My son made a mistake.
In his living room, the father forced the bamboo stick into his son's hand, then took off his coat, squatted in front of the sofa with his back to his son, and said angrily to his son, "It's my fault, you didn't teach well. You made a mistake. Ok, now you hit me hard with this bamboo pole and let me accept the punishment for you. " Looking at his father's red face, his son stood there motionless with a bamboo stick, but his hand was nowhere to put. Seeing this, the father grabbed the bamboo stick in his son's hand without hesitation, slapped himself on the back, and kept saying, "I didn't teach my father and son well, but I didn't teach you well, which made you worse and worse." Since it is dad's fault, dad didn't teach you well, and dad will be punished if he is wrong. "
The father punished his son for his mistake. Some people commented that the father was very responsible and set a good example for his son. Others commented that the father's "leading by example" education method is worth emulating. But in my opinion, the meaning of "it is a mistake to raise a godfather instead of a godfather" is not simply to stage a masochistic drama in front of children. That is, parents should reflect on their "mistakes".
"If you don't teach, it's your father's fault", which first came from Saint Amethyst and has been circulating for thousands of years. With the development of the times, the meaning of this sentence has been given a new meaning. When a child is born, it is the responsibility of parents if they only provide him with material life such as food and clothing, but fail to educate him well, so that he does not receive a good school education and family education. "
Therefore, when faced with children's mistakes, parents should reflect on whether they have fulfilled their responsibilities. In particular, have you provided a good family education for your children?
Sun, Sun, Sun and Deng Jiajia starred in Witness of the Whole People, which contains a legendary story of "the back wall of the dragon". Legend has it that the dragon back wall is not a wall, but a mountain. The ancient dragon king of the South China Sea came to his son in his later years. He loved this little dragon very much. Xiaolong is naughty and willful, causing trouble everywhere. One day, the Temple of Heaven was burned by mistake. The Dragon King of the South China Sea was very sympathetic to his son and took the place of Xiaolong to lie at the foot of Panlong Mountain and be struck by lightning. Seeing that his father was burned black and blue and dying, Xiaolong felt remorse and rushed out to bear the punishment. In order to stop his son, the Dragon King ran into the King Kong wall beside him and died on the spot. After his death, his body became Mount Veron. After this disaster, Xiaolong suddenly woke up and kept his duty and treated others well all his life. Later generations renamed peron "peron wall", because this wall blocked all the crimes of the little dragon king, so later people called it peron wall.
In this fairy tale, the dragon king of the South China Sea paid the price of his life in exchange for the dragon's regret, guilt and awakening. Some people praise the love of the South China Sea Dragon King's mountain father, but in my opinion, it is wrong to raise his father without teaching him. All this stems from the initial doting of the Nankai Dragon King. Spoiled, Xiaolong lacks sense of responsibility and self-discipline, so he has been developing willfulness and arbitrariness.
A few days ago, two male students in our class exchanged sticks in the toilet during their lunch break. As a result, one of them was hospitalized because of a broken finger. At that time, both parents went to school to deal with disputes, and another uninjured classmate covered his ears and showed a painful expression on his face, gradually falling to the ground. At that time, I was scared. Just now, I was jumping around endlessly. Why did I have a terrible headache right away? Is it because his head was badly hurt? It is estimated that the parents of students with broken fingers were also scared by this scene. When the class teacher asked if it was necessary to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination together, both parents said in unison, "Let's have a physical examination." In this way, two students were taken home by their parents to see a doctor.
As soon as the parents left, the class teacher couldn't help but say with indignation, "The child can pretend to be deaf and dumb, and the parents deliberately pretend to be deaf and dumb." It's a long story The head teacher told us that the boy who collapsed to the ground had been learning to play dumb since the first grade. The reason is that I had a fight with my classmates in the first and third year of high school, and the other party suddenly fainted to the ground. Obviously, the other party was at fault, but he was exempted from all penalties such as school because he fainted to the ground. So he was inspired. From then on, as long as there were contradictions with other students and bad consequences, he began to pretend to be dizzy and couldn't afford to lie down. My father died early, and my mother dragged her brother and sister alone, knowing his acting skills, but never telling the truth.
On the third day, the fractured classmate was hospitalized, and the collapsed classmate went to the classroom to study.
It's your dad's fault for not teaching. The mother worked hard and provided a rich material life for her children. A boy of 1.8 meters, with a fair face and bright eyes, is really a very likable boy. The mother tries her best to support two children despite her meager income. The boss has entered the university gate, and the youngest son is also the best school in the county and receives the best education. But what kind of family education does this mother provide for her children? Is it enthusiasm or indifference, responsibility or escape, growth or destruction?
202 1 10 year123 October, the Law on the Promotion of Family Education in People's Republic of China (PRC) was formally passed and came into force on 23 October 2022. This means that family education has "laws to follow" from now on, and it also means that national education pays more attention to the influence of family education. Because it will directly determine the formation of children's future moral quality, outlook on life and world outlook.
"Raising a father is a mistake", which is the call of the times and the responsibility of parents! Let * * * work together to improve their own quality and provide children with the growth oxygen of sky blue and clear water!