The second experience: 18 years of chatting tan tan to know a young woman (39 years old, divorced about 6 years), the first time we are the evening about to go to the movies, when I saw her, some excitement, to be honest, I like the type, good face (also some tail crow's feet), sea waterfall long hair, wearing pants with a touch of cute naughty, but also difficult to hide the delicate body (waist is very thin, but the hips are very full), but the body is very thin, but the hips are very thin. But the hips are very full, rounded, the human world), the first time the peace and quiet, and then met a few times one after another, feel that she has some grievances [face], every time we chat is she then spit to me ex-husband, coworkers, girlfriends, family, spit all the things, the negative energy is full of some collapse, I am more as a listener, to be honest, we do not agree with the outlook, the development of the progress is in a KTV, the front of the date more, the cafe, the development of the KTV. The front dating more, cafes, movie theaters, small parks, etc., have gone to the end, no place to go, on the two about to go to the ktv play, at that time, we also want a few bottles of VO, she said that she can not drink also did not dare to point to the other wine, the result is that she is really can not drink, a small cup of belly, she was drunk, and then lying on my shoulder rest, then is the embrace, the legs, the back of the development of a closer step, after the The thing is self-evident, and finally separated from her is really can not stand her negative energy full.
She and I met online, and after a period of online chatting to understand each other, we naturally met to exchange.
Because the phone beforehand in the appointment in the McDonald's restaurant, so, we went directly to the McDonald's restaurant. After arriving there, we ordered two sets of meals, and then looked for an empty seat to sit down, I ate the set meal, while examining the woman in front of me, she has a beautiful face, such as waterfall hair batch sprinkled on the shoulders of her slim figure, the deep two dimples look very charming, small eyes more appear to be moving, and the whole person appears to be a million charming.
In the process of chatting with each other, we found each other have a lot of interest **** the same point, this chat is more opportunistic, and gradually speak freely, the sea and the sky, nothing to talk about. In this way, we do not know how long to chat, at this time, I looked at the screen on the phone, thought "time is not early, it is time to go home." So, I don't know where the courage came from, directly brought her home, just when I was about to kiss her, she cried, she suddenly came out of her mouth, she asked, "Do you like me?" My whole body stopped at once, and after thinking for a while, I answered, "Well, I do like you, but I know it's not going to work out between us." In fact, I was scared at that moment, and that's exactly why I didn't dare to kiss her anymore, so I decided to send her to the station to take the bus home.
The next morning, my cell phone rang, a look at the call is her cell phone number, I picked up. It turned out that she called me to go to the market to buy some vegetables, she said she wanted to make soup for me to drink, let me taste her handiwork, after hearing the good news, I rushed to get up, and then walked to the market to buy vegetables, and then took the car to her home.
When I arrived at her home, I felt very relaxed. Just when I was watching TV, she called out from the kitchen, "Dinner's ready." When I heard the shout, I answered, "Coming!" So, I walked from the living room to the dining room table and sat down. At this time, she said, "The meal is ready, but the chicken soup isn't ready yet, so you'll have to wait a bit before you can drink it, oh, you know?" I replied, "Uh, I know." At this time, I was savoring the handiwork she had made for me to eat with her own hands, while she had been busy in the kitchen. I walked to the kitchen to see that she had scooped a small spoonful of the soup with a spoon and tasted it to see if it tasted right.
After a few minutes, she suddenly said, "The soup is ready." Then she held a bowl of chicken soup in front of me, and she said she wanted me to taste her handiwork. Then the delicious bowl of soup in front of me was brought into my mouth one small spoonful at a time with a small ladle stem. At this point, she asked me, "How is this bowl of soup? How does it taste?" I said, "It tastes great." When I finished my sentence, I could only see her face overflowing with happiness.
Once, she and I visited a university for an exchange program. After a few hours of classes, we were really bored out of our minds, so we walked out of the classroom to get some fresh air in this beautifully landscaped campus.
While riding the elevator, just as the doors closed, we started hugging and kissing passionately.
