"Fen, in order to have a better child, you might as well put up with it. Men cheat only for a while, and when his new energy is over, they will return home. If you get divorced, you won't even have a home. You can't work with your children, and you are not at ease without them, so I, you don't have to divorce." After knowing my husband Xiaowei's affair, my sister advised me like that. What if my husband cheated on me and refused to divorce?

"Finn, I'm the same as your sister's suggestion. Now that you have a small child, divorce is really not the best. You just regard Xiaowei as a partner. He can earn money to support his family, and relax." My mother also advised me not to divorce.

"Fragrance, your sister and your mother are right. Divorce is really not the best solution. Even if you look for it again after divorce, it may not be as good as Xiaowei. For boys, eating, drinking and betting on piao will always account for the same. He can just let you have his salary. Second marriage is generally very bitter." My father took a cigarette and advised me not to divorce.

My eyes were full of tears. Since I found out that my husband Xiaowei was cheating on me, my heart went out of control. I took my 5-year-old son and went back to my parents' family. I didn't know what to do for a few days.

"Daughter-in-law, I'll take you and your son home." On the seventh day after leaving her parents' home, Xiaowei came to the door with a gift. Although he was smiling, he felt sick when he saw him.

My father took Xiaowei aside and told him a lot of things. He only saw Xiaowei nodding his head to admit his mistake, making sure that he would be kind to me later, and vowed to break contact with women outside. Only then did his father satisfactorily touch his shoulder: "Go home and live a good life." What if my husband cheated on me and refused to divorce?

My mother is also very happy to see Xiao Wei pick me up. "At least Xiao Wei is worried about you and your children," said her mother. "If you are angry with him, pay for what you like, be kind to yourself and your children, and don't grieve that he has a hard time making money."

"Father, I miss you" My son has been asking his father why he hasn't come to pick him up for several days. I really can't bear to see what he really looks like. His development lacks his father or mother.

In order to give my son a complete home, and for Xiaowei's sincere apology, I took my children and Xiaowei home.

On the road, Xiaowei teased me and the children in the back seat while driving. I ignored him, and all I could remember was the scene of discovering his affair. The more I thought about it, the more I felt sad for myself.

On that day, Xiaowei said that he would have to work until ten o'clock at night, and it was not warm. My heart ached that he ate things without nutrients in the office, cooked dinner at five o'clock, entrusted his son to the care of his next-door neighbor, and then drove a new energy car to deliver food to his husband.

It began to rain in Mao Mao, and I had to wear a poncho when riding a motorcycle. I went to the bottom of my husband's business building and saw him driving out. I thought he might have gone to eat, but I didn't have time to care so much, so I turned around and followed him.

I drove three kilometers to a high-end restaurant, and I scolded myself for being stupid. How could he humble himself to eat dinner without nutrition? I just deceived myself. People came here to eat spicy food!

I only saw Xiaowei get off the bus and go into the restaurant. Instead, he waited at the gate. Two minutes later, a young woman dressed in fashionable clothes rushed to his side. He held her hand and helped her hold the brand bag. They entered the restaurant in love.

I quickly parked the new energy car and walked into the restaurant and sat in a secluded place where I could see clearly.

During the whole meal, Xiaowei and the woman interacted sweetly. He gave her a bowl of rice and she wiped his mouth, just like a pair of close lovers.

After dinner, Xiaowei and the woman got into the car hand in hand again. I couldn't control my anger. It happened in front of the vehicle before Xiaowei ran it.

Xiaowei saw me and got off the bus in a hurry and asked, "Daughter-in-law, why are you here?"

"Your class is very happy!" I said angrily, "Who is he?"

"I'm his girlfriend" and the woman got off the bus. "We've been together for a year."

slapped the woman, "shameless!"

Xiaowei stopped me to remind the woman to go first. Originally, she didn't want to go, but Xiaowei reprimanded her. The woman or the one who mastered the woman understood that there was anger in my heart, and she either left quickly.

when I got home, I quarreled with Xiaowei all night, only to know that every time he said that he worked overtime, he was going out with that woman.

after crying for a night, I thought I could get a divorce, but I was not sure about my thoughts, so I took my son back to my family the next day.

I just didn't expect to return to my family. My sister and parents all advised me not to divorce. It is very likely that this is the bitterness of having children. Without children, I will undoubtedly get divorced and live alone.

Inadvertently, everyone returned home. Xiaowei mainly performed well, and my anger gradually subsided in a month or two.

Although my anger has subsided, the pain is still there. Although I went shopping crazily and bought beautiful clothes, skin care products and accessories for myself, I felt very sad in my heart, and I became more and more mysterious. I felt that Xiaowei and that woman were together again after a little movement.

I complained to my best friend, Amei, who said, "Smart women don't divorce when they find out that their husbands are having an affair. If they don't remarry after divorce, it will be very difficult for them to take care of their children by themselves. If the second marriage, even if the man loves an affair, it will be a chicken feather to bring the children separately after marriage. Don't divorce, spend his money, no matter how he is outside, he and his children are happy, and it is stronger to make a decision when the child grows up without pressure. "

ah mui has the right to speak about her husband's infidelity. She didn't cry, make noise or divorce when he cheated two years ago. She only stipulated that her husband should pay his salary, and now she can live a good life.

Maybe endurance is the truth of life. It is a luxury to live happily every day since marriage, especially after having children, mothers live for their children first.

