Reach out and don't hit a smiling face is a common saying, which means that you admit your mistake in the right direction and don't have the heart to hit others.

Mr. Wang, deputy secretary of the Party Committee of the Group, vice president and boss of catering company, recommended me several allusions that Wei Dong often quoted, one of which was "opaque". Wang Shuji has served as the director of the group office for many years and is very familiar with the allusions of Wei Dong. It is also meaningful for her to recommend this allusions to me.

Extended data:

It means that when you raise your hand and hit the wrong person, the other person is already apologizing to you with a smiling face. At this time, you can't stand it and are embarrassed to hit others again.

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I can't see my fingers-Baidu Encyclopedia