During the campus walk, in order to keep this wonderful moment, I helped her to take a lot of good-looking photos, I asked her to send the photos to me, but, she was late to send me, I was a little impatient to wait, because, she had used my phone to log into her account, so I checked her password through technical means, and to my surprise, I found from her mailbox a The stranger's email, and this stranger even sent me and her photos to her mailbox, it is this stranger, aroused my suspicion, and so, prompted me to further go to find out the real identity of this stranger.
After a period of investigation, I found that the original stranger was her online husband, when I told her everything I did, so I did not think of the consequences of doing so, in exchange for a scolding from her. I felt very aggrieved, at that time, I really wanted to find a place to vent. I really like her, I really do not know what to do. In order to her, no matter what things, I am willing to go through fire to do.
I remember one night, I did not go directly home, but went directly to her home to find her, but I called her, I said in her home downstairs, she said she did not believe, after a few minutes, I went to knock on her door, but let me not expect is that I was in front of her home for half an hour, in my repeated requests, she reluctantly opened the door.
That night, I admit that we have had skin to skin, but there is no sexual relations between us, because I love her, so, I dare not easily to hurt her.
About a week later, she ignored me, I found that she pulled me into the blacklist, I re-added her when I said, "Sister, I was wrong, can you forgive me?" She said, "You're not wrong, you're wrong for not approaching me."
Like is a feeling, love is a responsibility. Every word she said, I firmly remembered in my heart, making me feel very confused, I do not know how I should face her anymore.
Of course there have been, I originally dated a woman who was almost 15 years older than me or so.
Of course, I and she is not fruitful, because she is a family, I and she together, in fact, is cheating.
Said is cheating, but in fact we are still quite affectionate, and not because I empty her lonely and out to find opportunities to indulge. I and she is online to recognize, chat a few weeks after the meeting, the first meeting on the sexual relations. Originally after the fact I thought of this is a one-night stand, and later may no longer come and go, the results later she also every day looking for me to chat, time has passed, we also have a sense of trust each other's hearts, every day not to talk to each other on a few words, always feel that there is something missing. So we later together again, as long as there is time to meet. And every time I went over to her, she let me live in his house. He has a husband, but his husband is often not at home, are out of town to work, as long as his husband is not there, she asked me to go over to play. I asked her, aren't you afraid that your husband or neighbors will find out, she said: "Who cares, if they find out, they will find out, admit it"... I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to.
In fact, I first considered, she may be and her husband's relationship is not good, usually empty and lonely, looking for me to solve the sexual needs of just. But then, she also took the initiative to bring me to her circle of friends, publicize the relationship between the two of us, and even some of her relatives know this, but also to help us hide, for fear that his husband knows. As a result, the more so, I instead the more afraid. Because it can be seen, she is really invested in my feelings, but I am, after all, smaller than her, I have never been married, whether from the world or family reasons, I am impossible to live with her. In order to prevent falling deeper and deeper, I thought of giving up at that time, and also proposed to her, and she also cried, and even told me that she was willing to tell her husband about the two of us, to divorce him, and then be with me forever... I was so scared. At that time, I had no choice but to find her friends, asked them to persuade her, the results of her friends some of the last instead of being persuaded by her, and all ran to persuade me to persuade me to stay with her....
Because of this, then I really can not help, I do not want to hurt her, but the key is to this point, say what she can not listen to, so I only escape. So I used my cell phone to send her a heartfelt "breakup declaration", and then immediately changed the cell phone card, and then never had contact with her....
I don't know if it's right or wrong to do this, but I do know that feelings are sometimes like this, sweet and sour in which, when I really can't face the ground or persuade each other, the only thing I can do is to run away. I don't know if this is considered irresponsible or not responsible, but from my heart, no matter where she is now, I also hope that she is happy, happy...
I am 28 years old, single, with a divorced woman four years older than me.
May 17 began to break into my life. It was just a normal chat and care for each other, and she has always taken her sister for herself, and I have always taken her as my sister. A lot of things we are very each other to speak, I do not ask her past, she does not ask my family.
