If you have had a college experience, just after entering the university there will be a psychological change: the report will be excited, feel that this university is not bad ah, so big, building so much, young lady little brother a beautiful handsome, but after the excitement passes, basically there will be a kind of disappointment. This is the university ah, how and I think it is not the same? Some places feel not as good as in high school, anyway, everywhere is not satisfied. This mentality will basically be much better in the sophomore year, the course pressure, the junior year is basically no longer, the senior year, are busy looking for jobs, internships, graduate school who still take it seriously? Every class of students is so reincarnated over, every class will not be an exception.
Why is this so? There are several reasons, I guess.
One, human nature, and any new things have a process of integration, which is very much like marriage, the newlyweds will be excited for a few days, a few days past will be found each other's shortcomings actually so much, and life began to salt and vinegar ripples or even a pool of stagnant water. Don't be surprised, the university is the same, when you work to find the unit is the same, the work is the same, all need a and adjustment process. There is also a general human psychological factor of siege, always feel that a different school with similar scores will be better, in fact, not really.
Two, underestimated the school, overestimated their
This is also considered one of the human nature, test failure to X (school) is the mentality of most people.
East China's five schools many people say is the level of Qingbei play out of order. The first book of the ordinary many people say is 211 level of play out of order. I fell from the Qingbei to 985 I fell from the five schools in East China to 211 I fell from 211 to the second ......
Is the above statement not very common? I don't rule out the fact that some people are really out of shape, but most of the people who are out of shape have a one-sided understanding of the word "out of shape," and it's more of an unconscious subjective realization. Some surveys have shown that there are only a small number of people who really play abnormally or abnormally, and most of them play normally. This is also the most common phenomenon, the most common mentality. Many people will be the best high school examination results as their normal level, invariably overestimated themselves, most think that their college entrance examination failure, repeat will be better, in fact, for most people, the college entrance examination normal play is overplayed.
Three, the distance between imagination and reality eighteen or nineteen years old young people will have a relatively good imagination of the university, romantic, free, ivory tower, bookish, colorful, colorful, open and inclusive ...... when the reality and the imagination of the discrepancy will be regretted. This situation is not about what the school, what scores read what level of school is the basic reason, this premise how to choose will have regrets. For example, you pursue the depth of the profession to go to the industry school, naturally not as comprehensive colleges and universities more girls, the humanities, you went to the second-tier cities, of course, not as prosperous as a first-tier city, you went to a first-tier city, the choice of school of course, not as good as a second-tier city. Management rigidity, administrative color is very strong especially the freshmen spit more places, low efficiency, but also often be blamed, and the heart of the romantic freedom of the aspirations of the contradiction. Let's put it this way, under the existing higher education system, the rigidity of administration and daily affairs management is a common problem of all Chinese universities, which school has not been criticized for this? But if it were not for the existing higher education system, many poor people with good grades could not afford to go to college at all, and the times can not get in, and this phenomenon is becoming less and less common in the Internet age.
Four, volunteering confused also many people volunteering confused, to the university to think clearly know that this school is not suitable for their own planning and characteristics, and therefore regret. For example, if you want to further your education, the school's graduate school rate should be high, the recognition of the examination should be large, but because of the greed of the prosperity of the first-tier cities, can only reduce the level of the school, go to a very low rate of graduate school or even almost no popular colleges and universities.
Fifth, professional problems
For example, most people feel that their profession is not good, boys basically want to read the computer, many girls want to read the management, this is the volunteer did not grasp the principle of priority of the profession, and the school has little to do with it, and is the profession of their own favorite, but the feeling that "this profession and I think it is not the same ah! Why is it like this?" Although now we have enough attention to the profession, but also do a variety of preparations, but I can responsibly tell you, no matter what you chose to major, most people into the university will have this feeling.