# 京京京京京京 # Hui Rou was slapped after her marriage, but she was humiliated by her mother-in-law who thought she was a gift from the butler to the Li family. The real abuse came.
Hui Rou was slapped by Wei Li after she got married.
Seeing such words, I believe your first reaction is also: domestic violence.
They all say: if there is a domestic violence for the first time, there will be the n th time. Let's not discuss the number of times here, let's discuss this time first.
Wei Li hit Huirou because Huirou hit his mother. This is the nature of being a son. Bullying his mother is serious, so I will hit Princess Fukang. To some extent, this also reflects that Wei Li is a "baby boy". A baby boy has a characteristic: when his daughter-in-law and his mother have conflicts, he will protect his mother for the first time.
If the girl marries Ma Baonan, you should be careful. Don't quarrel with your mother-in-law in front of him, because he can't stand it, and he will definitely accuse you of disrespecting your elders at the first time, thinking that as a junior, you should make way for your elders. This is their logic, and they never think it is ignorance.
Huirou tried to protect Huaiji, but was humiliated by her mother-in-law.
Huaiji was the person I liked before the princess got married, but when the princess got married, it was "in Cao Cao's heart and in Han Dynasty". In this case, her husband's family may have known this situation, but because of the emperor's appointment, she had to endure it, but she was uncomfortable. Even if there is no such thing, the princess is married and is their daughter-in-law, and her husband's family will inevitably make things difficult for her, because her mother-in-law wants her to understand that this family.
Coupled with the exaggeration of this matter, the husband's family is equivalent to grasping the princess's handle, and everything can be said to be right or wrong, leaving her speechless.
So, girl, you don't have an arranged marriage now. You have the freedom to get married. Before you decide to get married, you must break up your previous relationship, or even if you marry your in-laws, they will know sooner or later. In order to avoid unnecessary trouble, the bad ones should be cleaned.
Huirou thought she was a gift from the housekeeper to the Li family.
Hui Rou was born in that era, because she couldn't change the identity of the princess and couldn't get rid of the fate of holding a wedding.
Even if my husband is not Wei Li, there will be Wei and Grace Wai Wong. If Huirou can clearly realize this, then she will not be so reluctant, and she will understand that it will never be possible between her and Huaiji.
Besides, Huirou thinks that she is a gift from the housekeeper to the Li family. This does not mean belittling yourself and not treating yourself as a human being. How can she expect others to look up to her?
So sometimes, it's not that others don't respect you, but that you don't respect yourself first.