Even if you make a decision on impulse, as long as you do it seriously, you will certainly gain something, and these experiences may change a person's future.

-Yokoyama's son, "Escape is the way for me to win: how can a deserter who keeps changing jobs become a chain restaurant boss?"

The difference between having a retreat and not having a retreat is often a far cry. When you have a retreat, you can't do your best, because you know that even if you fail, it won't be too bad. Most of the things that can make you exert your potential and do your best are in the absence of a retreat.

No matter what you want to achieve and what kind of task you accomplish, you must have enough determination besides knowing what to do. If you want to go abroad, you must know how to plan your route, but more importantly, are you determined enough to arrange a trip for yourself? How do you prevent yourself from delaying your trip because of work?

How determined you are depends on whether you give yourself a "retreat". You can't make a decision if you choose too much

Takamura Hideyoshi and Eiko Yamashita, the author of Centering: Finding Yourself Unaffected by Others, pointed out: "Anyone who wants to change himself and let his mind settle down is usually troubled by too many choices in front of him and can't make a decision or choose from them. When you have no choice, it is actually better to make a decision; There are too many choices, but it is easy to hesitate to make a decision because you don't know which is better. (Guide: Centering: Find yourself who is not influenced by others)

If you have too many choices, you should only consider the most important ones, discard the unimportant ones, and then focus on the top 21% things that are most worthy of your efforts. It's never too late to change

The environment will never be as good as we think. Pessimists are subject to the environment, but positive people can adapt to the environment and change themselves. Whether you want to change or not, it's never too late to change. You can start at any time if you want. What matters is whether you have the determination to change. Determination is an indispensable element to success

Being determined about one thing is the first step to success. Guo Taiming once said: "There are three parts to success, the first is to have a good strategy, the second is to have determination, and the third is that the method can be changed.

one of the key secrets to make yourself determined is to let yourself have no "retreat". As long as a person is in a situation where there is no retreat, he can often produce great strength. As the ancients said, "Don't chase after an enemy." It is based on the truth that the other party will fight with you if there is no retreat. Don't care about the fact that you can't change

The fact that you can't change. Learn to accept what can be changed and try to change it. Don't try to change the fact that you can't change, because it's usually in vain. Learn to accept what cannot be changed, and have the courage to change what can be changed.

Although a person can't change the external environmental factors, he can start by changing his attitude. When his attitude changes, his behavior will change accordingly. What can be changed through hard work should be changed with determination, and what cannot be changed through hard work should be learned to accept it with a heart. You can't do everything well, but you can try your best

You can do everything well, although you can't do everything well! Dr Spencer Qiang Sen, the author of Gift, pointed out: "You can't change the past, but you can learn from it. When the same thing happens, you can face it in different ways and become happier, more efficient and more successful from today. (Introduction: Gift: Grasp the present, learn from the past and create the future)

Although we can't predict the final result, we can choose to do our best. Change yourself, starting with changing habits

Matsuura Yataro, the author of "Matsuura Yataro said: If I am 25 years old now, the 51 things I want to do most", pointed out: "Basically, the surroundings and society will not change, but you can change yourself. Therefore, if you want to change everything, you must start with changing yourself. It may be a huge project from scratch, but it will definitely change one day. The best way to change yourself is to start with changing your habits. If your habits change, your behavior will become different.