The education of parents determines the upbringing of children. Having dinner with friends on Saturday, a couple brought a 9-year-old boy. During the dinner, the children kept running around without taking a few bites, squeezing into the table from other guests, eating their favorite dishes, and finally putting a bunch of dishes in the bowl. But the child's mother seems to be just chatting with people around her as if nothing had happened, as if she didn't see several guests being splashed with soup by the child. When chatting, my mother said a lot about her children's study, and she got good grades in all subjects. She is tall and handsome, and she is the standard-bearer in her class. Even so, my mother was not satisfied and said that she planned to give her children an off-campus training class. According to the trend, after 30 years, will this child become the "three highs" of high salary, high performance and high social status? Even so, I think that with the child's performance and mother's attitude, he is likely to stumble over the word "education" in the future. Why do you say that? Because I've heard such words.

Children's upbringing determines their future development. A few days ago, a friend told me an incident that happened during the recruitment of their company. There was a newcomer who had just graduated from a famous university. His resume is beautiful and he got high marks in the written test. He was also invited to an interview dinner attended by company executives. During the dinner, the couple talked a lot, panting with anger, and regarded other guests as nothing, which was disappointing. Finally, the company told him that although his ability was excellent, he didn't know how to respect others, and he couldn't be admitted without a degree. Catering etiquette is very important, because catering is an indispensable social activity in our life. We eat at the dinner table with colleagues, friends, family, business, relationships and relationships. To be sure, developing good dining etiquette is an important prerequisite to ensure children's career success after entering the society in the future. The cultivation of this kind of education is the most precious intangible asset left by parents to their children, which is eternal and infinite.

Parents must pay attention to cultivating their children's table manners. At the dinner table, more and more parents pay attention to their children's nutrition, but seldom pay attention to their upbringing. We are used to the children's indecent eating-some people lie on the table and sweep the dishes on the plate, some people look at their favorite dishes and put them into the bowl desperately, and some people whimper with their mouths when drinking soup ... Parents are not used to it, used to it, and even spoil it. When you neglect children's table manners, you close the door for them to show themselves.

At the dinner table, the children's sitting posture, movements, demeanor, expressions and eyes have told people what their parents are like in silent and rich language. What's your mentality? You either respect others or don't look at others. Are you a successful person who is full of confidence in life, or a loser who treats life negatively? A meal is enough for you to know someone. Therefore, cultivating a child's good body language at the dinner table also means helping him to correct his bad habit of sloppy failure and develop a decent and successful habit.