Some people get together because of their interests, such as photography, such as collection. Everyone may have an intersection in this circle based on interest. After all, everyone will have some hobbies more or less.
Broadly speaking, the formation of circles is naturally formed through the social behavior characteristics between people, such as social circles and rich circles. The division of these circles is actually a classification of the crowd, that is, the class is obvious and each has its own way of playing.
Just as multimillionaires only talk about stocks and investments with multimillionaires, they don't talk about beggars. After all, we can't discuss how beggars go public, can we
However, many young people do not understand this. In their eyes, if they can enter the circle of some entrepreneurs and rich people, they will have wealth, status and shortcuts to success.
If people can help you, it means less years of struggle.
Is the reality really as beautiful as we thought?
When doing business, I was obsessed with mixing so-called circles for a long time. I naively thought that I would be as awesome as many bosses and entrepreneurs I know, use their resources or connections to do a lot of things naturally, and then struggle less for a few years in my life!
But in fact?
In this long time, my biggest gain is to eat, drink and be merry.
because
I'm not good enough to make them feel obliged to support me.
What I can do, many people do better than me.
I racked my brains and all I could think of was what was left of their play.
You can't lick your face, you can't kiss up.
There is neither emotional intelligence nor eloquence.
Then what do I do to them?
Just a little food and drink.
For most young people who are still struggling, if they want to get along in any circle, they must be clear about the following two points:
1. What is the purpose of joining the circle?
2. Is there any exchange of interests between capital and circles?
The so-called circles and contacts are essentially just an exchange of interests, not a shortcut to empty-handed or one-step success.
Don't talk about newcomers, even old people who have been mixed up for ten or eight years. If they don't have any skills, they can't make money by circles.
For a young man like me who can't mix circles at present, we can understand that everyone who wants to enter the circle is very small, so small that it can only accommodate the same excellent people. Only if we are good enough can we be qualified to be their partners. Remember, we are partners, not friends!
Every young man has many dreams and desires. They are eager for quick success and instant benefit, but at the same time they are impetuous and want to take shortcuts in everything. How can there be so many shortcuts in this world?
There are too many roads, this is a shortcut!
I have a friend who works in catering. She has worked in this industry for nearly 20 years. When she first started out, she only worked as a receptionist. Now she has become one of the influential figures in the local catering industry. Many local restaurants and high-end restaurants will compete for her as a consultant before opening, and even hire her to help build a team with high salary.
Why can she be so awesome?
It is nothing more than that she has been recognized by the local catering circle, and even feels that she has an irreplaceable role in this circle!
For many young friends, it is more important to know their weight, do their work as well as possible, and watch and learn more.
The world is very big, and there are many things that need us to calm down and observe and learn. We are like a blank sheet of paper. When we are young and energetic, when we are still full of imagination and curiosity about the world, we should absorb more nutrients that can promote our progress and Excellence, make ourselves valuable, make people in the circle look at us with new eyes and make them think that we are also excellent people.
After all, the circle is small and the world is big. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come!