Reading is undoubtedly one of the aspects of active suffering, but some people desperately read books for the purpose of attempting to read the book will no longer eat other suffering in life. In fact, this idea is only one-sided wishful thinking, reading is only active to avoid the life of not reading the bitter, and can not replace the life of the other bitter.
People who don't read may eat the pain of not reading, but people who eat the pain of reading don't have to be able to escape from many other pains in life.
The world is vast, the sea of suffering is boundless. Since you can't escape from the world, you have to learn to take the initiative to suffer. Not only take the initiative to eat the pain of reading, but also learn to take the initiative to eat a lot of other suffering.
Learning to take the initiative to suffer can be bitter, so that life becomes meaningful; passive suffering can only be in the complaining taste of bitterness.
If you are afraid of suffering, why come to earth?
Some people would rather eat the bitterness of life, but also do not want to eat the bitterness of reading
My father, they had to give up their studies at that time because of the limitations of the family conditions, and participated in the work early. In his realization, he could eat the pain of studying, relatively happy.
Now he can only eat the bitterness of life. He always said: you only need to study seriously, I will also provide you with a pot of iron.
What he didn't think of was, what if you can't afford to pay for it even if you sell your pots and pans?
The first time I saw the movie, I saw the movie, I saw the movie, I saw the movie, I saw the movie, and I saw the movie.
Unfortunately, because of the limitations of cognitive ability, many of us do not have a deep understanding of this statement when we can read.
For example, Hangzhou sixth-grade boy Xiaofang, obsessed with cooking for three years, grades for years at the bottom of the list, a point in math. His anxious mother called a psychiatrist, who evaluated Fatty and advised her that not every child is good at reading, and that instead of spending time on fruitless cramming, she should let her child do what interests him and play to his strengths.
In Fatty's mind, cooking doesn't use his brain as much as reading, and he's still getting a little bit of success in cooking, so he thought the road ahead would be smooth, and that he could use his cooking skills to get the kind of success that he couldn't get from reading.
Degree does not mean ability, but if you have the ability, you can go to get a degree.
A netizen summarized the level of education linked to cooking: "In reality, no culture + cooking = small workers, low culture + cooking = cook, medium culture + cooking = chef, high culture + cooking = chef, schoolboy + cooking = catering empire."
It is conceivable that if Fatty gives up on his grades for this and follows his interests instead, he will be an ordinary chef in the future if there are no surprises.
The reason they refuse to suffer from studying is because many people can't give up and be hard on themselves.
They replace the pain of reading with a seemingly effortless choice. Thinking that by temporarily escaping from reading, they can live their lives free from the constraints of reading less, thinking that as they grow older, time will slowly erase the debt owed by reading.
Tagore said: life, is constantly repeating hard-hearted, and repeat happiness. I'm not sure if I've ever had a hard time, but I'm not sure if I've ever had a hard time.
But all of life's gifts have been in the dark marked price.
How much laziness you stole at this time, later in life fate will let you return. The more we learn, the more we see and the more we broaden our horizons, and at the same time we realize that there are more and more things we don't understand.
Cai Kangyong said: "When I was 15, I found it difficult to swim, and gave up swimming, and when I was 18, I met a person you liked and asked him to go swimming, so I said, 'I don't know how to do it', and when I was 18, I found it difficult to speak English, so I gave up English, and when I was 28, I found a great job that required me to speak English. "At 28, a great job comes along that requires English, and you have to say, "I don't know how to do that. The more trouble you take in the early part of your life and the more you don't bother to learn, the more likely you are to miss out on people and things that move you and new landscapes later on."
If you don't want to eat the pain of studying, you'll have to eat the pain of life.
After a number of years, in different states of life, successful people thanked themselves for working hard that year; there are also disillusioned people who regretted that they were not harder on themselves.
The Conflict Within Us says that not only children are malleable, but all human beings have the ability to change themselves, even to the point of being transformed.
Anyone has the ability to change themselves, it's just a matter of whether they want to.
But there is no better choice than to study when you need to study and fall in love when you need to fall in love; to suffer when you need to suffer in order to enjoy when you need to enjoy.
