When you meet for the first time, you should give your full name. If your name is too difficult to remember or write, and there are uncommon words, you'd better write it down and give it to the friend you face.

2. When being introduced again, stand up and signal.

When your name is introduced, standing can make your image stand out. Compared with sitting, it is not easy to be ignored. If you can't stand up or because of some special circumstances, you should lean forward to show your intention to stand up.

Only say "thank you" once or twice in conversation.

In conversation or speech, it is best to say "thank you" only once or twice. If you say "thank you" too much, it will dilute your gratitude, you will appear embarrassed or uneasy, and your weight will be diluted. ...

4. Express your gratitude to the person you want to thank.

Don't thank you in general, but express it one by one. For the person you want to thank, it is best to express your gratitude alone within 24 hours.

5. Don't pull a seat for others.

Guests, both men and women, can pull out their seats for him. But in business situations, you can ignore these etiquette-because both men and women have the ability to open their seats for themselves.

6. Don't cross your legs.

Crossing your legs in business situations is not good for both men and women. And it is not good for blood circulation.

7. Don't point a finger at others. It is best to point it out with all your fingers, that is, your palms.

Pointing at others with your index finger often means aggression, and it is best to point it out with your palm. In terms of fingers, women tend to be more than men.

8. Never clear your plate.

Despite the "CD action", you want to talk about business in a business situation, not for other reasons. You can ask for packing in family dinners, but it is not appropriate in business occasions.

9. Order dishes that suit the diners' tastes.

For example, if the other person orders dessert after dinner, you'd better order it after dinner, and try not to let the guests look at you while eating, which is embarrassing.

10, try to find out the preferences of the guests before ordering.

If the host has booked a Muslim Lanzhou Lamian Noodles, you need to consider whether the other party is Hui. On the other hand, we can also infer each other's preferences from the reserved restaurants. This needs to be considered.

1 1, food, tableware, wine glasses (up posture! )。

The question of left, middle and right is a detail. The left word is composed of four letters, and the fork that needs to be placed on the left is also composed of four letters.

The knife on the right and the right are also composed of five letters, and it happens that the knife should be placed on the right. And drink and glass are all composed of five letters and should be placed on the right.

There is also a BMW principle: (bread, meat and water) bread, meat and wine. Bread and butter should be on the left, meat should be in the middle, and water and other drinks should be on the right.

12, whoever treats will pay.

Whoever initiates the invitation is the host and who should pay the bill, regardless of gender. Of course, if the woman initiates the invitation and the man insists on paying the bill at last, this time is also possible. This is the bottom line.

13, prepare an excuse to leave and try to be polite.

When you want to leave or end a conversation, you'd better find a good reason, drink a glass of water, go to the toilet, or just say it's nice talking to you. Better get ready.

Etiquette on the women's wine table II. China Dietary Etiquette

If you want to be an elegant woman praised by everyone, you must first know the etiquette of sitting. The round table faces the gate, that is, the seats farthest from the entrance are the upper seat and the guest seat, and the seats closest to the entrance are the lower seat, the upper right and the lower left. Secondly, we should use tableware correctly, don't use chopsticks to pick up the food in the soup, don't lick chopsticks, put them down when talking and communicating, and don't insert them vertically on the food when not in use. Don't splash the soup with a spoon, don't blow it with your mouth, don't put the spoon in your mouth, or lick it repeatedly. Picking your teeth in public is a taboo. You can cover your mouth with one hand and remove foreign objects with the other. Understand that napkins are used to wipe your hands before meals, and napkins are used to wipe your mouth after meals, so you can't misuse them at will.

Second, the etiquette of western food

The seats in a long table in western food are different from those in Chinese food. In western food etiquette, women are respected everywhere, and the seats of female guests are slightly higher than those of male guests. In the ranking, the woman sits in the main position, the man sits in the secondary position, the man sits on the right side of the woman, and the woman sits on the right side of the man. Other men and women should follow the principle of cross arrangement. When a woman eats western food with a man alone, she should sit on the man's right or against the wall, and when she is with her husband and another man, she should sit in the middle.