I gave in. I'm just a housewife. Xiaowei is providing the new house at home. He just needs to work hard and pay his salary. Too much care for the rest is very easy to damage his liver and body.

after that, I realized that I still thought too much.

After discovering Xiaowei's affair for half a year, he did stop and take care of his family, but a year later he cheated on a beautiful divorced young woman and returned a lot of money to her.

The salary was used to pay off the mortgage and was handed over to me. Where did he get the money?

I looked through his mobile phone several times before I realized that he had applied for an online loan of more than 61,111 yuan. He was so stupid that he really wanted to eat his meat.

I gave him a good beating, and even made it to my mother-in-law's side, which made everyone around me know. Because of our small family, my parents-in-law took out 51 thousand pension service money to pay him back, and he also made sure that he would not contact the women outside.

I don't trust him anymore. Anyway, I'll hide my savings at home, and he can do whatever he wants. I really don't want to talk to him anymore.

Xiaowei stopped for many months and gradually got into trouble again. He often went out to drink. When he was drunk, he sometimes tried to hit me. Maybe I was too fierce for him to start.

However, after that, Xiao Wei gradually began to openly contact women outside, and even said disgusting love words when I was electrified.

It's really too much. I think I can resist it, but I'm weak, and I gradually feel that it's meaningless to be angry with a boy like that. Just consider him dead.

But the more I want to live a good life, the more I want to ignore him, the more he goes too far. He gradually refuses to pay me his salary, his living expenses and his son.

Not long after, he found another college student who just graduated. In order to better pay that girl to start a business, he even sold his car. Selling a new car didn't do me any harm, and I don't think I could manage it.

Sometimes boys are really stupid, and when that girl needs more and more assets, Xiaowei sells the house quietly without telling me.

it took me three months to understand the house.

I can't bear it any longer. I ask myself what's the use of such a husband? Therefore, I will be a horizontal heart, a person ran back to her family, an old man, no matter what, it is not easy to ignore her own son.

a few days after I left my parents' home, he brought his son and cried and begged me to go home. I took the opportunity to ask him to pay me, but he didn't agree. He left his son to help me and left himself.

don't regret it!

I'm going to get a divorce, no matter what.

At this time, my parents either advised me to put up with it for the sake of better children, and to have a better home without at least children. Ah Mui also advised me to put up with it. She said that a woman's life is like this. What can she do if she is divorced?

But I don't care. I can accept a divorce no matter how hard it is, even though I can still consider him dead, so why don't I give myself a chance to be free?

Xiao Wei definitely asked for a divorce, but he didn't agree, unless I brought my son, who was really an asshole and didn't even want to raise his own children.

I agree with him that I can bring the children, but he must help me with 2111 yuan alimony every month.

he readily agreed.

I cried at the moment I got the divorce certificate. I have suffered a lot in these three years, and my married life is very helpless. I have tried many methods, which are difficult to achieve. Although I have not worked for many years, I firmly believe that the harder I work, the better my luck.

after the divorce, my children and I temporarily stayed at my parents' house. I understand that they will be unhappy, but I can't help it. I have to inconvenience them before I can work and rent a house.

I got a job as a doctor, and went to the hospital to take care of patients. I was not familiar with it at first, so my income was relatively small, only 151 yuan a day, but at least it was a profit.

two months later, I learned that I can earn 6,111 yuan a month as a nurse, and I give my parents 2,111 yuan a month, so they can help me pick up the children by car, which is also quite good.

Xiao Wei, an asshole, only paid alimony for three months and never paid it again.

When I went to the hospital, I met 85-year-old Sister Xu. She asked me to be a domestic nanny for 6,111 yuan a month, and allowed me to take my children back to live together.

Sister Xu is very rich, but her children have been overseas, so she seldom goes home to see her, and only gives her money. She especially wants to be prosperous at home and have elements of life.

I took my son to live at Sister Xu's house, and she was free to help with the children's homework. She said it was great to see them grow up! And my job is to take care of Sister Xu's three meals a day, and send her to the hospital for aftercare in the process of any discomfort.

My son is especially obedient. He often calls Sister Xu "Grandma". She is especially happy. She helped my son with many big red envelopes during the Spring Festival holiday. I understand that she hurts me to take care of the children alone.

After caring for Sister Xu for three or four years, she passed away. She was very grateful to have my son and me waiting for her in the last two years, and gave me more than one million yuan as gratitude.

My son and I were sad for some time when Sister Xu passed away.

after that, I bought a 51-square-meter second-hand house with my own deposit of 251,111 yuan and the full payment of 111,111 yuan from Sister Xu. My son and I finally have our own small family.

In order to take care of my son better, I set up a stall next to the college where my son is studying. The income is not high, three or four thousand a month, but I have already met it.

The life after divorce is really hard, and there is no chance to be lazy. I quietly shed tears many times, but I persisted and lived a slightly better life with my son.

At this moment, I received a bad message. Ah Mei had breast cancer, perhaps because of her unhappy marriage, she suffered a lot of injustice. Seeing her frail, I was lucky to get up the courage to divorce.

Not long after, I received a bad message. Xiaowei was sentenced to two years in prison for being injured in a fight.

what if my husband cheated on me and refused to divorce? I think he will come one day sooner or later. Fortunately, my son and I are already alone. The impact of divorce is very painful, but it is very worthwhile. At least I am free from it.