Books have the benefit of reading, the benefits of labor can earn money, the old man said there is gold in the book, our sisters four, I am the oldest, three good work do not want to read, under the school work is not a lack of money, I really do not want to work, do not put too much weight on the money, so I did not earn a lifetime of money, but there is a fair side to everything, the society develops fast, which does not how much will be in the network in this regard, I have two younger sisters and a younger brother! Learning can not keep up, the older the slow learning, it seems that knowledge can save it, at home can also earn money, reading the future far it.
In life, life in the bitter can eat, that is very natural. As long as the person does not lack of leisure (physical health, no disability, a menu of half a catty of rice is not a problem, no matter what kind of hard work, of course, nothing, and quickly complete the task.
Reading is not like any other profession, it is a bottomless work, of course, everyone wants to make some achievements in reading and studying, it is impossible. That is the fate, is a good eight, the old ancestors have the spirit, the grave mountain house field tube gas, innate formulated he is a reading talent. Like the ancient Mr. Liu Bowen, before knowing five hundred years, after knowing five hundred years of genius life. That's why some people are willing to eat the pain of life, not to eat the pain of reading.
After eating the pain of reading, there is no choice but to do the hard work to maintain their own, in the path of life, is a necessary thing to do, to supply their own positive energy.
A person living in poverty said to a self-educated entrepreneur:
"I really admire your spirit of suffering, you have to study at night and do business during the day. Why do you have to suffer like this?"
The entrepreneur replied: "Actually, I admire you more, you would rather eat a lifetime of life's suffering, are not willing to learn and hard work to eat a while after the enjoyment of the back of the blessings."
This story tells us,
The difference between suffering in life and studying is not in the ability to suffer, but in the eating of suffering has no meaning, no value!
Reading books does not necessarily lead to a valuable and meaningful life. But without reading and learning, life must have no value and meaning!
Reading does not necessarily allow you to get rid of the suffering in life, but not reading will certainly make you suffer from the suffering in life!
Most people who read books suffer from brain power, and most people who don't read books suffer from physical power.
Now is the era of knowledge economy, speculation to get rich has passed.
Many knowledgeable young people have embarked on their own entrepreneurial path and have been successful.
And those who do not read and do not study young people will feel that they are obviously very able to suffer, why is there still no money? Why don't you have a decent and easy job? Why are they not respected by others?
The cruelest part of the world is that other people don't have to suffer so much and can be more successful than you!
Because the life of the bitter, you have to eat; and reading the bitter, you can choose not to eat.
In the final analysis, it is a "selective" problem.
01 Anyone has to live, but not anyone has to read
Whether you go to school or not, read or not, you have to live, you have to make money, support the family. So, you can't escape the pain of life.
Even if you are worth over a billion dollars, you will have troubles every day. Even if you are begging on the street, you will have worries every day.
Life, not because of what you are, what status, how much wealth, and will not give you pressure. No one can escape the pressure of life.
But reading is not. Why some people choose to drop out of middle school because he does not want to read, he has the right to choose. I can read or not.
It's like, you have several jobs in front of you, you have a choice, you can choose the first job and give up the second; you can also choose the second job and give up the first.
But, you have to work, because you can't earn money or live without working, and that's the essence of this problem.
02 The bitterness of life is real, while the bitterness of reading is invisible and untouchable
For example, if you don't make money today, you may not have food tomorrow, and you can't pay your rent and mortgage. The suffering of life, the feedback is very timely. Therefore, people are forced to live under the pressure of life, and must bear the suffering of life every day.
But reading is not like this, you read a book today, may be a year later, there is no change, there may be a change, this uncertainty, and this sense of delayed feedback, so that people puzzled.
So people like to pursue certainty, and are often reluctant to take the first step, much less take the risk, with this uncertainty.
But from my experience, when you bear the pain of reading, you will find that life, in fact, is not so bitter.
The bitterness of life is passive, the bitterness of learning is active
The bitterness of life is no way out, it will find you, without you looking for it, so it's easy.
The suffering of learning is selective, you can learn or not, however most people choose the latter.
