When I'm no longer young, I'm a little crazy, and I just want home and everything? But it was always a cloudy dream. I don't know when I can stop being confused and go into battle lightly. I feel that the direction is right and accurate, which is the subtlety of the goal, and which distant point is not easy to achieve!
You don't need to have a clear sense of life. You just need to recognize yourself and don't have to worry about the future. I missed my goal when I was young, but now I am hopelessly confused in the second half! Time is too short, leave it to future generations to continue their search for past lives.
people are like this, so you can't care too much about the elapsed time. Because time is its own freedom, no one can shake it! This is the helpless self of people, who can only silently bear the passage of time! However, it is often followed by God's will, and we must face the unusual epidemic correctly and cannot escape!
Therefore, we must interact with ourselves, follow our feelings when we are confused, re-recognize and position ourselves, change a direction and goal, and never block our way! Let yourself deal with the goal, never give up, and see the general direction clearly ...
When you are no longer young, but you have accomplished nothing and feel confused, you are helpless.
at this age, it's really difficult. There is no career, no deposit, physical strength and energy are not enough, it is not easy to find a job, it is difficult to earn money, and the pressure is great.
life has to go on! If you can't make a lot of money, the days will pass slowly. The key is not to die. You must have self-confidence, not to lose heart, not to be discouraged and not to give up. Find what you can do, don't aim too high, as long as you have a class, have something to do and make money, you can rest assured, be practical and be dead set.
Only when you are working and making money, can you live a stable life, have no conflicts in your family, have fewer worries, have no time to think about it, and feel cheerful.
Labor is glorious, labor can create wealth, labor can bring happiness, and labor can forget all troubles!
don't believe it. From today on, you will go to work, do things, farm land and make money, and nothing else will happen.
don't look at the mirror and feel sorry for yourself at home all day, complaining about the sky and mourning for others, and thinking about the east and the west makes people feel weak and depressed, which makes no sense.
If we can't make a fortune, we can be an ordinary person. We can live to be old, live to be old, and learn from it. As long as we have a positive and hopeful heart for life, we will keep working hard and make progress. Like the old people in Deshun Wang, it is unfortunate to be successful in our later years.
Tell two true stories around you: Uncle Cheng (69) and Sister Mei (49). Cheng Shu used to hold public office, but his industry was dissolved overnight. He was 55 years old that year. Mei Jie used to run a hot pot restaurant, and she had the beauty of a female boss. In order to block the hole in her husband's construction company, she closed the door and transferred it. The house in the city was gone and she still owed millions of huge debts. She was 41 years old that year.
When Uncle Cheng was laid off, he had an elderly mother and a little daughter who was studying in Grade One. The salary is gone, and the meager pension can't support one year's expenses, and the age is nothing. The previous public office was not rich, but it was decent. Cheng Shu, who was forced to make a living at the age of 55, pulled his face down and went to the market, setting up stalls, running transportation, selling fruits, and frying fried dough sticks ..... and he was unable to make ends meet.
Uncle Cheng's place is a township, and he found that local Chinese herbal medicines are very popular for visiting doctors to treat skin diseases, and middle-aged and elderly rural patients are a huge customer group. Uncle Cheng recalled his dream of being a doctor when he was young, and he had an epiphany and decided to give it a try.
Uncle Cheng found a visiting doctor from a foreign country (younger than Uncle Cheng), invited him to his home, paid tuition, and devoted himself to his studies. After nearly a year, he became an uncle. Walking through the streets and lanes to set up stalls rain or shine, Cheng Shu did it for 8 years.
Uncle Cheng is very busy. Most of his medicines are prepared by himself, collecting raw materials, processing and manufacturing, packaging finished products, and developing new drugs ... In recent years, Uncle Cheng doesn't need to go out to set up a stall, because it is enough for him to find patients at home directly. Over the years, he provided for his daughter to graduate from college and renovated the house at home.
Let's talk about Sister Mei, who was 41 years old. Career and life suffered a cliff-like plunge, and her husband couldn't bear the blow of getting drunk every day. Sister Mei was ten years older in an instant. It's impossible to open a shop by yourself, and then she can only work as a waiter in the catering industry. Sister Mei can afford to suffer, and it was also bitter to start from scratch when she was young. However, the waiter's income is not only to support the family, but also to pay off debts. When is the end?
Mei Jie saw a large-scale national chain beauty and health care center recruiting beauticians. Mei Jie worked in this industry for two years before she got married, and few people knew that if she could persevere, the room for income growth would be tempting. Sister Mei, 41, walked into the beauty salon and started as an intern.
The assessment system of Mei Jie's company is strict, the tasks of theoretical study and practical operation are very heavy, and the working hours in the store are also very long. The beauty hygienist is not only a technical job, but also a manual job. The young colleagues around her have gone one after another, but Mei Jie has not left, so she has no way out. Sister Mei can't play games. She tries her best to serve every customer, and more and more customers are appointed. The whole company knows that there is an elderly beautician named Sister Mei.
Now Sister Mei is not only a senior technician, but also a mentor to new colleagues. Inspired by Sister Mei, my husband re-entered the construction industry a few years ago and became a worker. Husband and wife Qi Xin worked together, the debt was almost finished, the child was admitted to the university, and the old light appeared on Mei Jie's face.
We are no longer young and have accomplished nothing. What should we do? Uncle Cheng and Sister Mei have already told us.
be fearless, live seriously and come on!