually affect our development in the second half of life.
Generally speaking, improving family relations will be the beginning of wealth and happiness.
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The fifth kind of people: healthy, safe and happy people.
In today's era, if you have a healthy body, you will win over 60% people.
According to the survey, at least 60% of adults suffer from occupational diseases. Most of these adults are over 30.
Generally speaking, when people reach the age of 30, there will be signs of occupational diseases. In middle age, occupational diseases will evolve into some chronic diseases or even serious illnesses. You know, midlife crisis includes health crisis.
There is a truth that we should understand that people who ignore the health crisis will eventually pay much more than they do now.
Healthy people can save the money they earn. The money earned by sub-healthy people can only flow to hospitals. Finally, there may be liabilities.
So, take care of yourself, that's king.
Text/There are deer in Shushan