Life is colorful, but when we face the world in all shapes and sizes of human warmth and warmth, the temptation of fame and fortune, but it is often "greedy to see the moon in the air, lost in the hands of the beads", it is difficult to keep a normal heart.
When I first started high school, I was very focused on my test scores. The first monthly examination of my math only 50 points, I was really ashamed, for a few days were worried, afraid that the teacher called me to the office "talk". Home after the heart is not solid, blame yourself too stupid, the problem is obviously not difficult, why do a mess, the test so little points really shame. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in a few hours.
The results of one of the exams brought me into another unusual state of mind, that of ecstasy. My total score in all subjects in the class ranked first, ranked fifth in the grade, the class teacher teacher's praise, father, mother's praise, the envy of the classmates gaze, let me drift to find the north, I every day intoxicated in the vanity to be satisfied with the joy of the Reader's Digest can not be read into the homework is also not as serious as before. It was not until an unexpected discovery that I fell from the clouds to the flat ground.
It was noon one day, I sent the heavy 50 homework to the language teacher's office, and inadvertently glanced at the desk under the glass plate pressed a line of "low-profile life ordinary things" note. At that moment I suddenly felt myself childish and ridiculous, language teacher is already full of special teachers, but he is still low-profile life, ordinary things as a life motto, I just a test scored a high score can not help it. Back home, I chewed, slowly savor the meaning of the motto, it tells me a man of truth, success and failure are very natural, do not take the life of fame and fortune, gain and loss of too much weight, do not get carried away by the success of the moment, and do not for the occasional mistake and stumble, only to maintain a normal state of mind in order to facilitate the study, in order to savor the true life, as people taste the food from three meals a day. Three meals a day in the diet of the taste of the world taste, food and tea and do not have aversion to the heart, taste delicious food and absolutely no pride and luxury, this is probably the ordinary heart it.
I also recalled the other day in the "Reader" saw an article: a man spent two marks to buy a lottery ticket, the results of the first prize, he purchased a mansion, which is decorated with expensive, friends are very envious of him, but he did not think so. One day, he accidentally dropped his cigarette on the ground, but he did not realize that after he left the house, the cigarette started a fire, and the whole mansion was reduced to ashes in the blink of an eye. His friends all lamented and exclaimed, "You've lost too much!" Instead, he said flatly, "I only lost two marks." This story is a bit of a legend, but it tells us one thing: we should face the gains and losses in life with a normal heart.
The old saying goes, "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." The only way to get a beautiful, fulfilling and free life is to be at peace, to let everything take its course, to face what you have and to face what you have lost with a normal heart.
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Life exists in this world, you have to encounter suffering, suffering is like the water in the ocean, the desert sand. It accompanies you at all times. Different people's understanding of suffering is different, pessimistic people are afraid of suffering, to avoid suffering; optimistic people are strong to face him to overcome him, to use him.
Pu Songling in the case of several failures, but still have "bitter people, the sky is not responsible for; break the kettle and sink the boat, a million Qin passes belong to the Chu; who has the will, where there is a way, lying down on the payroll and taste the guts, three thousand Yuejia can be swallowed by the Wu," the ambitions, and finally, Pu Songling to see the coolness of the world, wrote "Liaozhai Zhiyi," the world famous. Imagine, if he more setbacks on the retreat, see the suffering on the surrender, he may be successful? Could we have seen "Liaozhai Zhiyi"?
Cao Xueqin was born in the decline of the noble family, living in a happy family from a young age, nothing, when he witnessed the family from prosperity to decline, the blow made him "full of artemisia old age is not China, the family gruel wine on credit". Suffering is really a fortune for him, and his keen insight made him write the epitome of the world, "Dream of the Red Chamber", which attracted the attention of the whole world. Suffering can make a man, and suffering makes life meaningful.
A shell undergoes the rinsing of running water, strikes, withstands the burial of sand and stones, and undergoes countless sufferings before the pearl that shines and mesmerizes people emerges.
A rainbow, only after a heavy rain, only appeared in the azure sky, let people appreciate, let people envy.
A wave is only as beautiful as the rocks slamming against it.
Suffering is a fortune, after experiencing suffering, there will be the King of Wen detained and performed Zhou Yi, Zhong Ni Er and made the Spring and Autumn, Qu Yuan in exile, and is endowed with the Li Sao, Sun Zi Bin feet, the art of war to repair the columns, not Wei relocated to Shu, the world passes on the Lu exposition ......
Only after the people experience the suffering, only then they will be more cherished life, cherished is different from the life, and they They suffer more than ordinary people, know the value of life, they know more about life, they will try to face the survival of the roaring struggle, do business, because "worry can be prosperous country, ease and hesitation can be dead body". Shi Tiesheng was able to face life strongly and become a writer because he lost his legs. Helen valued life because she was blind!
And the college entrance examination in front of us, so that millions of parents and students waiting for the college entrance examination can not be said is not suffering, we should look at how to see the college entrance examination?
I appreciate the famous saying "not to be alarmed by favor or disgrace, to see the flowers blossom and fall in front of the garden; to stay or go without intention, look at the sky winds and clouds", I also like Fan Zhongyi's "not to be happy with the things, not to be sad about themselves". The sun hangs in the sky every 12 hours out once, there is always day and night, there are always sad and happy people, the moon has a round and sunny, we have to accept the vision of suffering. Because suffering is a fortune.