1, in this world, no one lives easier than anyone else, but some people are crying for the land and some people are working hard silently.
2, two women, as long as they love the same man, will compare with each other all their lives.
3. A person, if true, is true everywhere. It doesn't matter whether anyone sees it or not. What kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet. Like is like, sincere, not perfunctory. If you don't like it, you don't like it. Just smile and avoid it.
I hope that after many years, I will still be kind and move on. I hope to meet you in the future, not in silence, but suddenly in tears.
The so-called ambiguity is to enjoy the feeling of love, but you can say that you are single with peace of mind.
6. The most painful way to leave in this world is that you can't walk into his life from the moment you leave, but he is everywhere in your life.
7. Everyone you meet in your life has a reason. All the mistakes and regrets before were just to meet the right person. When you have been hurt by youth and tasted the bitterness of life, it is really possible to meet someone for a lifetime. The person who appears when you are most helpless is an angel sent by heaven to love you.
8. May God bless those who really love you. You broke his heart.
9. You have to understand that not everyone will like you, accommodate you and love you. You should also know that not all the world hates you, ignores you and doesn't cherish you. If you just want to be the best you can be, people who love you will still love you, and people who don't love you will still dislike you even if you become a flower.
10, before losing your temper, think about whether anyone is used to you. For those wayward people.
1 1. The simpler, the more comfortable and the more real. Mr. Tan Tan said that if you like it, you will confess; Refuse if you hate it; Sleep when you are sleepy; Express it when you are hungry; When in doubt, explore; If you want to make a speech, just sing it; If you want to travel, ask if you don't understand; Admit if you are wrong; Do not put on airs, do not be melodramatic, often think too much; In the end, you will find that the only thing that hurts you most is your own delusion.
12, cloudy, suitable for sleeping, waking up, suitable for missing you.
13. The world is so noisy that silent people seem a bit silly.
14, when you are in love, you need sincerity; When there is controversy, communication is needed; When you are angry, you need to be calm; When you are happy, you need to share; When you are blaming, you need tolerance; There are no perfect two people, only two hearts that contain each other.
15. Why do you have to fall in love if you like someone? Because how can you be just a friend if you like someone?
16, I know that some people dislike my weight, some people care about my appearance, some people are afraid that I am unreasonable, some people can't stand my temper, some people look down on me and don't take me seriously. Nevertheless, I still believe that there must be someone who can tolerate me and that person will accompany me all my life.
17, if a man really loves you, he will only work hard for fear that he can't take care of you. If he cares about everything about you and loses his temper with you casually, it just shows that he loves himself and has no ability and ability to love you.
18, maturity means that you still like what you like, but you don't have to have it; Hate or hate, but tolerable; Fear or fear, but can face; Things that were unreasonable before can be taken for granted.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside him knowing you can't have him.
20. You are so important that I feel robbed when others touch you.
You are my lover.
Classic quotation "You are my lover"
1, looking for a lover is better than looking for a thermometer, knowing the cold and knowing the heat, not saying anything, not menopause.
2. Men like young girls, just as women like fresh vegetables, they all taste good.
3. What is marriage? It's running in circles. It is running laps on the long track of life. Whoever runs long, who runs far, who runs many laps, wins in the end. So this is also the reason why many extramarital affairs players lose to marriage players because of their poor endurance.
4, the daughter-in-law is like a hand and foot, and the third child is like a dress.
5. When you start your own business, you need a cactus like me at low tide.
6. You don't want to be Chen Shimei, because I'm not the daughter of the emperor.
7, looking for a lover, it is better to buy an electric blanket to warm the bed.
8. If a woman wants to get true love, she must first learn to be rude and be rude to people who don't love you.
9. I really didn't do that well!
10, many things have to be solved by time and patience.
1 1, the thermometer knows the cold and knows the heat without saying anything, and it doesn't add to your confusion. The most important thing is that there is no menopause.
12, hourly workers charge on time and leave after work. If they are not good at it, they can change it. If it's for life, I have to tell you the conditions. If you are not good at it, you can't change it, and you will probably end up with you.
13, men are proud, do you understand? Don't be adamant, to be fair, even if my brother-in-law is a criminal suspect, he has the right to remain silent! As an unemployed woman, why can't she wait for her husband?
