First, the first toast method.

That is, from the object of the toast to find the "first" as the reason for the toast. The first time we meet, there are a lot of words can be used to persuade the drink: such as the first time we meet, really a see as a Gu, hate to see each other, must be good to drink a cup. In addition, even if you have met, you can also extend this method, you can add a qualifier according to the specific circumstances: such as the first time to meet this year, the first time this month, the first time after the honor, the first time in a certain place, the first time in the sitting of the meeting together, the first time on business trips, and so on.

The second, the method of solving the edge.

People's lives are short. The world, the sea of people, we can know each other, and the same in a table drink, which itself is a kind of fate. The fact that we can meet each other and drink at the same table is a kind of destiny. For the sake of this destiny, we also have to drink a cup. To honor the fate.

Three, seek the same method.

The world is too small, you must be able to find the same place from each other and you: such as classmates, coworkers, hometowns, the same place, the same origin, the same elephant, the same family name and so on. If you can't find them, you can also find the same good friends, so you can always ask for the same and respect at the table.

Four, take the different method.

At the same time, you have to be good at discovering the difference between the object of honor, the "green bushes in a little red" to find out. Such as the longest grade, the smallest grade, the oldest qualifications, the highest level, the most promising, the most beautiful, the most dashing, and so on. There is really nothing, but also from the clothing, hairstyle, language, etc. to find the unique features to different respect.

Fifth, the method of Yang long.

You can find out the strengths of the other side, to their own short, degree of its long, to praise, worship language to toast. "The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you're doing and what you're doing. This is a "long" toast.

Six, progressive method.

First, good things come in pairs. Any object to be honored, after the toast, can be used to honor the method again. Secondly, the wine meets a friend less than a thousand cups. "Hundred-foot pole to progress, ten world is the whole body". Toast should also be a drumming, and make further efforts. For example, seeking the same law, if it is an alumnus to drink a cup, is the same class and drink a cup, is the same class with the professional, and then drink a cup of ...... and so on, such as the time of birth, according to the same age - the same year - the same month - the same place of birth - the same year - the same month - the same day - the same place of birth. -same day-same place of birth progression. This time, you can also use the good faith "lies", as long as the other party can drink to the fullest, drink happy on the line, but do not let friends drunk.

Seven, gratitude method.

People in this life are in the grace of growing up, growing up. There are parents to raise the grace, teachers to nourish the grace, leadership to train the grace, friends to help the grace, Ping Shui Xiang Xiang companion of the grace of ...... some are direct benefactors, some are indirect benefactors. Being a person should also learn to be grateful, "the grace of water, when to spring return." If they do not have much contact with their own, you can also replace their own relatives, friends with thanksgiving for the reason of honor. This is to honor the love.

Eight, the method of the curved path.

Sometimes, you will participate in some unfamiliar dinners, sitting in the basically are "wind cow horse" people. This time, you can take to find indirect reasons to toast. Such as borrowing friends and his relationship, or to seize the toast to the object of the table words to play on the subject, so as to find the reason for the toast. Such as what the other party said to happy things, you can follow the mold melon, to music to toast; if the other party said the wrong words, you can "wrong" penalty; the other party said and you related to things, people or points of view, caused by your **** chirping, you can "the same"! The other side of the story is about the things, people or ideas that cause you to ****, you can "with".

Nine, mnemonic method.

China's wine culture condenses the essence of Chinese words. "Li Bai bucket wine poem hundred", drinking wine can make the humanities like a spring. It is a good way to toast the wine table with some poems and jingles about wine.

Women in social occasions before they have to groom their appearance, so that people feel that you are a taste and quality of beauty, so that you are full of charm. Charm is not like looks are born with, but completely rely on the latter's `cultivation cohesion, a charismatic woman, she must be exquisite appearance and elegance, demeanor generous, rich fashionable speech, voice gently pleasing to the ear, eyes full of goodwill.

The connotation of charm is the perfect combination of external image and internal quality, and both image and quality can be improved through learning. To participate in social occasions to create a charming woman to do:

1, to their own image of a clear positioning

You determine to show demure and elegant, or fashion avant-garde, or romantic and sexy. When you have a clear theme, you can from the color collocation, dress style unity, hairstyle hair color coordination, makeup makeup decent and all other aspects, reflecting the distinctive personality.

