So what kind of family raises such excellent children?
In the road of He Gui's growing up, He Fear's tiger-daddy style of education played an important role. And when He Gui became famous, Gui father continued to tie up with He Gui commercial marketing is ultimately dragged down He Gui. When the debt of Gui's father, He Fear, was exposed, He Gui's career was inevitably affected.
He Gui's high emotional intelligence, good people is recognized, from the "windmill" to "Gardenia" to "happy camp", He Gui to create the image is always kind, friendly, happy, any walk to the side of He Gui can always feel him like a spring breeze of smiles, the kind of friendliness as light as a gardenia, light, fragrant, and not easy to cause hostility and antipathy.
This unique temperament originated from his family.
He's father, He Fear, is a researcher, while his mother is a poorly educated housewife.
The He family is a family with the potential of a school bully, He Fear's elder brother, He Yu, is a school bully, in his early years was the director of the planning department of the Hunan Provincial Petrochemical Department, and He Fear is also smart and intelligent from childhood, when he went to college, he suddenly became obsessed with philosophy, switched departments to study philosophy, and then went to the Institute of Philosophy of the Hunan Academy of Social Sciences to work as a researcher after graduation.
After getting married, He Fear gave birth to two sons, and the names he gave them are also very cultural, one is called He Hao, and the other is He Gui.
He fear of the two sons very strict requirements, never say no, do not let the boy cry, do not do a good job when you will take a stick directly beat.
Although He Fear does not smile, but He Gui's mother is a kind and amiable woman, low-key and modest, often help the neighbors, people are very good.
In such a family atmosphere, He's low-key and modest is easy to explain, a small person, the character is not strong, but a bit of a girl's gentle and friendly.
Before he became famous, Mr. Ho didn't have too many dreams related to business, but his son's instant popularity in China made him see another way to make money outside of being a "researcher".
In addition to his strict teaching as a child, He Fear has been an important guide in his career path:
When He resigned from CCTV and went to "Happy Camp", it was at this time that Beiwai made a breakthrough in retaining He as a teacher. At this time, He Fear gave advice: "Don't be afraid, accept both, run both ways. This way there is a stable job, but also can fulfill the dream of hosting."
And when He Fear retired, in order to encourage his father to release his spare time, He also provided his father with an important suggestion: to enter the catering industry, to create the "Gui Dad" brand.
Under the guidance of professionals, the brand "Gui Dad" has developed rapidly, and has launched "Gui Dad boneless fish rice", "Gui Dad small seafood", "Gui dad skewer camp", "Gui dad milk tea", "Gui dad honey pulled pork ribs" and other brands, just seven or eight years time has been renowned throughout the country.
In the process of building the "Gui Dad" brand, father and son work very well together, with Gui leading the popularity, and Fear in charge of the backend operation. In the high popularity of the He Gui led, happy camp family members also many times to the store to eat, and card promotion, is also considered to buy the face of Mr. He, free to help "Gui dad" to do promotional publicity.
Actors fire after turning to business is not uncommon, such as "Erkang" Zhou Jie to plant rice, Ren Quan quit the entertainment circle to engage in investment, Ma Su opened a hot pot restaurant, Huang Zitao opened a meat and crab pot store ....... The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
But, "Gui dad" on the consumption of Gui's popularity is a bit too much, not only hanging Gui's signboard to do branding, but also pull on Gui's "circle of friends" to canvassing, the most important thing is that not long ago, Hunan Gui dad culture media Co. It was revealed that due to the failure to fulfill the legal obligations on time was enforced by the court, the execution of the subject matter of 439,700 yuan.
A kind father, into the shopping mall, into the default employee wages "boss", into the "old man".
At this time, He Fear, has become the son of He Gui star aura behind the shadow.
And this is not the first time.
Previously, the well-known entertainment explosives people "Changchun National Trade" had reported that He Fear hired people to push down the village house of cards, the reason is: the village house of cards near the ancestral house of the He family, affecting the feng shui of their ancestral house.
When the hired people were detained by the villagers, He Fear came out and replied, "If you don't let go, I'll spend a million dollars to make some connections, and I have to get rid of the mayor of the town and the head of the police station!"
If the Changchun National Trade Center broke the news is true, then, Gui father He Fear's series of tawdry operation will directly affect the future career of He Gui.
Ancient language: "One man gets the road, the chicken and the dog."
A person becomes famous, the whole family stains the light, the use of the son's fame to make a fortune is not wrong, but a wise parent will not do so.
When their children become famous, what will the wise parents do?
A wise parent never consumes their child's fame.
This year's Olympic Games, diving champion Quan Hongchan fire the whole network, said that he initially learned diving just to cure his mother's illness, after the game, many caring enterprises, enthusiastic people have to her home, want to give her financial support.
In the face of a flood of money and goods, Quan Hongchan's father refused, he said, "We will not consume our daughter's honor, and hope that her daughter can study and go to college in the future."
Quan Hongchan is on fire, her father could have accepted these gifts, and could have done live broadcasts, advertisements, and restaurants to make money come more easily and to make life better, but "Parents love their children, and they are counting on them for a long time to come." However, Quan Hongchan's father obviously thinks longer for his daughter, comparing with money, Quan Hongchan needs more long-term education and development.
This also reminds us of Lin Miaoke and Yang Peiyi in the 208 Olympics.
A song in the Olympics set fire to two girls, one in front of the stage and one behind the scenes. But after Lin Miaoke became popular, her mother simply took her daughter as a cash cow, and then take a movie, and shooting ads, attending all kinds of public **** occasions, constantly consuming Lin Miaoke's reputation. On the contrary, when Yang Peiyi's parents were invited by advertisers and all kinds of programs, her parents said, "I'm sorry, my child is on summer vacation."
For many parents, it's easy to be strict with their children and train them to become successful, but when they do become successful, how many of them are able to keep their beginnings and not consume their children's energy or their reputation?
We urge the He Aimers to reflect on this.
I hope more parents will take this as a warning.