Sit away from the left, sit up straight, keep your abdomen at a fist's distance from the table, don't cross your legs and don't put your hands under the table. Open the napkin after ordering, and put the folded mouth outward on your knees; If you need to leave the table temporarily during the meal, you should put your napkin on your seat. After the meal, fold the napkin and put it on the table to indicate the end of the party. Use tableware with a knife in the right hand and a fork in the left hand; Don't eat directly with a knife; If you want to have a rest while eating, put the knife on the right in a figure of eight, fork on the left, fork up on the plate; After the meal, the knife and fork are placed side by side on the plate, indicating the end of the meal.

Women's wine table social etiquette common sense dating table manners

Level 1: Accept the date until you arrive at the restaurant.

● After agreeing to the other party's invitation, if you are late or even cancel the appointment, you must inform the other party in advance. It is acceptable to be late for a meeting, but more than fifteen minutes will leave a bad impression that the other party does not attach importance to dating.

● Don't pull the chair into the seat at the first time after coming to the seat, because the other person may be ready to open the chair for you and give him a chance as a gentleman.

● When sitting in a chair, sit up straight, lean back, look straight ahead, don't just lower your head to avoid the other person's sight. Wrist (not elbow) can be naturally placed on the edge of the table. The distance between the chair and the table should not be too far. Otherwise, it will increase the chances of physical exercise when eating.

When the other person picks up the napkin, you can put it on your lap. If the napkin is big enough to be folded into a rectangle or triangle, then the smaller napkin can be placed directly on the thigh to prevent the juice from polluting the clothes when eating.

Etiquette on the women's wine table 3 When most men and women appear in the restaurant together, all they do is order some good wine for themselves, and then throw the wine list to the woman sitting in the distance and ask, "What would you like to drink? Make yourself at home! " This can't be done! We'll teach you to give her some wine and learn!

NO 1。 Drink, flirt and watch the temperature.

More than 50% of women are invited to eat and drink to lay the foundation for establishing intimate relationships. If that's what you mean, ordering wine is not the most important thing. How to order wine ultimately determines whether you meet a silly girl or a drunken and disgusting woman tonight.

How does wine change women?

The first cup

"The first glass of wine she drank could make her blood alcohol content reach 0.03% in 20 minutes, and she didn't know it." Dr Elizabeth, from the Alcohol Research Center of Rutgers University in the United States, said.

The good news is that she will find you more attractive. After a glass of wine, if you can stay awake, her eyes will glow with love.

You should do this: order some appetizers and don't let her drink on an empty stomach. Food can help absorb alcohol. Some women don't eat well all day to control their weight, and the wine they drink will make her drunk soon. Don't think that the faster she drinks, the harder you work, which is disproportionate.

The second cup

The influence of the second glass of wine on her will be obvious, even beyond her expectation. Dr Elizabeth said: "She will be relaxed and look ecstatic. But in fact, her judgment has been affected, and it is not a smart idea to drink a second cup within 25 minutes. "

The good news is that she is willing to have physical contact with you. The influence of alcohol stimulated the cerebral cortex, and after two drinks, sexual desire began to push up her mood.

You should do this: if she can still drink, avoid her mixing other drinks. Those cocktails that look harmless and particularly attract girls are extremely mixed.

After the third cup

If she drinks mixed wine, the alcohol content in her blood will soar to 0.085%. The mood may suddenly get worse, and the joy just now is replaced by depression or anger. The bad news is that she is tired and wants to go home. Just now, Chun Qing's emotion surge, suddenly out of control. Many men are confused and don't know what they screwed up.

You should do this: many women get drunk to relieve stress and anxiety. You should talk to her and care about what happened to her. Order her a cup of coffee by the way. Coffee can't relieve alcoholism, but at least it can reduce the alcohol content in her blood. It will take her five hours to fully recover to a fully awake state.

NO2。 Deal with the female boss with dignity

You may feel uncomfortable eating and drinking with women with higher social status than yourself, so you need to be careful not to be rude everywhere. It should be said that a woman who can mix into a certain social status has a very strong personal will, and she has her own way of drinking. Unless you know it very well, or she came to consult you on purpose, you'd better not give her some wine in a hurry to avoid kissing her wrong ass.

