Neighbor Meng Xiao's child is in the sixth grade this year. Meng Xiao and his wife have a special way to educate their children. They are more concerned about their children's healthy physical and mental growth and rarely force them to attend various cram schools. When I have time, I take my children out for sightseeing and outdoor activities, which makes them happy, but their academic performance is not very good. In urban schools, most children go to cram schools and further education classes, so students get high test scores, and it is possible to count down if they get 90 points. Meng Xiao's son is also at the bottom of the class, and sometimes even at the bottom of the exam.
Every time he comes home from the exam, Meng Xiao will also ask his children how many points they got in the exam. Whether it is 70 or 80 or 50 or 60, she is not in a hurry to get angry. She just asked the child if he had studied hard. Did you do your best in the exam? Is there any difficulty? If the child answers that he has done his best, he won't ask again. This looks very "Buddha"? Many people don't understand the new way of education and think that such connivance will ruin children.
The teacher also communicated with Meng Xiao many times, asking Meng Xiao to strengthen the supervision and supervision of children's learning, not to let themselves drift, and to attend some training classes when necessary to improve their academic performance as soon as possible. However, Meng Xiao insists that grades can't explain everything, and the healthy growth of children is the most important thing.
So after the mid-term exam, there was a parent-teacher meeting in the class. At the meeting, the teacher made some comments on the students' performance in school. Of course, Meng Xiao's son was criticized, that's all. After all, the child came last in the exam this time. Then the parents of outstanding students took the stage to speak. Naturally, they brag, teach their educational experience and talk about how hard their children work. This is a regular program of every parent-teacher meeting, and it is not new.
But then the teacher's words made Meng Xiao feel embarrassed and even angry, because the teacher said: Let's invite the parents of the students from the bottom to say a few words. This name made Meng Xiao very unhappy, and other parents focused on her. Look at this. Second from the bottom? Parents have something to say.
Coming to the podium, Meng Xiao calmed down and said a few words to the teacher: First of all, the teacher's use of such a title is an insult to students and parents. No matter how good the grades are, a class must be the last one; Secondly, if a teacher is really capable, he should try his best to narrow the gap between the scores of the first place and the last place, so that the students in the class can develop in a balanced way; Third, there are morning and evening flowers. Not every student can get the first place in the exam, and not every student is suitable for learning.
Finally, Meng Xiao said: Reading is not the only way out for children. Poor academic performance does not mean that children have no future. Teachers and parents should try their best to encourage rather than post when children's academic performance is not satisfactory? Second from the bottom? Label.
After listening to Meng Xiao's words, the parents in the audience nodded frequently. The teacher felt that he had gone too far and sincerely apologized to Meng Xiao. In fact, who doesn't want their children to get good grades? But many times it often backfires. At this time, if you are in a hurry, it is useless to beat and scold. You can only encourage and guide children to understand the importance of learning. In fact, the most important thing is the physical and mental health of children. If their academic performance goes up and their body and mind can't develop healthily, it's not worth the candle.