The bitterness of life is mechanical, the bitterness of learning is versatile
Some jobs are a good illustration of the bitterness of life, such as delivery, courier, small laborers, drivers and so on, which are all very simple mechanical work, just repetitive muscle memory. If you have eaten the pain of learning, you can have more selective, your work will have a lot of variability, but also will bring you surprises.
The pain of life is downhill, the pain of learning is uphill
Downhill is effortless, uphill requires perseverance and determination. The bitterness of learning will make you hopeful for the future and full of confidence in life.
In reality, it is still because of the old concepts and lack of insight.
Instead of saying "I'd rather eat the pain of life than the pain of studying", it is better to say that some people don't understand that the pain of life is more than the pain of studying, and they are not willing to study when they are young, and then when they face the difficulties of life, they want to study but can't.
This is the first time that I've ever seen the world's most important book, and I have never seen the world's most important book.
The world's leading research organization has made a global sampling survey, the theme is the most regrettable thing in a person's life is what, the result is that 92% of the people chose "young enough to work hard". In addition to working hard when you are young, you should start reading.
Reading is not an easy thing
Although some scholars say that advocating "happy learning", but realistically speaking, although reading will get happy, but reading itself is not a very easy thing.
A person's education takes about 20 years on average. In this 20-year process, to accept a variety of school discipline, to accept a dozen kinds of courses of instruction, to accept different styles of teachers, to accept the mountain of questions, to accept the sea of rolls, to accept a wave after wave, a wave higher than a wave of exams, to constantly change themselves, to correct the track, but also to face the brutal fight of the mid-term exams, college entrance exams, to kill a bloody road. This process is very difficult and sometimes very painful. That's why it's called "the sea of learning is a boat of suffering".
The pain of life is more than the pain of reading
Relative to the hard work of reading experience, the difficulties of life is much colder, much more sinister, much more cruel. Once embarked on society, is an independent individual, to bear the parents, wife, children, social obligations, to make money to support the family, to take responsibility. There is a saying is very interesting, "the world of adults in addition to easy to get fat, nothing is easy". It is true that if you cannot support your family, your wife and children may follow someone else. No professional skills, no skill, can't play with the brain, can only play with physical strength, can only do some need to pay a strong labor force work. We have seen the hard work of porters, coal miners, and construction workers, and that is an ordeal unimaginable to ordinary people. Looking back and comparing it to reading, the hard work while reading is just the tip of the iceberg and a drop in the bucket.
Reading is a cause of suffering first and then sweet
Once we have been educated, we should be "bitter first and then sweet", meaning that the bitter first eat in the front, the back will be bitter and sweet, the best of all possible worlds. In fact, reading is precisely such a cause of suffering first and then sweet. Although the process of reading is hard, but we are in the process of reading is constantly harvesting, constantly growing, our ability is constantly getting stronger. A person who reads through books, hones his skills and learns thoroughly will naturally have competitiveness, power of speech, authority and status, and will be able to face any challenge in life with ease and ease, and with a little bit of self-effort, wealth and gains will come rolling in. It's like, raking the grass of reading and hitting the rabbit of wealth in the process.
There are many people who, when faced with difficult setbacks in life, always regret that they did not read well when they were young. Realize the importance of reading and learning, but when they really see the hardships of life, they no longer have the time and experience to read and learn and improve themselves. Therefore, I have always believed that, in the adult world, can find time to read and study is very happy, can systematically and off-site to participate in the study, but also the luxury and not easy, to cherish.
A person's life is a long run. Read this thing, no matter when it is not too late. There are always people who did not read well when they were young, but when they came to their senses as adults, the return of the prodigal son, serious reading and learning, and still changed their destiny, and regained control of the initiative of life. Around us, there are always people who work harder and harder than us, and there are countless examples of this.
Open a book, read something. Once you pick up a book, you will definitely get something out of it.
Start reading hard now! It's not too late.
Some people would rather eat the pain of life, but also do not want to read, think reading bitter.
Is it really hard to read, or is it hard to live?
