"Do one good deed every day, 311 good deeds every year, accumulate good deeds, and change your destiny! If you don't complain about life and face it with a positive attitude, you will naturally become a happy person.
If we can create bright opinions, fragrant thoughts and clean ideas from our hearts, and produce words like sunshine, flowers and clean water to share with others, we will surely have a rich life.
one day, the "king of the forest" lion prayed to the gods: "I am always awakened by the crow every morning. God! Pray for you to give me strength again, so that I will not be awakened by the crow! " God said, "Go to the elephant and it will give you an answer."
The lion found the elephant and saw it stamping its feet angrily. He asked, "Why are you so angry?" The elephant roared, "There's a mosquito trying to get into my ear. I'm itching to death!" " The lion thought to himself, it turns out that an elephant of such a big size is still afraid of such a small mosquito, so what can I complain about?
people have the habit of complaining, but they don't know that this habit will bring them a lot of trouble. Husband and wife complain to each other, can they love each other forever When subordinates complain to their superiors, will supervisors appreciate subordinates who often complain? Friends always complain about each other's bad. Will friends be willing to talk to you for a long time? Complaining is especially harmful, as listed below:
Complaining is the beginning of weariness. Once people are filled with resentment and blame others, they always feel that the world is unfair, they are wronged, and everyone in the world is sorry for themselves. This is a signal of danger in life. Because you don't have enough enthusiasm for society, you don't have a clear understanding of life's fate, you are unwilling to pay for yourself, and you are dissatisfied with your own gains, so you are angry and frustrated, and your life has never recovered. In fact, this society must pay before it can win relative income. How can you have a good result if you keep complaining about paying?
complaining is the source of enmity. Complaining can never bring joy. If you complain about others for one point, others may give you double rejection. When two people are in contact, they always feel that I pay you more and you give me less. Without knowing it, they have complaints and resentment, which will be visible in their faces, and complaints will be introduced to each other's ears. "Those who respect others will always respect them", and correspondingly, those who complain will always complain about them. Reasonably speaking, if you complain about others, how can others not complain about you?
complaining is a bad deed. Once people complain, their mood must be bad, and they often drown their sorrows in wine. Some people even don't go home because they complain a lot about their families; Some people have a lot of dissatisfaction with the company, so they take time off to travel. As a result of complaining, the other party may have limited losses, while he has a greater trip to ruin. For example, those who complain about their parents become unscrupulous children, those who complain about their friends end up turning against each other, and those who complain about their colleagues lead to infighting. All kinds of immoral behaviors are caused by complaints, which is terrible.
complaining is the cause of business. Many behaviors in the world, such as fighting, destruction and anger killing, are caused by complaining, which is the cause of karma. If a person always has good thoughts, even if he is wronged and bullied, as long as he has self-cultivation and a little patience, he will pass. If you feel that your interests are uneven and occupied by others, you can't create irreparable grievances and karma for vain financial gains, otherwise you will suffer the most in the end.
Therefore, once you have the idea of complaining in your heart, you should immediately be conscious and know how to reflect on yourself: How can I treat others if others treat me like this? I can care about everything, even "I'd rather the whole world fail me than the whole world". If I can have such good thoughts, where can complaints come from?