However, women naturally like intimate surprises. You can do the following things.

1 Call the sommelier to find her.

Who knows wine best? Of course, they are sommeliers in this restaurant, so their nickname is "the walking dictionary of wine". A trained sommelier will be happy to tell you all kinds of wines. According to your financial strength, he can also tell you a little about what his restaurant has. At this time, if you can tell the sommelier in detail your female boss's dietary preferences after long-term careful observation, it will be more helpful for his recommendation. We can definitely tell you her reaction, and your female boss will be a little surprised and say, "Oh, you noticed!" " The rest of the time, the sommelier will pour your wine in the most elegant way. This meal can leave a high impression on the female boss.

The more careful you ask, the better.

If there is no sommelier in this restaurant and you are proficient in some wine knowledge, you need the right staff. Ask more questions and give her more choices. Attitude must not be ostentatious, kind and calm. "Do you want to eat red meat or white meat tonight? Do you like white wine, red wine or champagne? Do you like new world wine or old world wine? Do you have a favorite country and year? " These questions will help you and her quickly find the wine that matches the meal on the wine list.

3 respect her.

On this occasion, respecting her dining habits is the most important principle. Peter, a famous sommelier, is used to such a scene. He said to us: "A guest who knows proper business etiquette will ask me to be as independent as possible and help his guests choose their favorite drinks, even if he doesn't like them."

At the same time, the sommelier also gave us a coup when you face a long wine list: ordering a bottle of white wine with light taste and high market acceptance is a good start for women of any taste.

The order of pouring wine should be ladies first, men later.

Just because you order wine smoothly doesn't mean you can take it lightly. You should concentrate on her when eating. After opening the wine, the waiter will pour about an ounce of wine into the guest's glass for your final judgment. You should let her taste it first and wait for her to confirm it. After the formal tasting, the waiter pours the wine for the lady first, then for the man, then for the old man, then for the young man, and finally for the host. If she drinks all the wine in the glass and the waiter is not here, you should do the same. Don't be easy, fill yourself up first. How can we pay full attention to her needs? We offer the most practical advice: at that time, although she was your boss, she was even more a woman. You should treat her like any other woman, so that you can really have a free and easy attitude of neither supercilious nor flattering.

Third. Choose the right wine for the elders.

Eating and drinking with female elders often happens with their own mother or mother-in-law. They often say, "I am very happy today. Please order some wine and we'll drink it together. " Female elders prefer you to take the initiative to take care of drinks, which actually includes two situations: first, this is an opportunity for your mother to show it to outsiders-look at me, a particularly sensible child who will take care of the elderly. Second, this is an opportunity for your mother-in-law to secretly consider whether it is worth entrusting her daughter to you for a lifetime.

So, where should the care for female elders be reflected?

1 Be sure to pay attention to the possible harm that alcohol can do to their health.

Women who have no drinking habits on weekdays, especially those over 65, are more likely to damage their health even if they drink a little wine than when they were young. This is a warning about the health of the elderly published on the website of the National Institutes of Health. Adults who only drink a few glasses of wine have a higher proportion of alcohol in their blood than young people who drink at the same time, because the older they get, the slower they metabolize alcohol and the less water their bodies store. This is why even if your drinking habits are as usual, you will sigh, "How can you get drunk easily when you are old?" . Alcohol can worsen some age-related health problems, such as hypertension, diabetes, liver disease and memory problems. Moreover, the elderly usually take a lot of drugs, and the risk of interaction between alcohol and drugs will increase, which may lead to confusion, unstable walking, nausea or other problems. Walking unsteadily after drinking makes the elderly, especially the female elderly with osteoporosis, have an increased risk of fracture.

Only order healthy wine, drink less and drink slowly.

You should pay attention to the harm that alcohol may do to them, but it is a bit offensive to stop them from drinking in happy occasions. Drinking can make them in good condition in many aspects, including psychological and social behavior. This is what they often call "happiness". Social satisfaction and happiness are very important to their health. Order them red wine. The antioxidant components in red wine are basically recognized as beneficial to the body. The National Health and Medical Research Council of Australia recommended safe drinking standards that are also applicable to elderly women: the average daily drinking amount of women should not exceed 2 units, and the hourly drinking amount should not exceed 1 unit. Unit 1 contains 10g pure alcohol (equivalent to a can of 285ml beer), while the alcohol content of a glass of wine is about 8g.