14, it is easy to find a woman, but it is not easy to find a home.
15. Falling in love is like running. You can't always expect men to run as fast as when they start.
16 As the saying goes, a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea. In fact, a man's heart is like a needle. You look too closely, and when people are around you, your heart runs away.
17, the daughter-in-law is like a hand and foot, and the third one is like a dress. Hands and feet are old, not good-looking and not easy to use. Can I amputate at will? Clothes, no matter how beautiful, no matter how beautiful, a piece of clothing costs millions, and it's over when you put it on.
18, it is easier to die than to live; It takes only a moment to die, but it takes a lifetime to live; It's simple to die, and you don't have to consider the complicated things like houses, cars, old people and children. To live, there are many things to consider, and all aspects should be satisfied.
Classic Quotations: The starting point of your life is not that important, but the important thing is.
Classic Quotations: The starting point of your life is not so important, what matters is where you finally arrive.
1, we must accept disappointment because it is limited, but we must never lose hope because it is infinite.
2. Try to make the spark called conscience in your heart never go out. Joe Washington
We didn't know who was swimming naked until the big waves receded. Buffett (male name)
People make mistakes not because they don't understand, but because they think they know everything. George Soros
Competition is not the driving force of human progress, but jealousy is.
6. Learn to let your feelings follow your thoughts, not your thoughts follow your feelings. Robert Toru Kiyosaki's rich dad and poor dad
7. When a person is trusted by the public, he should regard himself as public property. Jefferson
8. This concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to realize.
9. If youth has shortcomings, it is that it disappears too quickly. Janra Lowell
10, everyone has this tendency. Once there is a problem, we should solve it immediately, otherwise we will be upset and fidgety. This mentality is obviously unrealistic, but what is even more frightening is that waiting for the problem to disappear by itself usually does not bring any good results.
1 1. If you can't fly, run; If you can't run, then go; Climb when you can't walk; But no matter what you do, you must move on. Martin Luther king
12, cynics complain about reality, and winners analyze reality. Complaining makes people blind, while analysis makes people clever.
13, history will record that in this social transformation period, the biggest tragedy is not the arrogance of bad people, but the excessive silence of good people.
No matter how talented you are, no matter how hard you work, some things just take time. Let nine women get pregnant at the same time, and the child will not come out in a month.
15, personality disorder is mostly due to incompetent parents, but I don't know. There is an accepted saying in the field of psychology: neurosis patients make themselves suffer, and personality disorder makes others suffer. In other words, neurotic patients take responsibility for themselves and are exhausted; People with personality disorders complain, and children bear the brunt.
16, when someone forces you to break through yourself, you should thank him. He is an important person in your life. Maybe you will change because of him. When no one forces you, please force yourself, because the real change is that you want to change. The process of transformation is very painful, but every transformation will have growth surprises.
17, everyone is more or less experiencing the struggle of two forces: the desire to be alone and the impulse to go out. Introversion means being interested in your inner active thinking and fantasy; And extroverted, interested in people outside and what they can see. Nabakov
18. Don't promise others easily when you are incompetent. Once you have promised others, you must keep your promise. Washington
19, the most regrettable thing in life is that you are not brave. Tasha duduo
I hope you don't touch the collection of 50 classic quotations from love rat.
I hope you don't touch the classic quotations of love rat (1) 1. After separation, I just want to be quiet. I have no time to get involved in your life.
You are better than her. You are not material at all.
3. Can you be a woman if you can't have a son and do housework?
I've done a lot for you, and you don't know it.
She is special, not like you.
6. You are very good, and I don't deserve you.
7. I'm just too impulsive to control my hands.
I had a meeting all day today, and I was very tired after working all day.
I didn't lie to you, and you wouldn't believe me if I told you.
10. We have different personalities, and you will find someone better than me.
1 1. She grew up with me. We've been like this since childhood. It doesn't matter!
12. This is just two identical loves.
13. I like you, but maybe she is more suitable for me.
14. I'm not scum, I just want to give every girl a home.
15. Touching her body is like touching myself.
16. She took the initiative and I couldn't help it.
17. I just play with her. I'm just teasing you.
I hope you don't touch love rat's classic quotation (II) 18. She and I just take part in accidental amusement.
