Have been divorced for more than a year, the ex-husband was originally in the same office, and then married, we both actually want to stay in the original department, but there must be a person to go, so I left and let him stay. But still in a unit, in a building office.

Then got divorced. After the divorce, I still met up occasionally because I worked in the same unit. It's really awkward to see each other within a year, and the more awkward it is at first, the better it will be later. Now when we meet, we have been a lot more open, do not greet and smile, just like strangers, and sometimes look at each other to prove that we have known each other.

Suggestions, in this case, if the divorce, you can have the opportunity to change a unit and does not affect the quality of their own lives and prospects for development, resignation for a job is not a simple and clean road. Because my ex-husband and I are in the system, an age, and then want to find a good way out is not an easy thing, and I'm now with children, and then another stove more difficult, but also does not rule out the possibility of leaving the job later.

The feeling is a slight inconvenience, but it's not a big deal. The more time passes the more it fades. If it is possible to get a new job clean, if it is difficult, it is not a big deal

One of the analyses and statistics is that extramarital relationships are the most common among coworkers. And between coworkers can be subdivided into female subordinates and male leaders, I also wrote this article, and male leaders of the extramarital affair why the most.

These are real case studies. If you analyze emotions as big data as well, there is probably nothing richer than what I have here. And of course it's just the tip of the iceberg. Most people don't write out their relationship stories, even if they've had as many great experiences as they can.

Actually, it is understandable, colleagues meet every day, a business trip, together with the opportunity to build a group, it would have been very easy to produce ambiguity, coupled with the emotional fatigue of marriage, or hormonal attraction, it is easy to develop a relationship.

But this kind of relationship also has a lot of dangerous places, the biggest danger is, one day you want to break may not be able to break. The biggest danger is that you may not be able to break it if you want to. Especially those in the system, you can't quit even if you quit your job, and you have to rely on this job to live, if you want to.