A young man in Qingdao ordered a grilled fish in a restaurant, then put in a candle and lit it, making a pious wish. After seeing it, the proprietress learned very distressed. She thought it was not easy for this foreign guy to live in this place, and she also thought of her son who was going to have a birthday soon, so she sent the child a cake to express her blessing. The proprietress gave him a cake because she thought he was particularly lonely, as if she saw the loneliness of the whole young people in a foreign land now.

Nowadays, young people are very lonely. They not only celebrate their birthdays alone, but also have no relatives and friends around to bless them. They also go to the hospital for surgery alone, and no one even signs off. Some even travel around the world, and then wander around foreign countries and work hard to make a living. These young people live alone day and night, and some days they don't even say a word, but netizens in front of the screen ask questions several times. But young people seem to have long been accustomed to their loneliness, and loneliness has become a normal state. But for many old people, they think that young people are too lonely now, and their original differences are too great, so they are very sympathetic to young people now. After all, they study very hard, have great pressure at work, and are still lonely in life.

The reason why young people nowadays are so lonely is that they don't want to cater to and please others any more. In the face of friends who can't get along with each other, they choose to die of old age, and they don't need to hide their emotions and deliberately integrate into the group. This is too uncomfortable. Moreover, they don't fall in love, thinking that falling in love will get angry with their partners and will be hurt by love, or they will live easily and simply by themselves, even if they are lonely, but they are much quieter. I don't think that the loneliness of young people is a poor state. On the contrary, I think that young people now consciously choose the life they want, which is much more rational than before. They don't have to cater to others, and they don't have to get married and have children.