In mid-May, my mother got seriously ill, the hope of a cure is slim, and need a large sum of money, that month I raised thin ten pounds, my father's hair is white a lot of that period she has been encouraging me, but also has been to help raise money. At the end of June, the family's grandmother also fell and died, but also added insult to injury, the whole family fell apart, because my grandmother is the cohesive force of the family. During that time my whole being seemed to be falling apart. Several aunts in the family were fighting over the inheritance and making a lot of noise, and she kept comforting me, never wanting to leave. In August, my mom's treatment ended, owed more than 100,000 yuan of foreign debt, returned home to the original city.
On that day, she asked me to go to her home for dinner ......
I have never been to her, she is on her own to buy a suite. After arriving to find her room is very simple, the bedroom on a bed, a computer desk a year mirror and closet, but very clean and neat, in the living room she peeled an apple to me and asked me to sit casually, she went to the kitchen to cook. At that time, the mood is still very low, eat all have no appetite, although she did a very good taste, I only ate a little, she obviously also see. She asked me to go to her room to sit and watch some computer, and she went to clean up the dishes. After a while, she came into the room and asked me something I didn't really hear, it was like a trance. Suddenly she came to me, hugged me, I also hugged her tightly, did not say a word, she said she did not know how to comfort me, to see me upset she would also be heartbroken. After a while, she said to give me a thing, she put herself completely in front of me, and then put down my ......
In fact, I have expressed the meaning of wanting to be together with her, she did not agree, has always said that is my sister, but I know that divorced women my parents can not accept the, she has always understood this She has also always understood this reasoning. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm going to be able to get out of this," he said.
Some. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it," he said.
When I was in college, my girlfriend and I were in different cities, in a long-distance relationship. At that time, I met a schoolmate who was eight years older than me. I was 19 years old, she was 27 years old, in graduate school. Probably both away from home to go out to study the situation, so that we began to sympathize with each other.
One day, she told me that she liked me and she didn't know what to do. I know schoolmate, she also has her own boyfriend, she wants to be with me, but she is not going to give up her boyfriend, after all, her boyfriend has a sizable job and income.
I also can not give up my girlfriend, far away from the other side of the world, she is often on my hush, how can I bear? However, I and this schoolmate who is eight years older than me, surprisingly still secretly together.
We promised to be together, only holding hands, not kissing not promiscuous sex. However, such a nearly 30 years old schoolmate, really very charming, maybe I really prefer the kind of girls older than me.
Such a woman really let me can not hold, we later broke our word. I know I am very scum, but, feelings come, what can I do?
Later, my sister graduated and left the city. When she left, she said to me, thank me, this time to bring her wonderful days, she is going to marry her boyfriend.
In fact, people's lives, more or less will encounter some interlude, can not hold is normal. Later, I told my girlfriend about this matter, she was unusually generous, she said, no matter what temptation I encountered on the way, but as long as I remember to go home on the good.
I remember a few years ago, just graduated from college I still do business when often go to the village to develop business, I do not know when to add a sister's WeChat, for the time being, she called L sister it! Because there is no business dealings, but also from time to time to talk.
Once and friends drink, the night 10:00 more than the end I rode the tram home. Just walk to the L sister of the city village neighborhood, the car is out of power, I went to the car charging, need to charge half an hour I can ride home, during the thought of the L sister. I think this time just about her out to eat a late-night snack, at first she was very surprised, asked me how I thought up to ask her to eat a late-night snack, I honestly said the reason. l sister said late-night snacks will not eat, but you can come out to meet and talk to each other. From then on, as long as the free time will be mutually about dinner, during which I obviously feel her change.
That summer night, we met again for dinner, L sister said this time not to go to the hotel, to my home to give you a meal, not to mention the L sister's cooking is quite good, for years away from home a year also can not eat a few mom to do the meal for me, a few years that night is the most delicious dinner I ate! We chatted a lot during the dinner, and L talked about how she was getting older and how her family was urging her to get married, but I knew what she meant. At that time, I had just graduated, no house, no car, no savings, and even playfulness is heavy, did not even think about the marriage. My ambiguity, let L sister also completely disappointed, and later realized that her family introduced her to a boyfriend, and that dinner was her last chance to give me. 3 days later L sister sent me a message, said that the train station waiting for a car to Beijing, do not come to see me off, take care of yourself. Since then our contact are broken, here I wish L sister life happy!
Alas, she and I have not seen each other for more than twenty years.
