I come from the countryside. In this modern city and fashionable campus, I am so shabby. In order to change this situation, I began to go shopping and make up, and saved my breakfast money to buy that luxurious fashion magazine ... Gradually, I became a beautiful and lovely girl, and my classmates no longer alienated me. I felt a sense of satisfaction in my heart. But sometimes it hurts faintly: am I here to prove this?

analysis: this case is very universal, and each of us will encounter all kinds of external pressures, the most important of which comes from what others think of you, and this is the problem of this classmate. In order to cater to other people's eyes, she deliberately changed herself, and this change is almost unbearable for her. In fact, the change of a person's appearance can be achieved by transforming his heart, and girls with knowledge and temperament are the most attractive.

why do I live so tired?

I am an outstanding student. In the final exam, I was "amazed", and the teachers got to know me, and then I got a lot of honors. But when I was a sophomore, I didn't do very well in several courses, so a teacher warned me that "success is the most taboo for complacency." To this end, I began to study these courses that I hated, and soon I jumped to the first place. However, I am not happy. I am very tired living under honor.

analysis: I have encountered such a similar case, which has a little sense of "honor panic". Generally speaking, these people tend to be introverted and can't adjust their emotions. In fact, whether it is setbacks or honors, if we can face them with a peaceful and casual attitude, we will be much more relaxed.

I don't regret the widening of my belt, which makes people haggard for Iraq.

My relationship with him changed as soon as I went to college. He was excellent, and as soon as he went to college, he joined the student union, and there were more girls around him, which showed that I didn't deserve him. Finally, I broke up with him. But I'm not willing, isn't it because I'm fat? So I began to lose weight desperately. My friends advised me that I was worthless, and I knew it, but I just couldn't be reconciled!

Analysis: Emotional heart disease is the most difficult problem to solve, which needs time to fade away. I remember a philosopher once advised a lovelorn girl that he abandoned you to prove that there is no love in his heart, that he has lost love, and that you have not lost anything, but that he has lost something. What are you sad about? Now that this classmate knows it's not worth it, give it up quickly. As long as you have love in your heart, you will always find someone who also has love in your heart.

Internet makes me happy and worries me!

I have been in contact with online games since the third grade of junior high school. Up to now, I can say that I have been obsessed with it. I know it's a plaything, but I'm really not interested in anything except games.

Analysis: We have to admit that "Internet addiction" has become one of the urgent problems in universities, and this phenomenon is too common. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer group activities in universities, and many people will feel a strong sense of loneliness. In reality, an ordinary self is a hero admired by everyone on the Internet, which makes many people who love to daydream psychologically satisfied! The formation of this ethos is closely related to the atmosphere of the whole school, but I am afraid its solution mainly depends on students' self-discipline.

alas, the road ahead is slim!

I find it more and more difficult to study alone, because I don't have any special skills and hobbies, so I often sit at my desk alone in a daze. Sometimes I feel that I am always forcing myself to study for those so-called goals and ambitions, but I have no achievements and have to daydream. I'm really afraid I'll go crazy if this continues!

Analysis: We can see that he is a good student who is diligent and motivated, but he has no grades and is still at a loss. It should be said that this stems from the fact that he didn't really know himself, didn't know what his interests were, and didn't find the pleasure of learning. He studied hard only because he thought it was his task, for his grand goal, and he didn't know what this goal was and how to position it. Each of us should learn to position ourselves, which is the beginning of success.