Four ceremonies: entrance ceremony, growth ceremony, youth ceremony and adult ceremony.
1. Eight Rites and Four Instruments is a civilized etiquette education for minors, and it is to cultivate minors to practice socialist core values.
2. Eight rites and four instruments:
(1) Eight gifts
Appearance gifts: clean face, decent clothes, natural hairstyle and generous manners.
Dining etiquette: Pay attention to hygiene, cherish food, eat frugally and eat elegantly.
Speech talent: use civilized language, be calm, listen patiently, be sincere and friendly.
Courtesy of treating others: respect teachers, love partners, be tolerant and polite, and treat others with integrity.
Salute: obey the rules, be polite to guests, help the old and take care of the young, and offer your seat voluntarily.
Appreciation ceremony: obey the order, care for the environment, concentrate on appreciation and applaud politely.
Tour Ceremony: Be kind to the landscape, cherish cultural relics, respect folk customs and abide by public morality.
Courtesy: Salute according to the rules, with awe, seriousness and respect for customs and habits.
(2) Four kinds of instruments
7-year-old: Admission ceremony, so that primary school students who have just entered the school can feel the fun of learning, get in touch with campus life and feel the etiquette norms.
10 years old: growth ceremony, so that students in grade 3 and 4 of primary school can learn to be grateful, know how to share, and know the kindness of parents, teachers and friends.
14 years old: Youth ceremony, which enables middle school students to learn to communicate, control their emotions, tolerate others and take the first step of youth.
18 years old: adult ceremony, so that students who have reached the age of 18 can understand the responsibilities of adults, be law-abiding citizens, assume social responsibilities, constantly improve themselves, aspire to become talents and serve the country.
3. Eight Rites and Four Instruments Famous Words
(1) As a gift, harmony is the most precious. Kong Qiu in the Spring and Autumn Period.
(2) Without rules, it is difficult to make a square. Extracts from newspapers.
(3) propriety prevents lewdness and saves money. Han Shu Ban Gu.
(4) A little knowledge of Confucius' three-point ceremony will not offend Xiao He. Tang Mingzu.
(5) see no evil, don't listen to evil, don't say evil, don't move if you are evil. Kong Qiu in the Spring and Autumn Period.
(6) reciprocity: it is indecent to go without coming; It is also impolite to come and not go. Book of rites