People who have witnessed too many drunken gaffes really don't have much affection for wine. However, many times, I am also thinking that since human beings invented wine and passed it down for so many years, this wine must have its rationality. Sartre said: existence is reasonable! The word "wine" and the word "beauty" are called "fine wine" together. I have never heard of the words "beautiful water" or "beautiful coffee", which also shows the uniqueness of wine in the world.
First of all, drinking is a kind of communication and entertainment. At the beginning of Yu Minhong's founding of New Oriental, in order to settle the difficulties, he invited people from the police station to drink until they were hospitalized and rescued. I have also seen young people drink themselves to vomiting blood in order to do things.
When people communicate with each other, they must be very stiff when they sit together at first. If you drink some wine, the atmosphere will gradually improve and everyone will relax. Many people don't like to express themselves at ordinary times, and they can't help but talk more after drinking. Push a cup for a change, so that the whole dinner will not be embarrassed. But this kind of wine is easy to drink too much. Wine has played a very important role in this situation. China is a human society, and many things are solved at the wine table.
there were times when I couldn't resist others' advice, and I was also curious. I tried to drink, and after drinking, I went home, and my stomach turned upside down. I vomited all night. Finally, there was nothing I could do. I simply put a small stool by the toilet bowl and sat there holding the toilet bowl and fell asleep. The next morning, my stomach ached, I felt weak and top-heavy, so I swore that I would never drink again. If anyone told me to drink, I would immediately beat him to death with a stick. Finally, it is concluded that some things can't be tried casually.
In the second case of drinking, it is not for entertainment, but for pleasure. When several close friends sit together, everyone can drink as much as they can, and they don't persuade them to drink. Only in this way can the wine be comfortable, assured and happy.
Just like tonight, several of our neighbors, several plates of jiaozi, some side dishes and two bottles of wine, if I can have a drink, then I will have one, and the rest I feel I can't drink, so I won't drink, and everyone can understand. After drinking that little wine, my nerves, which had been tense for several days, suddenly relaxed and my body and mind were happy. I don't feel sick in my stomach or have a headache. It is a kind of luck to drink such wine. That is to say, drinking until you are slightly drunk should be one degree.
since the development of human beings, we have experienced too many joys and sorrows. Every one of us will encounter ups and downs in our life, whether in prosperity or adversity, we need to spend it. When we are happy, we should drink some wine to celebrate, and when we are sad, we should drink some wine to make a transition. Moreover, in many cases, our lives need buffering. At some point, wine can let us temporarily let go of stress and thoughts, and let our nerves rest for a while. Perhaps this is also the reason why many people fall in love with drinking. In other words, alcohol can temporarily paralyze the nerves and relax the vigilance of life.
In A Dream of Red Mansions, it is well known that Jiao Da often gets drunk and rolls around. The famous paragraph: "Picking up ashes, raising brother in law and raising brother in law" was scolded by Jiao Da after drinking. I think it's very sad for Jiao Da to see Jia's family getting worse from generation to generation. At ordinary times, he is just a servant, afraid to speak, and can only hold back. It's the wine that emboldens him.
I saw a friend say this: Because the normal state in life is normal, it is too tired. You can lose your temper and relax after drinking. This is a fact.
I have always believed that people must be strong inside, so that they don't need alcohol, cigarettes or even other things that look like poppies to get a short breath. Because, many things are not well grasped, and the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Therefore, I always agree that people should have a positive hobby, such as reading, singing, painting, calligraphy, swimming and traveling ... In this way, we can vent our anxiety, boredom, sadness or other negative emotions in the process of coping with life through these positive hobbies, so as not to live to be miserable.
One situation is another matter. If you can write poems after drinking like Li Bai, you will never sing again. For example, Wang Xizhi wrote a masterpiece "Preface to Lanting Collection" after drinking, so it is not bad to drink more wine.
It is well known that Li Bai, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty, loves wine very much. Many of his poems contain wine, and Li Bai, who was named as a poet fairy, also belongs to Brewmaster, because in a sense, without wine, there would be no Li Taibai, a poet fairy who flourished in the history of China literature, as evidenced by "Hundred Poems of Li Bai Fighting for Wine". Li Bai is known as a poet, and his poetry creation has a great relationship with wine.
Li Bai's drinking reflects a kind of life value with aesthetic tendency. While pursuing physical stimulation, it still gives people beneficial enlightenment, instead of leading people to decadence. This is the reason why Li Bai's wine and poems have been passed down through the ages.
Li Bai's "Coming into Wine" is an outstanding masterpiece of the integration of poetry and wine. In the poem, Li Bai wrote about the relationship between people and wine in different situations: "oh, let a man of spirit venture where he pleases, and never tip his golden cup empty toward the moon!" is needed when you are happy, and "cook a sheep, kill a cow, whet the appetite, and make me, of three hundred bowls, one long drink!" is needed when you have friends visiting.
When you are angry with the world, you can't do without the anesthesia of wine: "what are bell and drum, rare dishes and treasure?, I hope you will never wake up after being drunk for a long time." When you are lonely and speechless, you can talk to Dionysus: "sober men of olden days and sages are forgotten, only the drinker keeps his name", and the situation of poverty and embarrassment can't be separated from the catharsis of wine: "Five flowers and horses, thousands of golden qiu, hand them to the boy to exchange for good wine, with you, will share eternal worries". Such a combination of wine and people is rare in the world.
But Brewmaster like Li Bai is rare in the world after all. China is vast in territory and abundant in natural resources, and it took thousands of years to produce a Li Bai. In real life, too many people waste their lives because of drinking. After all, drinking is a neutral thing. If you grasp it well, wine can add color to your life. If you don't grasp it well, you will be drowned by wine for a lifetime, and you will eventually come to the world in vain, bringing unimaginable pain to people around you.
Finally, I'd like to say something that is expected to make people who are addicted to alcohol furious: all people who often drink to escape the pressure and anxiety of life are cowards.
Author: Ding Xiao Mo, a catering expert who likes reading, writing, drawing and thinking.