Don't know what exactly is appropriate, but know what is really not appropriate.
Remembering that in early 2018, when I first made my first career choice, I was so hesitant and resolutely refused to let my boss stay, it really hurt my face a little bit. So for the second time, this is even more difficult to find and choose, do not let go of every opportunity, do not easily accept every invitation, perhaps there really is the existence of the law of attraction, and finally identified an offer that can meet my expectations of someone to take the study, their own full practice.
Then gave myself a week's vacation, with a view to clearing the hostility, to restore the full of positive energy. I think it's a scientific process of "decompression"!
Phase 1: Communicate with friends
First of all, meet with friends you haven't seen for a long time in your favorite environment to chat. We discovered a hidden cafe, Red Coffee, which is located on the south side of Dongsi Street, in the heart of Beijing's hutongs. Located in Dongsi South Street, Lishi Hutong 161 inn cafe, or a small two-story building, quaint and quirky decorative paintings, wooden tables and chairs, curling coffee aroma, let a person feel comfortable.
Chatting to learn of friends during the struggle for graduate school, really want to give a thumbs up: 7:00 a.m. in the classroom to sit down, 12:00 p.m. before returning to the dormitory to rest; adhere to the school does not test to take the top of the profession, so the day of the examination only her own off-campus test site, a person quietly adhere to; living in the hotel anxiety to sleep and eat, after the study of the study of 7, 8 pounds of skinny ---- --Saying that the results are no longer important words, is not responsible for their own section of the outstanding efforts, the results are indeed important, but not only the results of the examination, but also the quality of the training and maturity of the mind, even if you did not get in, but also has a clear conscience, and the strength of this force in the all the efforts will inevitably be rewarded in a different way.
After listening to my friend's account, I was a bit pale in comparison to my own entangled and confused helplessness. The first thing that comes to mind is the fact that in the movie "Farewell My Concubine", the master of the opera troupe said to Xiao Douzi that "if you want to show your face in front of the people, you have to suffer after the people". When I was in high school, I liked to encourage myself with the old class saying, "Every successful person walks forward with tears in his eyes".
Phase 2: Talking to myself
Two days into the pmp course, I finished two sets of questions and passed the model exam.
While every time I spend three hours after brushing the questions will be dizzy, y have lost the ability to take the test; although every time I counted the number of wrong questions are drooping, even the wrong situation occurs from time to time, but see the progress of a little by little, the sense of accomplishment is full. The first time I saw this, I felt that I had sacrificed the weekend's efforts, and that I had to read the book after work, but I still had hope that I would be able to pay it off.
Living in the moment is actually another explanation for refusing to procrastinate. The present thing to do now, do not encroach on the "unknown" belonging to the "later".