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Very confused and impetuous, I don't know how to do it well, how to adjust my mentality?
First of all, it is normal to be confused at this age, so there is no need to worry about it. This is a normal emotional state. After all, I may not know myself well enough and I am not clear enough about social work. So face up to this emotion and don't worry about it.

Secondly, it is suggested to make a comprehensive analysis of yourself and the advantages and disadvantages of your personality. So you can take a piece of A4 paper, write a list, and separate the good and bad aspects of your work.

Then, set a small goal. No matter what you do or plan, you need to set a goal first. The goal is to set a long-term, medium-term and short-term goal according to the SMART principle, and then decompose it (that is, decompose it into what you will do every day), so that every day is full and there is no time to think. Every time you accomplish your goal, you will feel more fulfilled and increase your self-confidence.

Besides, just as no one is perfect, so is the company. Every company has its own advantages and disadvantages, so no matter which company you go to, which team you follow, and whether your leader likes it or not, as long as you stay, you will have experience. As long as the experience will pay off in the future (only a matter of time), as long as it is your leader, there is always something you can learn from him. So we learn to look at problems "maturely". When we are mature, we need to see the bright spots, which can exercise our ability of observation and summary. And when you go to any company, you must set a small goal, such as whether you need to stay for half a year to see if you are really suitable? Don't be picky for half a year, learn to calm down and find a place where you can grow. After six months, you don't think it's worth quitting.

Finally, I want to say that no matter in which industry or company, theory and practice need to be combined. If you only have theory and only read books without long-term practice, many things will be really difficult to do. On the contrary, if you only practice for a long time, you can do it as soon as you get started, and there is no theoretical support. Many times, you will be at a loss. Learning and doing project work practice need to be carried out at the same time ~ ~

Finally, what do you want to change? For example, at that time, I hoped that my introverted self would be more cheerful, and I also believed that future interpersonal communication was very important. I needed a job to adjust and change my personality, so I took a sales job and worked for two whole years ~ ~ so I got through it. Only I know what I suffered in the middle, and I made me who I was ~ ~

Everything is complementary, so have confidence ~ ~