Speech on Good Family Style and Good Family Instruction (1) Dear teachers and students,
"No rules can't make Fiona Fang." In every happy family, Ken must have his own family style and rules. Although our family style and rules are simple and ordinary, they will benefit me a lot. My parents told me since I was a child that I want to be a person who can't be wasted; Kindness and honesty; You can't do things without conscience and harm the world.
When I was very young, my mother told me that it is very hard for farmers to grow food, and they can't just waste every grain. "After cutting the grain at noon, sweat dripped into the soil. Who knows that the Chinese food on the plate is hard. " I have kept this poem in mind silently. I want to be a person who doesn't waste food, materials and anything useful and valuable.
"Honest people, the knot of the world is also" Mozi said this famous saying, which was told by my mother. Although I didn't understand it when I was young, I understood it when I grew up. As a man, you should be honest. With honesty, you can make friends all over the world, and your work can be successful. How can a person who doesn't even speak good faith and is full of lies not believe anything?
I am now a senior in primary school and have learned a lot. I can also tell good from bad and right from wrong. Last year, I saw a news on the Internet: In a living area in Dazhou, Sichuan, an old woman fell and broke her bone. She called three primary school students to help her and help her get up, but framed the primary school students, saying that they pushed her down and made the parents lose money. After learning the real situation, the parents of the students knew that their children had been wronged, so they chose to report the case. Finally, after investigation and judgment by the Public Security Bureau, the blackmailer was detained and fined. After reading this news, I remembered the family style of our family: people can't do unconscionable and unnatural things. If a society is full of unconscionable and unnatural things, then our country will perish. Therefore, each of us should be a selfless, caring and kind person. Only in this way can our country and society be better and stronger.
Our country is made up of thousands of happy families in Qian Qian, and each family has its own rules and customs to manage. Only when each of us earnestly abides by our own family rules and regulations can our dark gray be more stable, harmonious, prosperous and powerful.
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Speech on "Good Family Style and Good Family Training" (2) Leaders, cadres and residents in your community:
Good morning everyone.
It is necessary to carry out the civic moral construction project in depth, promote the construction of social morality, professional ethics, family virtues and personal morality, and encourage people to be kind, filial, love their relatives, and be loyal to the motherland and the people. I am very grateful to the community secretary for giving me this rare opportunity to share with you how our family is filial to the elderly and how to honor the elders.
In the ancient city of Liaoyang, there was a family whose parents were filial to their elders and insisted on sending flour, rice and soybean oil to their elders for many years. They take their children to eat coarse grains. The elders are paralyzed in bed, and their parents take care of them day and night. They set a good example for their children. The parents of this family are my parents. The good family style of filial piety affects us imperceptibly. When our parents were both paralyzed in bed for ten years, our five sisters took care of them day and night, taking care of them in every possible way and letting them spend their old age safely. In addition to caring for parents, fifteen years ago, our five sisters set up a caring group, took time out to do public welfare, and often went to apartments for the elderly, nursing homes and children's welfare homes to care for the elderly and disabled children.
The family style in our family is to honor our elders and help others. The family style of my family is to establish a family by virtue and govern the country by virtue. I hope that the family discipline of my family will be passed down from generation to generation. I was born in an intellectual family. My father in memory is a primary school teacher. He set an example. He and his mother are filial to my grandparents. I remember when I was a child, I basically never met my father. At that time, my father went to work every day and went to my grandparents' home after work at night to talk with them and care about their diet and daily life. He stayed with my grandparents until the evening 10: 30. We have fallen asleep. At five o'clock the next morning, my father got up and went to my grandparents' house. At that time, we were still sleeping. My parents told me in words and deeds that they are filial to the elderly. They gave the flour and rice supplied by the ticket to my grandparents and took us to eat coarse grains. We witnessed the scene where grandparents were paralyzed in bed and their parents waited on them day and night. My mother cleaned up the bedding for grandma who was paralyzed in bed and fed her a mouthful of water and rice. Because of filial piety, grandma lived to be 93 years old and grandpa lived to be 82 years old. You know, they are all long-lived old people in the sixties and eighties.