At that time, I just became a father, his wife is unemployed. The home of the small county what trade are difficult to do, had to take his wife and children to go to the far away in Shanxi to do business with his father-in-law. Examined a variety of lines, and finally chose to send gas canisters. Although a little tired, but making money is simple and worry-free. Dried about half a year time, once the old father-in-law let me go to him often in the wholesale store to get cigarettes to send cans of gas. I was happy to go, the shopkeeper said that I was to help her mother's sister-in-law's home to fill a bottle of gas, not a moment later her sister-in-law came. Speaking with a smile, not fat, not thin, really a beautiful young lady. Later on, I realized that she was 8 years older than me.
It turns out that her name is * Feng Ying, her husband in the coal business, often traveling outside. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and it was the last time I saw it. Every time you help her to fill a good gas, after the installation, she always put the tea are ready for me, the fruit washed, very enthusiastic to treat me. One by one, the contact more, chatting is also very close, found that she always look at my eyes straight hook. Every time I go downstairs and then look back at her window, she always stood in the window there smiling and waving his hand to me, so I began to feel apprehensive ...... to say truly, I also like her, but think about the consequences of the very afraid!
One night nine o'clock to, she called me (I only use the pager) said, seems to be a gas bottle on the valve a little leakage, let me hurry over to help check. I went there with my suspicions, knocked on the door and was surprised to be greeted by her in an almost transparent nightgown. I went to check it and there was actually no problem at all. But I helped her change into a new one anyway. At that time, she rubbed herself against me, and I felt that she waited for me to be able to become a little braver ...... but reason overcame impulse, and I still didn't dare ......
I'm sure a lot of guys have been there. So I am no exception! Especially after 85, because after 85 is the generation of family planning, many families are only child. Generally spoiled by their parents! Especially nowadays, boys' families have no brothers. Growing up with his own mother. To his consciousness is a kind of dependence on mature women! I live in such a family, there are two sisters above, so I like from the mentality of sibling love! Aspire to sibling love! Like mature women. Feeling that mature girls will be considerate and take care of people!
In my sophomore year, I fell in love with one of my sisters! The first time I was just a crush! Because I didn't know, I didn't dare to go up and ask for the phone number! Every time I saw her on campus, I had a feeling that my heart was beating! I was too shy at the time. It always felt like it was meant to be. I didn't realize that a friend of mine knew a senior in the same class as her! He gave me his phone number. We chatted every day by text message for a long time. We met! We all give each other the feeling are quite good. The first thing I'd like to do is to get in touch with my friends and family, and then I'd like to get in touch with them.
To be honest, after contact. Not as good as I thought! I feel that she is still a little material, not the kind of sister to the kind of care! With her together, she will often put forward the need to buy what. At first I will meet her. Later, because of a very small thing, let me directly have a kind of boredom. It's because of one little thing that she refuses to do herself. As long as the money is spent on me, her dormitory telephone is broken, want me to help her buy a. I feel that she is taking me for a fool! I feel like she's making a fool out of me. Even though it's a very small thing! If she really thought of me as her boyfriend, would she be like this? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this!
Later, I graduated and joined the workforce. I talked to a divorced. She is about 10 years older than me! She also has a daughter who is 8 years old. With her to talk really let me feel a kind of sibling love! With her, doing everything is her initiative to guide me! We are very open with each other! And she is very good at taking people's feelings into account! Never ask me to do anything for her. Later I took the initiative to buy her a set of cosmetics! She was so happy! In fact, she used to buy things for me! Clothes, for example! And belts! She didn't talk to me, she bought them directly from me! Then we broke up, and it was my fault! Because I was still afraid of others know gossip! I think she also saw, on the last slowly not in contact!
Although I have been looking forward to sibling love! I'm not sure if I've ever had a good time, but I'm sure I've had a good time! But in my life I haven't really met and I'm in love with them! My current wife is a year younger than me! We get along quite well! Life is better when it's natural! Don't try to pursue it! Age is not a problem in true love! Happy marriage or to two people *** with the pursuit!
I was working in a factory at that time, and there were many people coming and going. Boys more girls less, usually in a state of shortage, today fill in three people, tomorrow go two people. For me it's all just passing through, look away.
