When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let my brother eat the big one. "

At an early age, Kong Rong learned the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then, Kong Rong has spread the story of pears for thousands of years, becoming a model of unity and friendship.

2. Worried about tasting feces

Yu, Gao Shi of Nanqi, was appointed as the magistrate of Yiling County. Less than ten days after taking office, I suddenly felt scared and sweaty. I had a premonition that something had happened at home, so I immediately resigned and returned to China. When I got home, I realized that my father had been seriously ill for two days. The doctor said, "To know the condition, just taste the patient's feces. It is bitter."

Qian Lou went to taste his father's excrement and found it very sweet. He is very worried. At night, he bowed down to the Big Dipper and begged to die for his father. A few days later, his father died, and Qian Lou buried his father and raised him there for three years.

The prime minister apologized. During Hawke's tenure as Prime Minister of Australia, he had an argument with an old man about pension in a shopping mall. Hawke called the old man a "stupid old man" on impulse, so the old man took him to court.

Hawke held a press conference and publicly apologized to the old man for his uncivilized language. He said, "I was sad that day, but that can't be the reason why I used that wording." If I really hurt him, I would like to apologize to this gentleman for it. Please forgive my rudeness. "

Lenin gave way.

Once, Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will make way for Lenin and prepare to go back by themselves. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly.

Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Lenin is undoubtedly a great man, but he is not rude because of his lofty position, which shows his great quality.

5, "submit to humiliation" Lincoln

Once, American President Lincoln and his son Robert drove into the street and met an army crossing the street. Lincoln casually asked a passerby, "What is this?" Lincoln wanted to ask which state's regiment it was, but he didn't make it clear. The man thought he didn't know the army, so he replied rudely, "This is a federal army. You are such a fucking idiot. " When Lincoln was reprimanded by an ordinary passerby, he only said "thank you" without scowling.

6. The origin of grievance adjudication

Ke Liping, the conductor of Shanghai No.22 bus, once won a very special award-the "grievance award". One day, when a young man bought a ticket, he deliberately spat on a fifty-cent bill and threw it on the floor of the carriage. While other passengers accused the young man, they also quietly looked at Ke Liping.

She bent down to pick up the paper money, wiped her phlegm with a napkin, and then politely handed the ticket to the young man. Ke Liping's behavior was praised by the passengers. The young man felt ashamed and apologized to Ke Liping. Afterwards, colleagues reported the matter to the team, and the team leader specially awarded Ke Liping the "grievance award" to encourage the team's ticket sellers.