Parents often tell us to do good deeds and take care of the old, the weak and the sick. After school, our parents asked us to fetch water and firewood, clean the room and clean the windows for Grandma Zhou, a five-guarantee household living in the yard. They taught us to be polite people and warned us to stand and sit still. My mother asked us to salute all the' guests' who came to our house. When the guests left, our parents took us to see them off, and we couldn't come back until the guests disappeared. I remember when I was a child, my parents often told us stories about filial piety, such as Meng Mu's three moves, Kong Rong's letting pears and so on. Our parents told us to learn from an early age. My parents like reading books and newspapers. I remember when I was three years old, my family subscribed to a Liaoyang Daily. Every night, I often see my parents standing under the dim light, reading newspapers to us and reading good deeds in newspapers. At that time, I thought, when I grow up, I will also write articles to report good deeds.
We six sisters study hard. After the national college entrance examination was resumed, our six sisters were admitted to universities one after another. We are all assigned to work in government agencies and institutions. At work, we love our jobs and join the Party one after another, doing a good job. When we got married, our parents told us to be filial to our parents-in-law, not to give each other a penny as a bride price, to be self-reliant and start from scratch. None of our five sisters asked each other for a bride price.
Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. When Shen Ling was a child, he witnessed his parents respecting their elders. His parents gave the flour and rice supplied by ticket to his grandparents. When his grandparents were paralyzed in bed, Shen Ling saw the scene of their parents' meticulous service.
During the Spring Festival of 20___, Shen Ling's father was paralyzed in bed due to illness, and her newly retired sister took on the task of serving her parents during the day. At that time, Shen Ling and other working sisters had to take turns to serve their parents at night. On June 2, 20, when my sister poured boiling water into the thermos, the beam of the inferior kettle suddenly broke, and a pot of boiling water burned my sister's leg. She was admitted to the hospital. My mother witnessed this scene with her own eyes and was anxious. Three days later, my mother suddenly lost her mind, yelling and lying in bed. In order to lighten the burden of sisters and take care of the elderly, Shen Ling and his wife moved into their parents' home and stayed with them day and night. Feed mother with water and rice. Never leave. Turn your mother over every 2 hours at night, change her clothes and bedding frequently, and give her a full-body massage to avoid muscle atrophy. Going out in the sun behind my mother's back is something I have to do every day. Due to careful nursing, my mother has never had bedsores and prickly heat. As long as the weather is fine, my lumbar spine slips, so it is difficult to carry my mother downstairs and push her to the Confucian Temple Park to bask in the sun and see the scenery. Anyone who sings and sends blessings to his mother, I have the obligation to take photos for them and send photos and paper-cuts for free to express my gratitude. Buy 1000 pieces of health care products and nutrients for my mother every month. My mother has been delirious. Eight years ago, my father died, and my mother often cried out for my father. In order not to let my mother know that my father is dead, I pretend to be my father's voice and talk to my mother every day to make her feel that my father is still alive. I told my mother such a white lie for eight years. Every New Year, I will take the initiative to visit my elderly in-laws, send condolences and solatium to my in-laws, buy them clothes and daily necessities, and care about their diet and daily life.
Since 20___, five sisters in our family have established the Lingyun Five Sisters Love Team. I often buy gifts at my own expense, take my sisters to Glory Hospital, Senior Apartment, Sunset Senior Apartment, Love Nursing Home, Aiwan Village Senior Apartment, Shenyang Children's Welfare House and Liaoyang Children's Welfare House for more than 20 times, and donate more than 300 pieces of condolences, with a value of 1 10,000 yuan. Paper-cut photography exhibitions have been held in communities, schools and parks for many times to publicize family style and filial piety, and to interview and report on good wives, daughters, uncles and mothers for many times, so that good family style can be passed down. Because our six sisters set an example, filial piety and love their parents, the love of our family has influenced the next generation, and they have followed suit. They are all good children with excellent academic performance and go to school one after another.