For example, demure and elegant color harmony, fashion avant-garde will have to highlight the contrast, and romantic and sexy more warm tones; demure and elegant clothing and accessories should be noble and exquisite, fashionable and avant-garde as long as the new trend of alternative, romantic and sexy must be luxurious and extravagant; demure and elegant hairstyles hair color is mostly plain long and short hair, fashionable and avant-garde trend-setting color and type, romantic and sexy is more appropriate to pick the coloring of The big wave.

2, master social etiquette common sense

In social occasions to participate in the most basic some common sense to master, such as: pouring tea to shallow pouring wine to be full, the teapot mouth can not be rushed to the guests; this is the Chinese dining table etiquette, the Western food is wine can not be full; coffee spoon is used to stir the accompanying milk and accelerate the dissolution of sugar cubes can not be used to scoop the coffee; telephone etiquette is the caller to finish the caller's name, and the caller is not a good idea. Telephone etiquette is the calling party to say goodbye and release the phone; introduction etiquette is to introduce unimportant people to important people.

3, to create the beauty of the heart

Watering a soft heart, grateful heart, appreciate the heart, tolerance, happy heart, your mind's window flashes must be charming light.

Women in any social occasion, do not make yourself look like Liu Lou Lou into the Grand View Garden. The correct expression should be: a little arrogant, and a little funny; praise everything, and despise everything; and, never show surprise.

1, to pay attention to the language to speak

Speak too much, easy to give people the impression of indiscretion, although the need to communicate with people in the Party, but the same need to stop in moderation. Don't regret not speaking up, the middle way is always best in a conversation, and as with so many things, it's important to know when to listen to others and when it's your turn to speak.

2. Don't be too curious

Remember that you've seen everything worth seeing, and have seen it not just once, but many, many times. This attitude can defer judgment: it may be approval or silence. Silence at such times does not necessarily mean acquiescence, but is more likely to be insight into everything, and, when manifested in writing or verbally, this attitude precludes any dissent.

3, eating etiquette

In the matter of eating, fruitfulness is the lowest level of the realm, when you are in a social situation and others *** with the meal, please forget about those nutritional truisms, and keep in mind the following rules: Hunger implies a need, and this is a dishonorable thing, therefore, dining in social occasions, ordering food became Therefore, when dining in a social setting, ordering becomes an art of miniature creation: a portion of raspberry sauce, an egg, a small bottle of mineral water and a small slice of toast equals a recipe of the most exquisite kind.

This recipe is simple and chic, keeping in mind that the point of the meal is not what you eat or how much you eat, but that you just "eat". This slightly disrespectful attitude towards food is a common problem for socialites.

4, drink slightly drunk that stops the cup

Wine in our dining culture is obviously a "cheer" role, the tradition has always been to use alcohol to contact feelings, the table on the table people and people's feelings need to be sublimated in the wine. But we must pay attention to avoid the wine to half-heated began to play crazy, which is the most undesirable practice. Regardless of the cultural persuasion, martial arts persuasion or mixed with a fine wine, should be polite and courteous, not to spoil the fun of everyone.

5, prepare the jokes you want to tell

Humor is welcome, but note: any jokes, make sure not to destroy the mood of the people present. At the same time, the premise of funny is to maintain their own elegance, too vulgar is not into the flow. Prepare some similar to the universal answer to diplomatic rhetoric and some funny, humorous jokes to cope with the scene, is also necessary, in case there is any need to perform a "stand-up comedy" where you are not at a loss.

Women's beautiful words at the table

1, if you are grateful to the guests, you can say, "Thank you for your leadership, thank you for the presence of friends and family, I toast to you first".

2, if you eat with colleagues, the key to their own leadership, then you can first give this colleague affirmation, and then give some pertinent advice, and then drink a glass of wine with colleagues.

3, if you eat with the company leader, this time you can toast to the leadership of a glass of wine, and then you can say I wish the company prosperity.

4, if the guest toast, but the guest really will not drink the case, you can find a step to let the guest down, such as you can say, "as long as you come on, you can tea instead of wine I dry.

5, if the boss at the dinner table to praise their own time, this time you can be modest, you can say, "Thank you for your affirmation, I will work harder to create value for the company", and then by the way to the leadership of a glass of wine.

6, if you have a better relationship with their friends to dine together, do not be so formal ah, casual some of it can be, when drinking can be said to be deep feelings of a mouthful of boredom, we drink happy can be, about the woman at the table in the beautiful word in fact, there are a lot of it.

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