1, the expected value becomes higher.
With the rapid development of the times and Internet media, people's access to the world has improved and Qujing has diversified, so the values of a generation have also changed. In the era of underdeveloped communication technology, like a frog in a well, we can only cling to the immediate happiness, but now the short video social platform on the Internet can let us see the farther world.
Top students, an elite group of handsome guys and beautiful women, are everywhere on the internet, forming a huge gap with the real world. Under the influence of the online world, the expectation of the opposite sex has become higher invisibly, but the opposite sex in real life has not reached the ideal standard, so people nowadays are unwilling to make do even if they wait. After all, they can still see the hope of high-quality opposite sex. I will only trap myself in this gap.
2, the rhythm is accelerated
This is a society with an accelerated pace of life and fierce competition. If you don't advance, you will retreat. Contemporary people are often in a very busy state in modern society, as if they will be eliminated by the times if they don't work hard. Now for many years, the status quo that lovers are facing is still in a very difficult stage, so why try to fall in love, a luxury that consumes energy and money?
The journey of love is in a hurry. In people's eyes, as long as they don't worry about marriage and love, they can put it aside in the era of running for their ideals. Is it difficult for you modern people to have the flowing water of the previous generation?
3. Economic conditions
The foundation determines the superstructure. Finally, romantic love needs money to consolidate its foundation. This economic base depends entirely on personal circumstances. Although there is no high fixed level, it does form a very important expenditure.
Although it is realistic and reasonable to say that you are not qualified to fall in love without money, if the economic conditions are the same, the economic contradictions and pressures will be small. The truth is that modern people's love begins with routine, but they are loyal to poverty. After all, the most tiring thing is to meet someone who really wants to satisfy him when his economic strength is the weakest.
Although life is stressful, people are not rushing for work and salary. The working machine lacks the psychology of love, but needs to warm the people around it. The more they hurry, the more valuable Bai Yueguang becomes.
In fact, no one will love for no reason, and no one will be refused to love for no reason. In short, in this complex society, everyone's concept of mate selection is printed with the color of this era.