Since Mother's Day in xx, I have been doing things to help poor mothers. With my help, five poor mothers got through the difficulties of life and their lives began to change. Over the years, I have been scrimping and saving, and the cost of helping these poor mothers is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan.
There was a poor mother whose husband died 20 years ago. She lives in poverty with her 7-year-old son. After I learned that, I began to help her, buying daily necessities for her family every year and subsidizing her family for several thousand yuan every year. It is said that a single mother relies on her Weibo income to support her son's education, and she is worried that she can't afford to pay the tuition fee of 300 yuan. Without 300 yuan, single mothers dare not go to school to attend parent-teacher conferences. I immediately took out 300 yuan from the basket and handed it to the single mother. Say to her: use this money to pay your child's tuition! Don't give it back to me. This is for you. Reading to children is a big deal. Last year, the son of this single mother was admitted to the university. I gave this college student 2000 yuan as a congratulation and reward.
I insisted on taking pictures of the people for many years, sending photos for free, developing photos and giving them away for free, with a cost of 10 thousand yuan. I also sponsored many poor students at my own expense and donated tens of thousands of yuan to them many times. Over the past 30 years, my practice has been well received by many units. In 20___, I became a moral model in Liaoyang, one of the top ten beautiful families in Liaoyang, and became a Shen Ling family in 20___. In 20___, our family became one of the five civilized families in China. In 20___, I was hired by the Municipal Women's Federation and Civilization Office as a member of the propaganda group of family stories. In the same year, I was named the most beautiful person in the national community. 20___ year 1 month, I was awarded the list of good people in China by the Central Civilization Committee.
Achievements can only explain the past, and I need to work harder in the future. As a party member who has been a party member for 30 years, I should redouble my efforts, devote myself selflessly, care for the disadvantaged groups, do what I should do better, and continue to be a good person and do good deeds. Due to time constraints, I can only stop here. Thank you.
Good family style, good family education and good speech (3) Dear teachers and students:
Every family has its own family style and family training, and family style has a subtle and important influence on everyone. It moistens and affects people like spring breeze and rain.
Speaking of family style, I think it is a behavior of family members. They are warm and frank to people, persistent in the face of difficulties, and never break their word. These can be regarded as family style. The prosperity of a family lies not in temporary wealth, nor in the amount of property, but in the quality of family style. Family style depends on family education, and it is most important to integrate good family style into the heart and blood of a family. A family with a good family style will know that hard work is the first goal in life.
A good family style can make a child grow up well, and I live in such a good family style. At home, parents will inevitably quarrel over trivial matters, but they will never blame and scold each other. What I see is their rational side. Usually at home, my mother will often nag: how to respect teachers and classmates at school, and even tell some truth about taking a step back. After a long time, these words will appear in my mind from time to time. I am not so much the mother who gave birth to me and raised me as the first mentor in my life.
Every family in China has its own family motto, and my family is no exception. My family motto is: respect teachers, elders, classmates and anyone with disabilities; Diligent housekeeping, know how to keep a house; Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, be kind to neighbors; Don't do it because of small goodness, and don't do it because of small evils. These family precepts have existed in everyone's heart since ancient times, but they are rarely really done. Grandpa, grandma, dad and mom made them family precepts, in order to impress the next generation with the splendid history and culture of China for 5,000 years. I will try my best to do it, and at the same time, I will influence people around me to do it.
Family is an important part of society, and every successful person must have a good family style and family training. And a good family style and family training needs every family member to build. Only by building a good family style and strict family training can we avoid detours.
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Good family style, good family education and good speech (4) Dear teachers and students:
Family style, also known as family style, is a traditional atmosphere, style and fashion formed by a family or family over the years, bearing a family or family's lifestyle, attitude, cultural atmosphere, ideas, values and outlook on life, and forming a unique feature of a family or family. Family style is the most important and irreplaceable spiritual wealth of a family or family; It pervades the whole family or family, affecting every family member, and Hui Ze is a member of the family; Family style is also the soul of a family, supporting the progress and development of the family. A good family style can shape noble character and elegant manners, become a moral model that everyone yearns for, stand out in the whole social circle and be imitated by many people and families. Families or families with good family style, their children understand many principles of being a man and doing things as soon as possible, and understand their responsibilities and missions; Know fear; Know how to cherish time and study hard while it is early; It is even harder to know that it is difficult to start a business, and it is not difficult to know the difficulties. People who grew up under the influence of such a family know that success lies in accumulation and hard work, and understand that diligence can make up for mistakes; Understand that diligence is the first essence of life, diligent in learning, diligent in thinking and diligent in hard work?
