Recently, the program "Creation 101" has been on fire, and Wang Ju is also on fire. But for people like me, who don't care much about the entertainment industry, it would be better to say that Wang Ju has made the program "hot".

Wang Ju's "fire" seems to be accidental, but it is not.

When the whole network was hacking her, she didn't cover up and feel inferior to the difference between her body and her appearance. On the contrary, she used the super positive outlook, super stable style, super awesome explosive power to win the netizens' pick, reversing the turnaround.

The good news is that they took a picture of her before and asked her if she would like to go back to the way she was before. Wang Ju said: "At that time, I did not know what the standard of beauty was, so I would learn from others to dress themselves, but now, my life is in my own hands. "

The netizens pick Wang Ju, pick is independent, confident, dare to be themselves.

And to be yourself, first of all, you have to face the real yourself, not in the front lens of the phone, looking at yourself with a filter. Only a true view of self, cognitive self, and acceptance of self, turn off our life filter, only qualified to pick belong to their own independent, strong and confident, in order to obtain their own success.

02

There is a Japanese proverb that says, "There is only one listener who sings his own praises."

The German poet Heinrich Heine also said " Life cannot blossom brilliantly from a lie."

When I first went to college, I was faced with students from all over the world, and when I was introduced to the new students, I ghostly told them that I was from the city and my home was near the university. In fact, my family in the city around the small county, just coincidentally grandma's home in the university neighborhood. The reason why I said so is because I don't want to face my own small county origin just.

At that time, I felt that this small "filter" is nothing, that is, to beautify their own, and all of a sudden and the students mingled, we have what the local situation to me, and soon and the students familiar with.

I didn't realize that the real trouble was at the back.

The first time I saw this, I had to find all kinds of reasons to refuse. The first thing you need to do is to find a way to keep the conversation away from the city. The most important thing is to make a boyfriend who is good in all aspects, and suddenly sends a text message during the summer vacation, saying, "I miss you, I'm downstairs in your house, come down to see me."

This sentence is sweet to him, but I was on pins and needles.

These words were sweet to him, but to me they were like sitting on pins and needles.

At that time I began to know, to their own life open filter, is a butterfly effect. The first thing I've noticed is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good look at my own life, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get a good look at my own life.

Later, I no longer avoid talking about my own origin, become more confident, more energetic. This way, it is easier to focus on your favorite profession, and after graduation, you will be able to live in this city as you wish.

03

Some time ago, I met a friend at a dinner party, let's call him Mr. A. He said that he used to go to school to study. He said that his previous education experience was very impressive, from high school in Singapore, and after graduation, he worked abroad. We all feel that this person is very capable, have to come over to know, he immediately became the center of the evening.

After a short while, there was no news of this person. I'm not sure if I've ever heard of him, but I'm sure he's a good person, and I'm sure he's a good person, and I'm sure he's a good person, and I'm sure he's a good person, and I'm sure he's a good person. It turned out that his so-called study abroad was just a life filter he opened for himself because he felt that his education was low. And the real him, did not finish high school to go abroad to work in the catering industry.

If he had turned off the filter that night and been true to himself, he might have been asked to work in the catering industry, and he might have been able to make a go of it.

The Russian writer Granin said that hypocrisy can't create anything, because hypocrisy itself is nothing. Many times, we want to live the way we want to live, but we are shackled by this hope. We want to give ourselves a glorified life, but we end up dancing in shackles because we have a filter on.

04

Yang Lan, the famous host, has interviewed more than 700 guests from all over the world since the start of her show, covering almost all the important figures in the world. Having faced such a large number of successful people at such a close distance, Yang Lan should have a better say on how to be a successful person.

She once answered this question at the launch of her book One Question, One World.

She said, " Success is being able to be yourself and be a better version of yourself."

See, first you have to be yourself.

Not coincidentally, the well-known industrialist Lee Kai-Fu, also in his book "Do the best you", said, "Success is to continue to exceed themselves, is to do the best you. From success you can get confidence and happiness, and from confidence you can get happiness and success ".

The movie "Truman's World", should be considered the biggest life filter. Kim. Carrey (Jim Carrey) as Truman, since birth is the protagonist of reality television, appear in his life, parents, wife, friends and even everyone else, are actors.

Only the filter is not one that Truman turns on voluntarily.

Truman, who is enjoying the limelight, is determined to tear down this false dream when he discovers this amazing filter.

At the end of the movie, Truman rows his boat out to the "sea" in search of his own reality. With a graceful curtain call, Truman walks out the door of the studio.

Turn off the filter, welcome to the real world, pick that real self. It's brutal, but it's honest.

05

A person's growth begins with facing the true self and accepting the true self.

At first it can feel like a tear because that's the part of us we don't want to face. But if we don't face it, we will never be able to stand with our feet on the ground, but will live in the air of nothingness. Shakespeare said that a false heart will not have strong legs. We can't recognize ourselves correctly, so we don't know what we really need?

Reality is like the land, and we are like the son of the earth in Greek mythology, once left will be weak legs, lose the source of strength. Turn off your own life filters and embrace your true self in order to pick up the confidence, pick up the power, and be a better version of yourself.

May we, never need to turn on life filters.

Because being real is your best aura.