Wen/An Dongyue
11.
I have heard the saying that the collapse of adults begins with lack of money.
people who have never been short of money will never know what kind of collapse this is. People who know this kind of collapse are all people who have suffered and been poor.
Perhaps, many people who have collapsed have already come through all the hardships, and they don't want to talk about that hard time again. After all, it's not a good memory.
However, it is also a look back on life, in which we know more about what life is.
people born in poverty have experienced the taste of lack of money early. Parents often frown and occasionally quarrel, mostly because of lack of money.
Looking at my parents who are overwhelmed by lack of money, my little heart has an inexplicable fear of poverty. But it was just fear, and I didn't really realize how collapsed the lack of money was. After all, I was still young at that time, and my parents supported me in great things.
Only when you are an adult can you really understand how stressful life is and how difficult it is when you are short of money. I will sigh from the heart that life is not easy and it is not easy to live.
12.
I still remember the days when I was isolated at home during the epidemic, and I often felt a lot of emotions when I watched the world through the Internet.
Those who go to work can't go to work, and those who open stores can't open stores. This is almost desperate for people who have car loans, mortgages and rents to pay, but don't have much savings.
when money is used, people hate it less, and when they are poor, they know it is difficult. Not to mention the unexpected situations that may be encountered, the daily expenses such as food, clothing, housing, daily necessities, parents' pension, children's education, etc., are scattered together, which is a mountain that is often overwhelming.
I think many people know that Jin Deqiang, a truck driver, died of drinking pesticides because he was fined 2111 yuan. There are also his last words, which must be very sad. If you don't know this, you can search for the Jin Deqiang incident.
a 51-year-old man, after running for 11 years, not only didn't earn any money, but fell ill. He is the pillar of his family. He insisted on working despite illness, and was fined 2111 yuan for dropping the driving recorder, which became the last straw to crush the camel.
some people may think that it's foolish to pay the price of your life for only 2,111 yuan. In fact, it's not entirely a question of 2,111 yuan. It's a matter of years of running around and being tired, still unable to live a good life, deeply ashamed, and very disappointed with myself and life, so I will make such a decision.
In this world, there are many people who have tried their best just to live.
Don't say that they don't work hard enough, don't say that they are lazy. They may be more diligent than anyone else, and they may sweat more than anyone else, but fate has never taken care of them. Even if you work hard all your life, you may not be able to enjoy a day of happiness.
13.
I didn't think how important money was before. Now it seems that I was too young.
for a few years, I didn't care, didn't check, didn't get paid. Because I knew there was not much, I kept it on my card, just like saving pocket money.
At that time, I didn't need to worry about all the expenses at home. Therefore, although I was an adult, I didn't feel any pressure from adults.
Later, because of starting a business, the income and expenses could not be balanced, and the economic pressure was increasing, and finally I realized what it was like for adults to collapse.
I have friends around me who do business and owe a lot of money to the bank. I have to repay them on time every month. When there is no other way, I can only turn around by swiping my credit card. It's really hard to rob Peter to pay Paul like this, and I don't know when I can get out of debt.
when an adult collapses, he will understand if he lacks money once.
it's true.
when you need a sum of money urgently, but you can't come up with it, you will know what helplessness is; When you really have no choice but to summon up the courage to borrow money from relatives and friends, you will know what is humble; When you rummage through the address book and find that there is no one to borrow money from, you will know what despair is.
when you are helpless, humble and desperate, you will know what collapse is.
14.
In the world of adults, the word "easy" has never been used. Everyone is fighting hard to make money.
Ma Yun said that he doesn't like money, but only likes making money.
and I want to say that I don't like money either, because it's so hard to earn.
The hardships of adults are the only way in life; The collapse of adults is a great test of life.
I wish every adult can bear life, resist pressure, stand the test of life, be brave in the wind and rain, and forge ahead.
I hope that one day, we will never have to worry about money again, but run around and live a truly relaxed and leisurely life.
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