2065438+In August 2008, Zhang Dawei, a 33-year-old boy from Chenzhou, Hunan Province, turned to the media mediator for help in order to get rid of his wife's endless entanglement.

Zhang Dawei said, "I felt cheated by my wife when I got married. Now I want a divorce. My wife refused to live or die and asked for a divorce of200,000! "

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According to Zhang Dawei, he was introduced to marry his wife Shi Xiaomei four months ago. Shortly after marriage, his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer.

Zhang Dawei felt that his wife's illness came too suddenly, and combined with his wife's strange behavior before marriage, he judged that his wife had deliberately concealed the fact of illness before marriage, so he insisted on divorce.

So, did Shi Xiaomei hide the fact that she was ill before she got married? Should Zhang Dawei be responsible for his wife's illness?

A single man married a second wife.

Zhang Dawei, who lives in rural Chenzhou, is the only child. His family conditions were average and he was introverted. He never got married until he was 33 years old.

When parents saw that all the boys of the same age in the village were married and had children, they looked for people everywhere to help their sons introduce each other.

Finally, Zhang Dawei's parents helped him find a suitable partner. This woman's name is Shi Xiaomei.

Shi Xiaomei married for the second time and gave birth to a daughter. When the matchmaker arranged for them to meet, Zhang Dawei was introverted and inarticulate. On the contrary, Shi Xiaomei took the initiative and was very enthusiastic.

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Although Shi Xiaomei is more enthusiastic and active, Zhang Dawei doesn't have much affection for her, mainly because Zhang Dawei cares about her second marriage and children.

Shi Xiaomei may have sensed that Zhang Dawei was dissatisfied with her, so she began to think of ways to take the initiative.

When they were still in the understanding stage, they took the initiative to go home to chat with their parents and contracted all the housework of the Zhang family.

Zhang's father and mother are very satisfied with the future daughter-in-law's performance, and their parents' attitude also affects their choice.

Next, Zhang Dawei's parents began to "enlighten" him in turn: "Son, you are not young, don't pick any more." "Although she is married and has children, she is a real person." "I think this daughter-in-law will do. Get married quickly. " .........

Zhang Dawei didn't give in to his parents' persuasion every day. In his view, after all, marriage is a lifetime thing, and he doesn't want to spend his life with someone he doesn't love.

Seeing Zhang Dawei's delay in accepting himself, Shi Xiaomei began to express his various initiatives to him.

From small to large, the opposite sex has never taken the initiative to confess. Now I suddenly met a Zhang Dawei who volunteered to express himself.

Finally, Shi Xiaomei's heartfelt words deeply touched Zhang Dawei and made him accept Shi Xiaomei from the heart.

Shi Xiaomei said to Zhang Dawei, "I only want your people. For you, I don't want a penny bride price, no banquet, no wedding photos, as long as I can be with you! "

I just want to be with myself when I see Shi Xiaomei, and I don't want any bride price banquet or even wedding photos.

This convinced Zhang Dawei that Shi Xiaomei absolutely loved him. See each other so love him, Zhang Dawei wanted to think. Since he couldn't find someone who loved him deeply, he went to find someone who loved him deeply.

With the change of Zhang Dawei's attitude, their feelings quickly warmed up and soon developed to the point of talking about marriage.

Wife's abnormality

After Zhang Dawei and Shi Xiaomei confirmed their love relationship, they only paid a token bride price of 1 10,000 yuan.

However, a grand wedding was held, and the Ming media officially took Shi Xiaomei home. The total cost of the whole wedding link is less than 50 thousand.

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Spending so little money to marry a daughter-in-law made the Zhang family very satisfied and began to look forward to a better life after marriage.

After Zhang Dawei married his wife, Shi Xiaomei, she found that her wife was a little abnormal and took several pills every day, which made Zhang Dawei curious.

He asked his wife why she took medicine. Shi Xiaomei called it mediation to promote pregnancy, and she wanted to have a child of their own as soon as possible.

This coincides with Zhang Dawei's idea, and he no longer doubts his wife's behavior of taking medicine.

Then Zhang Dawei found that his wife ate very little food at a time, even less than a child's.

His wife just explained that she wanted to keep fit and had been dieting. Zhang Dawei trusted her again.

One day after they got married for more than two months, his wife Shi Xiaomei suddenly fainted at home, and Zhang Dawei and his family rushed to take her to the hospital.

After being hospitalized, the doctor told Zhang Dawei that his wife Shi Xiaomei had breast cancer, which directly troubled the Zhang Dawei family.

My wife, who had just been married for two months, was suddenly diagnosed with cancer. More suspicious is the attitude of his wife Shi Xiaomei.

Since Shi Xiaomei was hospitalized, she seems to know her illness, but she has not shown special concern for her illness. Instead, she should eat and sleep as usual.

However, this did not arouse Zhang Dawei's suspicion. It was not until Zhang Dawei told her that his wife had cancer that Zhang Dawei felt a little abnormal from her reaction.

When the test results first came out, Zhang Dawei didn't tell his wife for the first time. He was worried that his wife could not accept the result for a while.

Seeing that his wife was in good health during her hospitalization, Zhang Dawei told his wife Shi Xiaomei the results of the examination.

Zhang Dawei thought that his wife would be very sad when she heard the test results, but it was just the opposite.

Shi Xiaomei didn't show any special sadness, but simply said, "I can't help it if I'm sick!"

His wife's reaction greatly surprised Zhang Dawei, which also aroused his suspicion.

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Husband's suspicion

After more than two months of marriage, my wife was diagnosed with cancer. Zhang Dawei suspects that his wife deliberately concealed her medical history before marriage. Zhang Dawei said this for a reason:

First of all, as soon as they met, Shi Xiaomei showed great initiative and continued to please Zhang Dawei and his parents.