Etiquette 4 on the women's wine table: First, accept the date until you arrive at the restaurant.

If you have to be late or even cancel the appointment after agreeing to the other party's invitation, you must inform the other party in advance. It is acceptable to be late for a meeting, but more than fifteen minutes will leave a bad impression that the other party does not attach importance to dating.

Don't pull a chair into your seat at the first time, because the other person may be ready to open a chair for you and give him a chance as a gentleman.

When sitting in a chair, sit up straight, lean back, look straight ahead, don't just lower your head to avoid each other's sight. Wrist (not elbow) can be naturally placed on the edge of the table. The distance between the chair and the table should not be too far. Otherwise, it will increase the chances of physical exercise when eating.

After the other person picks up the napkin, you can put it on your knee. If the napkin is big enough to be folded into a rectangle or triangle, then the smaller napkin can be placed directly on the thigh to prevent the juice from polluting the clothes when eating.

Second: when ordering.

You should choose the food you want to eat. If you have no idea after reading the menu, you can ask the waiter to recommend the restaurant's signature dishes for you, but make it clear. If you want to eat seafood, don't eat red meat. Remember that you can't make up your mind about everything. People who only know how to say "whatever" will only cause trouble to the guests at the same table.

Usually the waiter will stand next to the host's house (here is a man) and write down the dishes you choose. If you want to show respect to the other person, you can tell the man what you want, and then he will place an order with the waiter. This emphasizes the role of his host family and implies your trust in him.

Third: when eating.

There are many details to pay attention to when eating, but in fact most of them are daily etiquette. As long as you keep calm, don't fight, don't make noise, and don't interfere with others' eating, you are qualified. The following are some common mistakes and mistakes:

Before eating, gently print your lips with a corner of a napkin to reduce lipstick marks left on the cup.

If you need seasoning, but you can't reach it, you can ask the other person to pass it to you. Never stand up and lean forward to get it.

When drinking soup, sit up straight, don't lower your head and hold the spoon, but hold it to your mouth. Therefore, the soup should not be too hot, and each spoon should not be too full. More importantly, you should not make a sound when drinking. After drinking, you can pour out the bowl a little, which is convenient for scooping out the remaining soup.

Don't talk when you have food in your mouth, and don't drink water with food in your mouth, because it is impolite to wash food down with water.

If there are stains on the corners of your mouth or fingers, you can lightly print them on the corners of your napkin, but don't vigorously wipe them.

If you want to leave the table halfway, you can fold the napkin twice and put it neatly on the chair. Remember to fold the dirty party inward to avoid being seen by others? A napkin with a bad record.

Fourth: From the end of dinner to departure.

If you need makeup, you can choose the gap between one dish and another and explain it to each other in a low voice. Pulling hair, dressing and applying lipstick can only be done in the bathroom.

When you leave the table, you can put the napkin on the chair or table, and also put the clean side outward. At this point, the dinner test came to an end. Looking back on the two or three hours you have eaten, you will understand that you can handle a dinner at the head of state level as long as you keep relaxed and talk naturally.

Small details you should pay attention to on the wine table

1. When pouring wine for the first time, the host should personally pour wine for all the guests.

2. The order of pouring wine is counterclockwise.

3. After the guest finishes the first cup, the person opposite the host (that is, the second host) helps to add wine to the people nearby.

4, toast must stand up and raise a glass with both hands;

5, many people can respect a person, and no one can respect many people;

6, respect others, if you don't touch the cup, how much to drink depends on the situation;

7. Add more wine to the leaders or customers, but not to the leaders;

8. Respect others. If you clink a glass, by the way, I'll finish it, so be generous.

9. Pick up the glass (beer glass), hold the glass in your right hand and put the bottom of the glass in your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others.

10, if there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in time in order, and don't favor one over the other.

1 1, clink glasses, toast, have something to say;