1. There is a small child, refused to listen to his parents to study, he grew up to go to the community to eat all kinds of suffering, asked him to blame his parents? He said no, the road is my own choice, the blood, I drink it down.
Studying, no matter bitter or not, when parents as a past person to show you a clear road, you understand the heart of the parents on the line, do not need you to go. Into the society, regardless of pain and hunger, no one for you to feel bad, you do not have to turn back, even if the life is bitter. You can choose to read or not to read, but you can not choose to eat or not to suffer.
2. Reading is a child's suffering.
Only the child feels that reading is bitter. He sits there for hours a day, with a pile of books, and feels that life is really boring. He can't listen to a single word of his parents' reasoning, and he feels that his parents are doing him a disservice. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the way and get out of the way.
When I was young, I could choose to read, but when I grew up, I couldn't choose to live, and the bitter taste of life made him realize what his parents wanted.
Growing up, children are always asked, "Is it better to study or work? He carries the major burden of life skimmed to him, can not retreat, in fact, the heart admitted defeat.
3. Reading is to pave the way of life, paving the way bitter, walking comfortably.
Reading is an investment, is to invest in life.
Reading is to pave a road, is to pave the way for themselves.
But always feel that the investment can not afford, always feel that paving the road is too tired, can not stand the pain.
Lazy on life, will be punished by life - you do not want to eat the pain of reading, eat the pain of life.
Those who are willing to eat the pain of reading, their will must be stronger than those who would rather eat the pain of life. First of all some people don't know why they eat the bitterness in life? The reason is that they don't read, or they read less and have limited knowledge. People who are willing to eat the bitterness of reading are not ordinary people who can bear it. In today's life to eat bitter people do not have much to do, everything has a tall man on top, the burden of the family is the wife and children of women plus dad and mom. Such as a courier is relatively hard, it is said to deliver a goods to two dollars, a street down at once can have more than 20 yuan of income, but this street down time is not necessarily directly on the read more than 20 yuan of money, huh? Such as in the factory as long as there is a fixed job, a little hard work, or boring are not too big, listen to the boss, and good relations with colleagues can live on. If the unit is good for good welfare, that is not to talk about, and the unit for the workers to buy 4 5 insurance, the state and money to help buy insurance. Will suffer to what extent? Limited! Why do I say: eat the pain of reading is not the average person can afford it? According to incomplete statistics: seven or eight out of ten of the students studying for a doctorate in a university are children from ordinary or rural families. Because their families are poor or parents have nothing to leave them, the beginning of their personal struggle, to make a name for themselves and study, with the accumulation of knowledge has gradually tasted the benefits of reading, but also understand a lot of reading and the mission of the reasoning, reading can indeed change the destiny of life, and more importantly, the shoulders of the country and the destiny of the nation. But this bitter is not a day or two days, a year or two years, or ten or twenty years, or even a lifetime in the study of struggle, and ultimately they will certainly contribute to society, and get the respect of the community and the country, the study of even more bitter they are also willing. When my husband was 90 years old when he published his personal monograph, I only read the Chinese language my head can not eat, on the content do not talk about understand or not. After we gave the monograph book to the family brand-name college students as a souvenir, but also similar to the high school students, but the line is like a mountain, he humbly said: it is the heavenly Wenquxing read the book. 2014 my husband's female disciples (opened the big knife) to give a book they have just translated the book DUKES, the twelfth edition, a total of: 787 pages. Now whenever I see this book, the heart is a million pain, it is said: a period of time every day until two or three o'clock in the morning of the next day before they can sleep, this kind of forgetfulness of the spirit of work is the average person can have? Personally believe that: readers are hard labor and wisdom, but also creators, they are not eager to make quick profits, willing to sit on the bench, not hasty and not dry to do the study, they read for the people and the country. The people who are willing to eat the hard life is only for personal family life, so the burden is light, do not need to eat a lot of hard reading. The 15 representatives of China's ****production party at the time of its founding were all readers, and they understood a lot of truths through reading, so they read for the nation, read for the mission, and read for the revitalization of China. Today's people who are willing to suffer a lot of people are the same: not for their own personal interests and study!