The first time I spoke to her was in the closet area. To my closet to pass through her closet, that time she changed clothes did not immediately go to dinner, I passed by when he said, "How did not go to dinner," she said, "Waiting for a friend to eat together," one to two to slowly familiarize themselves with my greetings became "The first time I saw the movie, I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie.
That time we ate together for the first time. Because of work reasons, the meal is divided into two batches, she and her friends dinner time staggered, she and I happen to be the same batch. "
I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new product, and I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new product. I know that she came here to work for two months, she has been married and has a daughter, the family expenses are relatively large, she also came out to work. Later one dinner several times, two people get along very pleasant. Until that day.
That day, on the way to dinner met one of her hometown, they used the dialect to communicate, I do not understand a word, but also can not insert the words. At that time I found that I was not happy, jealous, angry, so I already like her. Then for two or three consecutive days when we had dinner, that hometown would always come, and I was also very uncomfortable. I decided not to eat together in the future, so as not to be uncomfortable.
After that, when I ate dinner, I saw that she even went to dinner alone, I thought, maybe her hometown on the way, and did not bother. There has been no initiative to talk to her. In fact, I want to tell her, I like her, like to spend time with her, but thought of her has been a wife and mother, then ashamed of their own ideas.
Between those days we didn't speak to each other, but would inadvertently see each other, and then a few days later I realized that she didn't look at me. Talked and laughed with me around of course, and ignored me, should not see me. At that moment I was so hard.
The next day I gave her a message at dinner, "Let's eat together," and she said, "Okay."
I have not had this experience, but a close friend has had this experience. This friend was playing a point another envy of the state workers, then his salary than I play private companies work about 3 times higher right, the year this festival, welfare more than no good, good no good, the work of the freedom of action, the work is not hard, is a piece of beauty in the United States and the United States of America work. That pretty boy was 25 years old, height 178, and talent, people and handsome, is the eyes of the young girls of the sought-after goods. The boy on the contrary, the lover's eyes out of the West, fell in love with the same factory 4 years ago, an older aunt. This girl is greater than the boy 8 years, in the eyes of outsiders, a little mismatch.
Friends working in the factory, fell in love with her, and begged for love, but were rejected by this old girl, the reason is that the age problem, she does not accept small 8 years of boyfriends, or small 8 years of husband. Fresh meat once married, due to the age problem, will be guest easy to flower heart radish, one by one deterioration of flavor, so no matter how he pandered, the girl is not moving, not loose lips.
Friends to here after the opening of stability, and then turn back to the factory and then about the girl, good words, sing all the carols, the girl wants the stars, tomorrow night immediately picked off the sky to offer, the girl wants the king of the dragon, promised to tomorrow morning, under the sea to tackle to send, anyway, what to give what to be fascinated at the feet of this girl, worship in the girl's pomegranate skirt. Swear, do not want to live on the same day, just want to die at the same time, determined to say that the spit is flying, the corners of the mouth foam. All day long around this girl, in the friend of affection plus love fierce fire attack, the girl finally believed him, unlimited trust in the small 8-year-old boyfriend. Finally, after a meal fell in the arms of the boyfriend, do 鈥甛蜜's beautiful wedding dream, the 38th Parallel finally all lost, to the boyfriend to raise their hands to surrender.
Friends fast and furious, registration of the banquet invitation to the garden room to have children in one fell swoop, three years passed, the girlfriend became a wife, freshness is not there, more chores, more trouble, hate the wife's mood there, the responsibility of the prenuptials, the determination to forget, do not ask for the same day of birth, but only at the same time of the vows flew into the sea. In the latter period of time, the boy often night out, and not three women fooling around. Because of the sensitivity of his job, was reported to the unit by his wife, finally received a warning penalty. Meanwhile the girl asked her parents and brother for help. One day her brother and three other friends, heavily beat the boy, to see if he still philandering? In the end, the friend succumbed to his brother-in-law, brother-in-law and his friend's fists and feet, bowed down, promised to never mention the divorce in this life.
From this point of view, the age difference between women and men should not be too big, otherwise happiness can not be guaranteed!