In life, everyone's world outlook, outlook on life, values, personality characteristics, moral cultivation and treating people with things are branded with family style. Although family style is family style, it is a melting pot for casting children into talents. Family style is like a tree, a century-old tree with lush foliage and children and grandchildren in its shadow. Diligence in study, hard work, consistency in words and deeds, respect for the old and love for the young, striving for career, friendship and harmony, democracy and dedication, and bookish spirit can all become the necessary family style that families should inherit. Since ancient times, cultural families have paid attention to the inheritance of "family style", which can be found anytime and anywhere in thousands of years of Chinese civilization.
Long-term prominent families in history will have their own unique family style, family training and family education, which is a model for future generations to learn. Family style, family education and family instruction are all embodied in many classics and family instruction models such as Mandarin, Analects of Confucius, Family Instruction of Yan Family, Family Letter from Zeng Guofan, etc.
According to records, Sima Yi's father, Sima Fang, was a parent who attached importance to family education. At home, although several sons, including Sima Yi, have grown up, they dare not visit their father at will unless Sima Fang calls them. When they meet, if they are not allowed to sit, they will not dare to sit; Sima Fang doesn't ask his son questions, and they can't talk casually. Sima and his son get along completely according to etiquette, in perfect order. This seems a bit unreasonable, but it is an insistence on traditional etiquette in the troubled times of the late Han Dynasty. "A scholar, although I don't know the book; Filial piety has become a common social and political scandal at that time, but in Sima Fang's home, the etiquette advocated by Confucianism can still be maintained. This is the influence of family style-with time, the values they agree with are maintained by the consciousness of the housekeeper.
Another outstanding example is Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of Shu during the Three Kingdoms period. He is a strategist, politician and thinker. His life can be summed up by devoting all his efforts to death and then dying. Not only he himself, but also he is very strict with his descendants. The commandments he exhorted his children are still alive today. Ask their descendants to be loyal to the Lord, do their duty, and don't do anything wrong to the family. His descendants were all influenced by him. Like him, his son Zhuge Zhan was the representative and died fighting for Shu. This is the ethos. Zhuge Liang asked future generations to be loyal to the monarch and strict with themselves, so that they would go down in history. In my family, family style is to treat people with virtue and treat people with virtue. It means to treat others with kindness and disrespect in daily life.
When you are kind to yourself, you are still kind to each other. Because after all, you can't look at each other with each other's attitude, and you can't use each other's words in turn. Only by being kind to others can we leave a good impression in the eyes of others, and the other person will be felt by himself and be kind to himself. Virtue is the embodiment of a person's ideological and moral quality. The quality of virtue also means what the person's character and behavior are. If his virtue is good, this man has a foothold anywhere. If you are under virtue, you will not only add trouble to yourself, but in the eyes of others, this is the embodiment of no cultivation.
Excellent family style is not inscrutable, mysterious and irrelevant. Strictly speaking, it's just some basic common sense of being a man and doing things. The key is to turn these common sense things into the consciousness of every family member. Family precepts must not be soft when they should be used, and must not be used when they should not be used, otherwise it would be a big mistake. Family education, I think, is the quality of family members, whether deep or shallow. If family members don't study, they won't gain knowledge and learn civilization. Education is a particularly important point. Our parents taught us to be serious when we were young, and to correct our mistakes when we know them. Now the teacher teaches us to distinguish between black and white, to be serious and down-to-earth. In the future, it will be social education that we will persistently abide by the law. Every day, we are learning something, knowledge, civilization and truth. I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Now some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and positive energy has been passed on. If we add a good family style to create it, then the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's lives will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!
