Wen/Faraway Mom
Mother's love is known as the world's greatest emotion, it is selfless, deep, and can withstand all harm. However, many times, mothers tend to have some small deviations when they get along with their children, resulting in frequent conflicts between parents and children. To be a good mother, is not a simple thing, need to baby moms constantly improve themselves, and children grow together.
Liu Xuan is a household name, Olympic gymnastics champion, she has a beautiful face, but also has the perseverance of a professional athlete, by the public favorite. Her husband, Wang Tao, is an outstanding musician, and the two are a golden couple with a marriage of culture and sports, a very good match.
Recently, Liu Xuan couple participated in a parent-child variety show, and her performance in the program triggered a hot debate. Due to the arrangement of the program group, Wang Tao needs to take care of his son alone, and Liu Xuan is afraid that her husband can't cope with it, so she found out the "Parenting Code" that she had organized. The eight books are thick, recording the son's weight, diet, and status changes every day from birth to now, which makes people admire him.
Liu Xuan's meticulous and caring nature is evident in these eight manuals. But when it comes to children, she is a "strict mother". When his son was lazy and didn't want to practice calligraphy, Wang Tao wanted to indulge his child, but Liu Xuan told him gently and seriously, "No matter how much you don't want to, you still have to finish the practice, so why not accept it happily at the beginning?
The division of labor in many families is the same as in Liu Xuan's, with mothers taking on most of the responsibility for caring for and educating their children, and baby daddies often busy earning money to support their families. How to communicate with the child, how to bring the child careful care, how to persuade the child to listen, are the treasure mother in the parent-child education often need to face the problem. We might as well take a look at what Michelle Liu did and learn some valuable parenting lessons from it.
2, everything to the child's health
The mother in the care of the child, need to pay attention to, everything should be done to the child's health. In addition to the timely detection of the child's physical changes, to reduce the possibility of disease, the mother should also pay attention to the child's mental health. In education, respect the child, protect the child's self-esteem, do not bring negative emotions to the child, protect the child's emotional stability and mental health.
3, good time planning
Moms and dads also need to do a good job of time planning, understand the growth of the child's law, and guide the child to do the right thing at the right time. The youngest children lack self-control and can't distinguish between right and wrong, so it's easy for them to think only about playing and avoiding learning activities.
Parents should do a better job of guiding their children and planning for their children's development.
Liu Xuan grew up in a gymnasium and had a career as a professional athlete for many years, and her professionalism, meticulousness, and perseverance were the best qualities engraved in her bones. After becoming a mother, she has brought these qualities to parenting as well, striving to learn to be a good mother and modeling good growth for her children.
1, gentle, but powerful
A good mother should be gentle and generous, will not let her emotions get out of control in front of the child, always face the child with a rational attitude to all. But gentle doesn't mean condoning the child to do whatever he or she wants, gentle at the same time, the mother should also have a certain strength. Faced with the child's unreasonable requirements firmly rejected, faced with the child's improper behavior resolutely corrected, to help the child gradually regulate self, into a good person.
2, meticulous, willing to tolerate
A good mother is like an ocean, meticulous and tolerant, willing to accept the child unconditionally. Even if the child's shortcomings and shortcomings, competent mothers will first accept, and then correct. Understanding the imperfections of the child, accepting the child as an ordinary person, willing to help the child to build on his strengths and avoid shortcomings, and strive to improve themselves.
3, respect, understanding of the child
For the child, the most trustworthy mother is to be able to respect their mother. Parental respect is the basis of healthy growth of children, respect for children have their own personality, respect for children have their own ideas, respect for children want to be independent of the will. When parents and children have a dispute, willing to understand the child, encourage the child to boldly try, so as to cultivate the child's independence of the excellent quality.
Although young children are still young, but self-awareness and brain development, in fact, has been basically completed. Mothers and fathers should not ignore their children's feelings, but should respect them, understand them, and communicate with them in a smooth mood, so that they can really educate their children well and become a qualified and good mother.
1, smooth communication with the child
The baby moms need to establish a smooth communication with the child, so that the child has a sense of trust, and is willing to talk to the mother. You can accompany your child in the daily life, let the child feel the love from the mother, keep close interaction between parents and children, and establish a relationship of mutual trust.
2. Don't nag and yell
Parents need to control their own temperament and get along with their children in a calm and rational manner, not nagging or yelling in front of the children.
3, the body is more than words
The mother needs to know, any way of education, are not more direct to the effect of the example. In the parent-child education, the simple reasoning, may say a hundred times, but not as much as the parents of the correct demonstration more effective.
The famous Hungarian music master Liszt said, "When I was a child, my mother always said that I was a good boy, and with such an exemplary mother who forgot to sacrifice herself, how could I not be a good boy?"
A good and competent mother has a direct and far-reaching impact on her children. It's no exaggeration to say that a lot of what kind of future a person can have comes from what kind of mother he has. So the mother needs to realize her own responsibility, in the parent-child education to learn to respect the child, to give the child careful and tolerant degree of care, with their own words and deeds to influence the child's thinking logic. This is a great way to help your child grow up and become a better person!