The ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand.". In other words, if you don't learn "courtesy", you will have a way to gain a foothold in society.
1. What is good manners?
what we usually call "civilization" refers to people's behaviors that conform to social morality in social life. What is "politeness"? Politeness is the main content of civilized behavior, and its core is care and respect for others. Politeness is the most universal code of conduct in social life, such as "respecting the old and loving the young", "observing the public order" and "protecting the natural environment", which requires every member of society to abide by it.
second, politeness is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation
China is an ancient country of etiquette. The Chinese nation has always paid attention to friendly exchanges between people. Every descendant of the Chinese people has received a subtle education in manners since childhood.
courtesy means knowing manners, which means being polite.
Etiquette is the most basic code of conduct established by a country and a nation in order to maintain the social mode of production and social life, and it is a reflection of the moral outlook and social progress of a country and a nation. Whether everyone has good manners or not is an external beauty for individuals, which is manifested in whether a person has elegant temperament; For a nation, he is an indispensable part of the whole national style. In modern social life, politeness not only brings happiness and harmony to society and others, but also creates a loving environment, which brings happiness and warmth to oneself.
Nowadays, politeness has become an integral part of the investment environment and national image. For example, swearing, spitting, and littering with waste paper and dirt are seemingly trivial things, but they often affect the image of the country and the city, and affect the process of opening up and modernization. A city full of civilization and courtesy can bring happiness and confidence to people; No matter how good the facilities are, it is difficult to be orderly in a city that is not polite. It can be seen that civility and politeness not only shows personal image, city image and citizen quality, but also reflects the degree of civilization in this area to some extent.
China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and our ancestors have always paid attention to civility and politeness. Now, civility and politeness reflect the friendly relationship of mutual care and respect between people in today's society, and also reflect the level of citizens' own cultural accomplishment. The Code for Primary and Secondary School Students and the Code of Daily Behavior for Primary and Secondary School Students clearly stipulate the civilized and polite behavior of primary and secondary school students.
Third, the basic requirements of civility and politeness
1. Clothes should be neat and tidy, and it is forbidden to wear slippers to class or strange clothes to school.
2. Speak in a civilized language, and meet the requirements of "cross" in politeness, with the same word. The old coach is rebellious and calm, saying goodbye, saying "I'm sorry" when walking, and saying "thank you" when others help.
3. Respect teachers. Teachers should stand up to answer questions. Teachers should stand up to ask questions (teachers can only sit down when they sit down). Don't give teachers nicknames. Don't speak ill of teachers behind their backs. When teachers criticize and educate themselves, they should listen to them with an open mind and don't talk back.
4. Knock on the door or shout a report when you enter the office or other people's room. You can go in with permission, and you are not allowed to rummage through the things in the room.
6. Speak and behave in a civilized manner. Don't curse the street, talk dirty, quarrel, fight, smoke and drink or lie.