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Good family style and good family education (5) Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone! Today, the topic of my speech for you is "My Family Style and Family Training-Being an Honest and Serious Good Man".
Family style and family precepts are the traditions of China people, but do you know what family style and family precepts are? Let me tell you something! Family style and family precepts refer to the traditional customs of a family or family. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute a family style and family training. As the name implies, family style and family precepts are the ethos, styles and fashions passed down by a family.
The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. Family style is like spring rain, family training is like dirt, and children are like seedlings. Only with the help of family style and family training can we thrive and become an excellent person.
Our family also has a family style and family precepts! For example, form a good habit of paying attention to hygiene every day, respect the old and love the young, do not contradict your parents, and be polite. However, the family motto that impressed me the most is to be an honest and serious person!
From an early age, my mother taught me to be down-to-earth, conscientious, never opportunistic, not greedy for petty advantages, which is irresponsible to myself and disastrous sooner or later. My mother often tells me some historical stories and news published in newspapers, telling me with vivid examples how important this is to my growth and my future. Now, I also firmly remember my mother's words, study hard, be a man and be honest with people around me. I want to be a serious and down-to-earth honest man, just as my mother expected. Even if I can't be a good man who is famous all over the country like Lei Feng, I will at least be a kind, honest, serious and worthy of my conscience!
I hope that I can follow the family style and family training well, pass it on from generation to generation, infect everyone around me, and make everyone full of positive energy!
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Comments on good family style and good family training (6) Family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. Family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute family style. Roland, a famous French writer, once said: "Life is not an individual who can grow up in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are building materials that are integrated into the growth process, infecting this person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors and affecting this person's attitude towards life. The influence of the environment on a person is more important than tangible imitation. " This also shows the importance of family style.
A good family style is a school. Because although family style is intangible and potential, it has a great influence on children. It is not only a subtle education for children's growth, but also a "regulator" for children's behavior norms and a natural "melting pot" for cultivating children's moral sentiments. Edward and Zuk in the United States have been two families for eight generations. Edward is a learned philosopher, studious and rigorous, which sets a good example for his children. Among his descendants, 13 is the president of a university, 100 is a professor, 80 is a writer, 60 is a doctor, 1 is a vice-president, 1 is an ambassador and 20 is a member of parliament. Zuk is a famous drunkard and gambler, who is cynical, muddleheaded and idle all his life. Among his descendants, more than 300 were beggars and vagrants, more than 400 were disabled or died prematurely because of alcoholism, more than 60 were guilty of fraud and theft, and 7 were murderers. In short, they have no future. The family styles of the two families have a subtle influence on the generations to come, from son to grandson, from generation to generation, and children and grandchildren interact with each other, constantly developing towards the two poles on the social stage. Therefore, the quality of family style directly determines the success of children.
My family style is "promoting democracy and consultation on an equal footing". The important foundation of a good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. If the family relationship is not normal, blame each other, complain and fight, children will feel cold, cold and hostile, leaving a painful scar in their hearts. Therefore, family members should respect and understand each other, live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should be good at adjusting and controlling their emotions and try not to quarrel in front of their children; We should carry forward democracy, actively listen to children's opinions and negotiate on an equal footing; Under the correct guidance of adults, let children grow up freely; Cheerful and optimistic play with children makes the family full of fun. Create a harmonious family environment for children and let them grow up healthily in harmonious, warm and caring interpersonal relationships.
Family style is the main theme of a family, and it is also the concrete embodiment of family members' personality, cultural accomplishment, moral sentiment and interpersonal relationship. Family style is like spring rain, moistening things silently. To form a good family style, parents have to start from themselves. I think what I have done better is to practice swimming and calligraphy with my children when they are in primary school, constantly improve their parents' quality, and strive to turn their home into a successful school.
Family style and school spirit * * * all affect us, let us move towards our goals and have a good character. We also influence others with our own good character. Family style and school spirit, let's ride the wind and waves and grow up in the wind.