19. Just think of me as a scum man. I never existed.
Call yourself.
2 1. I'm not scum, I just want to give every girl a home.
22. I don't think I'm ready to start a stable relationship.
23. She took the initiative, and I drank too much.
24. You are North and South, and do not interfere with each other.
25. I don't deserve you.
26. We won't buy it.
27. We're just having fun. I love you!
28. Have you had your period? I miss you.
29. The first time I saw you, I thought you were different from other girls.
30. It has nothing to do with her that we broke up.
3 1. Because of my future wife, I hope she is a virgin.
32. You are great. You deserve better. I don't deserve you.
33. Can you stop doubting this and that?
34. can you grow up
I hope everyone can't get in touch with love rat's classic quotations (Part III). You are a good girl, but we can't be together.
36. I am not the only man in the world who is attracted by two women.
37. There is really nothing between me and her.
38. Even if I have slept with a thousand women, I only love you.
39. We are in love, not married. How can you have children? Why are you so melodramatic?
40. I only regard you as my friend.
4 1. I only have you in my heart.
42. Anyway, I only have you in my heart.
43. We are not suitable.
44. Love is like a play. Your friendship is a guest appearance, but I perform with my heart.
45. She just wants to chat with me, that's all.
46. I shouldn't call you. I don't want to keep you.
47. I only do this to you.
48. She and I are in the past, but I love her too much to forget her.
49. I seem to have fallen in love with this forest.
You give me a love, and I really can't bear to leave here.
Classic Quotations: Ignoring others' feelings is selfish, and caring too much about others' feelings is self-abuse.
Classic Quotations: Ignoring others' feelings is selfish, and caring too much about others' feelings is self-abuse.
1, a person's day, you can't shout pain as soon as you bleed, turn on the light as soon as it gets dark, and contact me as soon as you miss it.
Happiness does not mean that everything is perfect, but that you have made up your mind to let your eyes go beyond imperfection.
Sometimes, all you need is a pair of reliable arms, someone who can read his silence.
Always believing that you have me in your heart is the stupidest thing I have ever done.
5, trouble is not overnight, forgetting is happiness.
6. It is selfish not to consider other people's feelings, and it is self-abuse to care too much about other people's feelings.
7. You are just mature, I am just gentle, and meeting the right person at the best age is the most beautiful fairy tale.
8. It's probably inappropriate that I can't make you happy, but you will only make me cry.
Sadly, you are indispensable to me, and I am dispensable to you.
10, from passion to affection, from moving to gratitude, from romance to being together. The longer I stay, the more reluctant I am to leave you. This is called love.
1 1, who has tasted the sweetness of love, is qualified to say long live single.
12, after all, people who try to make you laugh are not as happy as they meet.
13. If no one protects you, you will be so cool that you have no weakness. You are too great to be destroyed emotionally.
14, it seems to be like this every time, without exception. When we need someone to lean on most, we often get through it alone in the end.
15. If you are taller than your girlfriend, bow your head for the first time when quarreling.
16, the passage of time will not make people mature, only after going through many roads and experiencing countless sudden prosperity and desolation in life will they become mature.
17, what kind of person are you, just know yourself; What kind of life you live, just enjoy it or bear it yourself. There is no need for everyone to know and understand that bitter days are bitter days and good days are enjoyment.
18, girls should cultivate five things: self-confidence on their faces, kindness in their hearts, backbone in their blood, gentleness on their faces like a breeze, and firmness in life.
19, people who are stronger than you won't laugh at you, but people who are weaker than you will! The purpose is to make you as weak as they are. It's just human instinct to open your mouth and shout. It takes human wisdom to shut up and think hard.
20. I don't know who I will meet next, but I can be sure that no matter who the other person is, he also longs for my Excellence, so I don't need to spend a lot of time imagining what the future should be like, but I should arm myself with all my waiting, just to be able to confidently say: I know you are good, but I am not bad.
Sometimes, people who know how to avoid problems are better than those who know how to solve them.
No one has the right to judge you. They may have heard of you, but they can't feel your experience.
23. Many times, people who are polite to you are because they have a distance from you in their hearts.
24. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions.
