Because it's hard to level a bowl of water, how your relative treats you so, how you treat your relative too. This is mainly due to the difficulty of switching between your multiple identities. Relatives without reservation to bring you, or by you mistaken for oppression and resentment, but also lead to other employees of the bad language; you have no reservation to work hard and advice, or counter-relationship is considered by your relatives is not big and small over the outline of the line, thankless. When that day relatives really think you are not suitable for the time, easy to get in and out of the dilemma; on the contrary, you may have become a frog in warm water. Most of the enterprise to resist internal staff to fall in love, husband and wife wife store most of the career and family difficult to balance, are multiple identities of the trouble, are close to the relationship between the excessive sensibility and the workplace need to be relatively rational between the water and fire intolerance.