Young men and women work and live in two places, blind dates become a necessary way to understand the opposite sex. Coupled with the constant urging of parents, it is difficult to think of blind dates. Socializing on blind dates is inevitable, and so is spending money to socialize. This issue will talk about the spending on blind dates.
Eating may seem simple, but it involves a legal relationship. There is a food service contract between the customer and the hotel. Although we can't see or touch it, it does connect the debts and liabilities between the customer and the hotel. This form of transaction in which both parties do not sign a written contract and fulfill their respective obligations in practice is called a de facto contract. When a restaurant cooks and serves food, it fulfills its contractual obligations. Accordingly, the customer pays the bill. So, who pays the bill? In the absence of a clear meaning, according to folk practice, whoever invites the customer pays the bill, and whoever orders the food pays the bill.
We can't tell in the video whether they told the boss when they reached the agreement. If they didn't, the money is ****ing the same debt in the eyes of the boss. Subtext: I don't care what your relationship is, as long as someone else pays the bill. Therefore, the unsuspecting boss has the right to demand that the young man pay the full amount, and then the young man will recoup half the money from the girl.
Dating is still at the stage of tentative contact between men and women. If you follow tradition (listen to your mom), you will always get an unsolicited invitation from the man, while the woman is more reserved and passive. Just like the ancient poem "Guan Ju" wrote, "Pick around. My beautiful lady, friend of the piano and harp." From a material point of view, the man's treat will inevitably lose out.
The treat: the typical embodiment of the act of friendship, where one party gives a favor and the other enjoys the benefit for free. The purpose is to establish, maintain, and enhance friendship with others by harming them. Acts of friendship differ from civil acts in which legal effects are actively pursued. Both parties have no intention of establishing a legal relationship or being legally bound, implying less rationality and seriousness under the legal framework and more emotional romance in interpersonal relationships.AA: On occasions of *** same consumption, each shares their own expenses, each is responsible only for themselves and owes nothing to the other, and are at peace with themselves and maintain their economic independence and personality self-esteem.
Western countries have a long tradition of AA, which is closely related to the geographical discovery and the development of maritime trade. Explorers, traders, sailors, and pirates were highly mobile, traveling all day in different areas and ending up on shore for a few days. The most pleasant pastime was to find a tavern and have a good time. A few strangers meet in passing, but it is likely that they will never see each other again for the rest of their lives. In order not to lose out, AA was born. It epitomizes not only the age of the great oceans, but also the Western legal tradition of the sanctity of private property.
When it comes to dating in China, AA spending seems to be out of fashion. The chauvinists say that money hurts feelings and face, not just a meal, but how can a man let a woman look down on him? Some girls have acquiesced to the social unspoken rule that women are superior to men, thinking that you are willing to come out is enough. The ultimate goal of courtship doomed the unequal relationship between men and women in dating. The pursuit of fairness in consumption is really difficult. Boys meet the initiative AA girls, must be cherished.