25. Meeting is partly called fate and partly called doom. Fate is doomed.
26. Why do people make the same mistake? There is only one reason: the former one doesn't hurt enough.
27. It's not the pressure that overwhelms you, but the way you bear it.
28. The grievances of strangers are all vented on their lovers. This is wrong and needs to be changed.
29, life is so short, life is the only way, I don't want to die of old age slowly.
30. When God gives you a big gift, he will make a package with many difficulties.
Give yourself a "restart"
Restart yourself.
Sometimes, I have inexplicable anxiety in my heart. I was sitting in front of my work station, feeling that I was about to explode. When I arrive, I will leave. There will be a phone call in Douban Taobao Weibo at night, and it will be repeated the next day. There is a nice word called this state of periodic low tide. In addition, it may also be the result of improper management of people's energy and emotions.
I haven't studied this subject. I call this state collapse. Every time this state lasts until I can't stand it, I force myself to start over so as to return to work in the big factory where I live as soon as possible. The method of restarting, I have tried these:
1, the breath of home is the sea.
This is the title of an article by Wang Wenhua, which aptly describes the comfort of home. When I was in middle school, I learned the old saying of China, and poverty comes to the root. When they are frustrated, they always think of their families.
I learned an English text in college, and an American living in France wrote, whenever I get tired of staying in France without BBQ, I will go back to the United States to visit and refuel. At that time, I thought the word Samuel was used exquisitely. A tired man is like a car without oil. Go home and refuel, and immediately continue to gallop energetically on the battlefield of life. This is the same as restarting restart.
I often go home at school, and I feel less at that time. It's really Samuel who comes home from work, and the effect is comparable to being full every day. It's like a long spiritual SpA.
2. In addition to eating, drinking and having fun, there is also a collision of ideas.
If the weather is right and the people are right, let's take a trip. There are always surprises in strange environments. Qingming went to Nanjing to see an original art exhibition showing the inner world of mental patients. I like the feeling that there is such a thing in the world.
Mental patients' thinking is fragmented, so unlike ordinary people, they always make a theme consciously or unconsciously and frame themselves first. Their paintings and works are variations without themes, but they are closer to the truth than we are.
The Prototype Art Center is located in Jiang Xinzhou, Nanjing. It is a rural area, with vast space and few people, which makes people relax. There is also a small piece of rape field, and I really have no resistance to this thing.
3. Eat something you don't want to eat on weekdays.
When you are in a bad state, you won't feel guilty about eating anything good and expensive. I have been preparing to eat delicious food all year, because Japanese chefs are very handsome and do everything with great care. The food in some Chinese restaurants is good-looking, but it's a kind of exquisite craft, so it's not good-looking.
It seems that Sammi Cheng said in Magic Kitchen that the true meaning of cooking is heart. When the food made with heart is placed in front of me, there will be an energy field around me, and the chef's heart in the food will be transmitted to me through this energy field, reminding me to live with heart.
Just as Fu, a masseur, actually not only massages, but also transmits his neutral qi to us through his fingers, a good masseur's fingers are full and stout. Isn't it a little mysterious? Anyway, I can feel the heart in the dish, and once I was moved by a bowl of bone soup noodles made with my heart and cried.
A catering customer wanted to see me when he heard my colleague say this, hehe. That small restaurant became my refuge. Apart from the reunion dinner, when I go, I either worry about myself or solve problems for others.
4. Do what you don't usually do.
At this time, people are more sensitive, and a little thing that comes out of nowhere becomes a switch, turning themselves from off to on and up again. Last time I was cured by Tiantian+You Are the One+Happy Camp. It is strange that people who don't watch TV at ordinary times are so bored that they see the effect of inspirational films after watching several entertainment programs. Together, these three programs can be elected as the weirdest inspirational combination.
That's about it. And change your hair, get your nails done, cry in porn, watch idol dramas and laugh, you know. I think there are many ways, and the most important thing is to have the consciousness of actively getting yourself out of that state. You can't immerse yourself in it and let it overflow, otherwise it is very prone to disaster.
Finally, say something interesting. When the office said it was going to restart before Qingming, the design lady said that she also felt the need to restart. A gentleman came over and said: you can't restart, you have to reinstall the system! Smile, SHI. Me too.