Zhang Dawei knew that he was not that attractive at all, and now he finally understood why his wife was so active.

Secondly, after they confirmed their relationship, Shi Xiaomei urged them to get married as soon as possible, and even couldn't wait to take wedding photos.

Zhang Dawei judged that Shi Xiaomei was eager to marry him, knowing that his illness might soon be hidden, so he was eager to marry him and bind his interests.

Third, Shi Xiaomei often takes medicine after marriage and eats very little, which is what Zhang Dawei is most suspicious of.

Zhang Dawei judged that the medicine Shi Xiaomei took was not a medicine for mediating pregnancy at all, but a medicine for treating breast cancer, and she ate less because of illness.

Finally, Shi Xiaomei's calm performance after learning that he had cancer was too rational, because the probability of cure was very low.

Zhang Dawei judged that she already knew the result of Shi Xiaomei's calm performance, so when he told his wife the result, she would be very calm.

According to his wife Shi Xiaomei's abnormal behavior before and after marriage, Zhang Dawei judged that his wife must have concealed her medical history before marriage, which made him a "successor".

But all this is just Zhang Dawei's guess, and there is no actual evidence to prove that his wife Shi Xiaomei concealed her medical history before marriage.

Considering the limited economic conditions at home, Zhang Dawei advised his wife Shi Xiaomei to go home for conservative treatment. After all, the long-term hospitalization fee is too big for him to afford.

His wife, Shi Xiaomei, resolutely refused to leave the hospital. She insisted on chemotherapy according to the doctor's advice.

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Continuing treatment means paying high medical expenses. As a husband, Zhang Dawei just started to pay for his wife's treatment for a period of time.

However, due to the high daily expenses, Zhang Dawei could not afford it for a long time, so he suggested that his wife go home with him for conservative treatment. Shi Xiaomei still refused to go home and insisted on hospitalization.

Seeing that his wife was opinionated, Zhang Dawei stopped caring about his wife's hospitalization expenses and began to avoid her.

Shi Xiaomei saw her husband start to hide from himself and threw her into the hospital regardless. She ran home angrily and asked her why she was so heartless.

In this way, a fierce quarrel broke out between the couple who had just been married for four months, and Zhang Dawei's mother even threw her daughter-in-law Shi Xiaomei's clothes out of the door.

Zhang trusts his son's judgment. The daughter-in-law confused the whole family before marriage in order to find a husband to see her.

After the quarrel between husband and wife, both parents also participated in it, and the contradictions between the two families were completely irreconcilable.

Angry Zhang Dawei proposed to break up, and Shi Xiaomei said not to be outdone that he would pay 200,000 yuan for a divorce, and living together for several months could not let him take advantage of it in vain.

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Regarding the statement that her husband Zhang Dawei accused her of concealing her medical history before marriage, Shi Xiaomei asked her husband: "Since I knew I was sick before I got married, why did you marry me?"

Shi Xiaomei felt that her husband Zhang Dawei said these things to cover up the fact that he didn't want to be responsible for himself.

Shi Xiaomei is eager to marry her husband, Zhang Dawei. Because she has no marriage history, there won't be so much trouble after marriage, so she took the initiative.

As for breast cancer, she didn't know until her husband Zhang Dawei told her.

At that time, she didn't show excessive sadness, because she had heard that there was a cure for breast cancer.

So she thinks that as long as she cooperates with the treatment, the hope of cure is still quite great, so it is normal for her not to be too sad.

In this way, the couple fell into mutual accusations, and Zhang Dawei insisted that his wife had concealed her premarital medical history.

Shi Xiaomei accused her husband, Zhang Dawei, of distorting the facts and gaining sympathy in order to escape her responsibilities as a husband.

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The two sides were at daggers drawn, and Shi Xiaomei knew that this marriage was difficult to recover, so he proposed that Zhang Dawei should pay 200,000 yuan as a "breakup fee".

In Shi Xiaomei's view, from the beginning, she took a fancy to Zhang Great Man. In order to save money for her husband, she didn't take the initiative to ask for a bride price when she got married, and even didn't want her husband to spend more money on wedding photos.

At that time, she was rushing to live a good life with her husband, but after this "disaster", she understood the truth that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately."

She decided not to think about her husband everywhere. Since her husband didn't want to be with him for more than four months, she asked for a "breakup fee" of 200 thousand, which was reasonable in her opinion.

But in Zhang Dawei's view, it's not that he doesn't want a wife, but the medical history that his wife concealed before marriage, so he proposed to break up. However, in any case, his wife, Shi Xiaomei, should not ask for so much "breakup fee", and he refused to give it.

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In order to give the couple a good drink, the mediator asked the attending doctor about the total cost of Shi Xiaomei's treatment.

Finally, the attending doctor calculated that it needed more than 1.4 million, and then it needed more than 80,000 for reimbursement.

Hearing that the treatment cost only 80,000 yuan, the mediator asked Shi Xiaomei if he could reduce the amount. Shi Xiaomei wanted to think, said at least 65438+ ten thousand yuan.

Zhang Dawei is still not satisfied with this amount. He thinks that his wife's illness only needs 80 thousand, and as a husband, he can share up to 40 thousand.

Finally, under the mediation of the mediator, the two sides reached an agreement on the "breakup fee", and Zhang Dawei paid Shi Xiaomei 70,000 yuan, and the two sides subsequently dissolved the relationship.

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In fact, marriage should be a ladder to happiness, but some people with a heart regard it as a means of profit, more like a business.

What do you think of the marriage between Zhang Dawei and Shi Xiaomei?